We dated for almost 6 years. he started seeing someone 2 weeks before we actually broke up and got into a relationship with the other woman soon after. They dated for about 5 months until he decided that she is such a negative person and almost suicidal. He kept in contact with me halfway through their relationship then we finally hung out and he started to feel regret and slowly let her go but she would take drugs and threaten to kill herself if he left her. He had to stick around a bit longer and pretend to be her boyfriend until he could get past her negativity and leave her alone.
It has been almost 7 months since he ended his relationship with the negative girl & we’ve also been talking. We just recently discussed why he cheated and went through that phase. However, I still feel angry and disgusted that he had sex with her even though we weren’t together. I guess it’s because we were each other’s firsts and there was no one else. I don’t know how i’m going to get past this & trust him again.
I want to know why guys cheat after being in a long relationship then all of a sudden go back to us. How do I know he really regrets his mistake? I want to take him back, but not too easily… I just don’t know if what he’s showing me now is worthy of taking him back. How did you get your ex-girlfriend back after you cheated on her?
He gave me 4 promise rings that I wore almost everyday & I gave them back to him when we broke up. He wears one with my name on it everyday on his pinky. It even left a tan line on his finger. I told him that I couldn’t hold on to them for as long as we don’t have a relationship.
He’s taking me out on an official date this thursday to watch Goapele. She sang our song: Closer. I have a feeling that he’s going to ask me to be his girlfriend w/ the rings I gave back to him. As sweet as the setting may be almost perfect, I’m not sure if I am ready…
I dont want to take him back too soon to think that i’m that easy. Is 7 months a long time?
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We dated for almost 6 years. he started seeing someone 2 weeks before we actually broke up and got into a relationship with the other woman soon after. They dated for about 5 months until he decided that she is such a negative person and almost suicidal. He kept in contact with me halfway through their relationship then we finally hung out and he started to feel regret and slowly let her go but she would take drugs and threaten to kill herself if he left her. He had to stick around a bit longer and pretend to be her boyfriend until he could get past her negativity and leave her alone.
It has been almost 7 months since he ended his relationship with the negative girl & we’ve also been talking. We just recently discussed why he cheated and went through that phase. However, I still feel angry and disgusted that he had sex with her even though we weren’t together. I guess it’s because we were each other’s firsts and there was no one else. I don’t know how i’m going to get past this & trust him again.
I want to know why guys cheat after being in a long relationship then all of a sudden go back to us. How do I know he really regrets his mistake? I want to take him back, but not too easily… I just don’t know if what he’s showing me now is worthy of taking him back. How did you get your ex-girlfriend back after you cheated on her?
He gave me 4 promise rings that I wore almost everyday & I gave them back to him when we broke up. He wears one with my name on it everyday on his pinky. It even left a tan line on his finger. I told him that I couldn’t hold on to them for as long as we don’t have a relationship.
He’s taking me out on an official date this thursday to watch Goapele. She sang our song: Closer. I have a feeling that he’s going to ask me to be his girlfriend w/ the rings I gave back to him. As sweet as the setting may be almost perfect, I’m not sure if I am ready…
Is this a hint that he’s actually trying?
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My husband and I have been having maritial problems lately and a few weeks ago it got so serious that he decided he wanted a divorce. To make a long story short he recently has noticed a change in me and can’t decide if he wants to stay or go. I am trying so hard to work on myself and show the love that he deserves. He lost trust in me over the past year or so because he feels like I wasn’t giving him the love he needs and thus he fell out of love with me. I know it is possible to fall in love again with the same person but I need some ideas that I can use to get the spark back. He is a very negative person in general and says that he expects negative things to happen so I know it is going to be really hard to help him feel in love with me again. He also says that he doesn’t know how long I can keep it up… What are some more things I can do or say to help reignite the flame? We are still intimate.. but he has trouble kissing me on the lips or recieving kisses from me.
Sorry to be so vauge I just know people don’t like to read and read and read, anyway what I mean by changed is that I am being more loving, kind, friendly, considerate, and I have been doing a lot of reading about love and what it is. I am young so I thought that love never went away… he is not cheating I am almost possitive about that so anyone with good advice?
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I never really had the deep feeling for her, but I’m committed to her and our children. I’ve never cheated or strayed, but she’s been such a negative person and about a week ago we had a argument that just hit me dead center and it feels like something in me changed. I don’t know what, but I’m just not interested in her physically, emotionally, verbally or visually. Nothing. Be fine with me if she just didn’t come home anymore. Appearently it’s obvious and now she’s starting to question my feelings for her. What do I tell her? I’m just so tired of your crap that I want you to leave, leaving my with alimony, child support and less time with my little ones that fill my life? What the hell?
You shouldn’t be so quick to assume I should not have married her. Please, just stay with an honest answer to an honest question.
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