What is your take on this?

I recently broke up with female who has a negative attitude towards life and it wasn’t a healthy relationship for me to stay in. She has two children and lives in a house the she and her soon to be “ex” husband bought a year ago. Also, she quit her job even though I told her not to, and is now struggeling with $$ because unemployment rejected her claim for benefits (she quites). Her only income is a part time job. Her soon to be “ex” husband” does not want to pay for the bills they have together, and only pays child support when he wants to. I have my own place. However, I did stay at her house from time to time. We started arguing a lot towards the end mainly because she’s never happy and that mindset was on a daily basis. She and her own children admitted this to me that she has always been like that. My biggest problem was more so her financial situation. A few weeks ago an argument started because she believed I never helped her out with any of the bills. My view was that the bills where created by her and the (ex) husband and should be handled by themselves or even consider suing him for that. But she claimed, because I stayed at her house I should of payed the light, water, and so on. True, I do stay there, however, I have my own place (bills), and if it came down to it, I could of simply just visit her if that was the case. Besides, I offered for her to spend QT at my place but towards the end she insisted of me staying at her house. A few months back she called me cheap because I eased on my spending habits when we were going out to eat/dance/Ect. I always calculated on how much things cost… In any event, the last few months we have been on/off because she was so negative about everything. Even though I took her to places such as parks, different restaurants, movies, ect. We really had good/great times together, but the minute we got home or we left the place, I felt her negative energy taking over the relationship. It got to the point that she truly believed that my ex put a spell on her and decided to see some witch () who claimed that the reason our relationship didn’t workout was because my ex who put a spell on us… (rolling my eyes) so the witch gave her some water mixed with green/smelly stuff. One night when we took a shower she quickly threw some of that green/smelly stuff on me. My body and the entire freaking bathroom stunk (lol). This past Tuesday she broke it off with me because of a silly argument that she couldn’t get ahold of me on the cellphone. Now, here is the problem. I have been trying to let go (break up) with her for the last couple of weeks, maybe more… and every time I think I am able to let go… I get sucked back into her. It’s like something is holding me back from moving forwards in life and end up back right with her. I really thought that it was for good…. but for two days straight I received blocked calls but nobody said anything. This was going on up until yesterday evening she told me in a very angry tone that she cleaned her house and noticed a few movies missing (which she gave to me) and for me to mail them back to her, and wished me good luck going back with my ex… as I stated this to her to make sure she would back off once and for all. She attempted to call me back a few more times blocked but I refused to pick up. I haven’t received anymore calls since than. Even though I only believe in one higher being (GOD), I begin to think that this nut basket actually put some crazy vodoo/witch craft on me…. what is your take on this…….?? Thanks!


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What is your opinion……?

I recently broke up with female who has a negative attitude towards life and it wasn’t a healthy relationship for me to stay in. She has two children and lives in a house the she and her soon to be “ex” husband bought a year ago. Also, she quit her job even though I told her not to, and is now struggeling with $$ because unemployment rejected her claim for benefits (she quites). Her only income is a part time job. Her soon to be “ex” husband” does not want to pay for the bills they have together, and only pays child support when he wants to. I have my own place. However, I did stay at her house from time to time. We started arguing a lot towards the end mainly because she’s never happy and that mindset was on a daily basis. She and her own children admitted this to me that she has always been like that. My biggest problem was more so her financial situation. A few weeks ago an argument started because she believed I never helped her out with any of the bills. My view was that the bills where created by her and the (ex) husband and should be handled by themselves or even consider suing him for that. But she claimed, because I stayed at her house I should of payed the light, water, and so on. True, I do stay there, however, I have my own place (bills), and if it came down to it, I could of simply just visit her if that was the case. Besides, I offered for her to spend QT at my place but towards the end she insisted of me staying at her house. A few months back she called me cheap because I eased on my spending habits when we were going out to eat/dance/Ect. I always calculated on how much things cost… In any event, the last few months we have been on/off because she was so negative about everything. Even though I took her to places such as parks, different restaurants, movies, ect. We really had good/great times together, but the minute we got home or we left the place, I felt her negative energy taking over the relationship. It got to the point that she truly believed that my ex put a spell on her and decided to see some witch () who claimed that the reason our relationship didn’t workout was because my ex who put a spell on us… (rolling my eyes) so the witch gave her some water mixed with green/smelly stuff. One night when we took a shower she quickly threw some of that green/smelly stuff on me. My body and the entire freaking bathroom stunk (lol). This past Tuesday she broke it off with me because of a silly argument that she couldn’t get ahold of me on the cellphone. Now, here is the problem. I have been trying to let go (break up) with her for the last couple of weeks, maybe more… and every time I think I am able to let go… I get sucked back into her. It’s like something is holding me back from moving forwards in life and end up back right with her. I really thought that it was for good…. but for two days straight I received blocked calls but nobody said anything. This was going on up until yesterday evening she told me in a very angry tone that she cleaned her house and noticed a few movies missing (which she gave to me) and for me to mail them back to her, and wished me good luck going back with my ex… as I stated this to her to make sure she would back off once and for all. She attempted to call me back a few more times blocked but I refused to pick up. I haven’t received anymore calls since than. Even though I only believe in one higher being (GOD), I begin to think that this nut basket actually put some crazy vodoo/witch craft on me…. what is your take on this…….?? Thanks!


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Steps To Win My Wife Back

“What are the correct steps to win my wife back” you may ask. Many people would say that you should not try to get her back. However, they’re not always right, and they can’t know your specific information. They might have been hurt before and think it’s just best to move on after a breakup. If you ask them, “Do I want my wife back?” they’ll tell you what’s over is over and that there are plenty of fish in the sea.

But you can’t let people who have had setbacks and disappointment in love affect your determination. They’re bound to have a negative attitude. And it’s important that you have a positive attitude right now. If you are absolutely dedicated to getting your wife back again, then you’re really going to have to keep a good attitude.

Once you break up, it’s hard to get back together. If you’re still together and you realize things are going bad, it’s much easier to intervene then and save a relationship than if you want until the split has already occurred. That’s not to say that it’s hopeless after you break up, though.

But your attitude will have a lot to do with what happens. No matter how resistant she is to the idea of getting back together, you have to be calm and polite. You have to decide that you are getting back together and make sure that you always act as if that’s a given.

The hard part comes in when you don’t get back together any time soon and you have to keep on believing even though it looks less and less likely that you’ll get your wife back. But you have to if you want to give the relationship that one last chance.

Not every marriage can be saved. Simply thinking about getting her back is not enough to save a marriage. That’s only the very beginning. And it gets harder and harder as you go.

You have to face the fact that there’s a chance your wife won’t ever come back. That’s a hard truth to face, but it’s necessary. You have to decide that you won’t let yourelf become completely devastated if the marriage does not word k out.

There are other people out there, if this relationship doesn’t work out. It’s hard to think that way at first when you’re trying to stay so positive and focused on fixing the relationship. But you have to make yourself understand this.

If your wife doesn’t come back, you will not be alone for the rest of your life. You will be able to love someone else, and let them love you. Realizing this truth can be very liberating, because you come to know that no matter what happens, you’re not going to be alone. Your needs will be met, they’ll just be met by someone else.

If your answer to the question “Do I want my wife back?” is a strong yes and you’re ready to be positive, you may just end up surprised at how well it works.


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