My fiance broke up with me to sleep with neighbor and then took me back, are they still talking?

I have been with him for over 2 years have a son and another one on the way with him. He admitted to deciding he wanted to sleep with my neighbor who has lived there a year(duplex) a week before he broke up with me blaming break up on me bc he intended to sleep with her and that he said things about me to her to make her feel sorry for him and get in her pants. It took him 1wk b4 he got in her pants. All week he led me to believe he was thinking about things I said and letting me come back while talking to her almost daily. He slept w her at 3 am after they got drunk together and when I came at 11am I saw hickies and confronted him. He let me come back that day. I cant seem to get over that he planned it out and lied and made me feel horrible to sleep with her bc he was curious. What else is he capable of? Could he still be talking to her eventhough he insists he does not? His son told mine that he talks to her when I am gone and I don’t know about but he denied it…how can I tell if she is lying too? I do not wanna be in a triangle!!! He also promised to move but I can’t tell there has been any effort in 3 months. Help!!!


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i need some revenge or at least some satisfaction – ex-girlfriend?

I dated my best friend and neighbor`s wife`s sister. She lives far away but we met at the wedding. We both had other people at the time and broke up with them to be together. She was very convincing with her "I love you and this was meant to be" garbage. She dumped me over the phone and has the balls to be coming to visit my buddy and his wife and stay for 2 weeks WITH her ex-boyfriend whom she is now back with. I know I`ll see them in the elevator or in the neighborhood for sure. I lost my job because of her as well but that story is way too long. I`m trying to move on but seeing them is gonna be rough since I`m the one who still isn`t working. I just don`t want to hide and I always thought that if I could find a job and get my life on track, maybe she`d come back to me. I`m an idiot right? Is it wrong for me to want some sort of revenge. its also a sore spot in my buddies marriage. no lectures, just advice please.
great advice. i guess "revenge" wasn`t the right word. I don`t want to hurt anyone. I just don`t need this right now and i know the correct solution is to forget about it and move on. but it sucks. no revenge. i just wanted it to be over but its hard when they`re gonna be right here.

also, to clarify, she convinced me to quit my job and move to where she was. when i got there, she said she changed her mind so i moved back here. that was the worst part.

great advice everyone. thanks.



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I do not need more friends to help this situation makes me ill?

Hi friends watch, we need more than one board, because my life is a balance on uneven ahunque all the time makes me strong and watch everything from "sideways", 1 years ago 1 / 2 my ex partner left me a consequence of its flia or so I gather all the time awful consequence of moments lived, she know her lifetime (he was my neighbor from her 5 year old) now we are young, until we reached the grooms favorite moment of my life left 2 years (if my best friend was my wife) and the third Reliz together a plan to drink a vat being as beautiful in my soul, she dreamed of marriage and become old together, the house I was working it would look .. Finally, after his decision and stupid arguments (the flia me off because she is very fragile) Whatever happens, the blow anemic me to make crazy stuff like "manochantas" they told me that she bewitched, finally .. my life hit me in the face to the floor, try to get ahead but the friends in common (thousands), or talking about me and I killed her, not 5 months and saw that she was away but over time the junction will 8meses talk, cry, told me that I would make it worse, I pull the drug, not helped me, my life, but that leaves minimal talk I get up, I went back to working order. . for two months a friend told me that the cross and found to have a boyfriend .. what a month, to cry, I went back to drugs, leave me until my friends lifted me
(no friends in common who lived similar situations), but I hate I can not have provided the cross, I know, is working is because she told me endonde
, it is not anything more than comments, or birds flia me my account, I forgot the day, another memory, from this forum before and I dream too much with it but that is another issue, she was very cruel to me but was the only person in the world q I said I love you with heart and wept Ahun love … and always remember some of it escapes me when I advise my friends .. but this does not get more .. And I come into your facebook PORQUE SE PORQUE NO SE QUE ME HARE MAL! I see now as I squeeze the chest and the heart thing! cry .. do not know if the still vague .. I was at this time with girls all the time but I see it … if I’m not mad or that but I did not mass, I cry and nobody listens to me .. his indifference is a dagger .. (Delete your CEL, ME removed MSN ETC ETC) I would do the same for me but I swear but I do have it .. inside me .. (pardon me broke): (
Nothing, this coming Saturday for a party and I know she’s pregnant, I killed almost mori me down, I shall not despair, I feel useless stupid to know that one in 4 months which I think leads regarding what she is given I always quito for it, baby I remember everything .. and stupid as weeping.
They told me many things "out of sight I do not think so," she was already past and you do not understand what I think you get wrong, "I’m not on the floor .. .. this is amazing, is not it .. I feel so normal .. it’s normal to drop your arms to my world I was sobered to reconstructed? blind is normal for me this way?
I am 23 years professional
He has 21 years and is used for private advertising
It is little I can say I appreciate HELP .. thanks



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How do i fix things with my girlfriend (ex)?

its a long read, and i am sorry, but please, help me. if you need any more details that will help you give me a better answer, please ask me, i need all the advice i can get. okay, so first to describe my girl. she’s independent, smart, and has some commitment issues (not talking about cheating or anything, but sticking with someone) she has been hurt before about 2 years ago, and is now skeptical of letting me in again.
heres the situation: me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 4 months. we have had little to no disagreements, and always got along well. about a month into the relationship, she was scared of it getting too serious, and she broke it off. i didn’t give up because i really care for her and love what we had together. about a week later, she figured her stuff out, and we got back together. everything has been fine since about 3 weeks ago. she told me that she was not ready for a serious relationship, and she was telling the truth. (not like she used it as an excuse to break up, she still had MUCH feelings for me. ) she said she needed some time to think about things and try to let herself know that she is ready for this kind of realtionship. she also said, that we need to be more casual for a while, so we can base our realtionship upon a good friendship. ive put up with the emotional roller coaster for these 3 weeks. we occasionally kissed, and a weve hung out a few times. we still regularly saw each other at school, just not as much. and now, another wrench has been thrown in the picture. about 1.1/2 months ago, i had some friends over at my house, along with a neighbor and her friend. now this neighbor is a "pretend slut". she gets with guys, and has a different bf like all the time, but she never will actually go anywhere with a guy besides kissing them. (but we are just friends). we all went swimming in the saltwater close to my house, so we came in and took showers to wash off the salt after we finished swimming. while i was in the shower, my this girl opened the door, and came in. she had her bathing suit on, and she decided to get into the shower. her friend followed, and (her friend) proceeded to take her clothes all the way off. i did not touch them at all, nor did i let them touch me. i simply went with it, and didn’t say much about it after. i finished, and got them out of the room and got dressed, (end of story) well now, as of yesterday, my girl found out about this whole shower thing from some kid who she’s never met xcept over facebook. now, she has lost a lot if not all trust in me, and dosnt know if she can forgive me. (thats what she told me)
i LOVE her, but not the common high-school meaning of love thrown around so easily nowadays. but i DO know i truly love this girl, because if i didn’t, i wouldn’t have been patient with her in the first place and i wouldn’t have let her back the first, and the second time she hurt me. i still think, deep down she loves me too, because right before she found this information out, she came up to me at school and said "i DO love you, i REALLY do. i just want some time alone so i can figure things out, just give me a few more weeks." she said that <—., which makes me think she deep down does STILL love me. even after this whole shower thing. something i dont understand, is how i have given her my love and shown my love through the many chances i have given her to think her stuff through, and how much i have forgiven her for breaking up with me in the beginning, and also just recently like 3 weeks ago, yet she wont give me JUST 1 chance to start fresh and let me back in.

my questions are:

how do i gain her trust back?
once that happens, how do i get her to give me a second chance?
how do i fix the rest of it?
i think that if we can work through this, it will make our relationship MUCH MUCH stronger.


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Need advice on breaking up?

I need a way to say the following items but in a way that my wife will understand:

1. Your intelligence is on par with the domestic ass.

2. Wear clothes that fit you.

3. When you are sleeping you saw logs so loudly that my neighbor complained to me about it.

4. Get out and exercise you lazy cow.

5. If you are stopping by to pick me up to go somewhere get off your no good ass and walk to the apartment instead of sitting in your car out front and honking the horn.

6. The only thing we have in common is that we enjoy being intoxicated on Friday night.

7. Why can’t you get the point when I told you that the only reason I asked you out in the first place was because I already had four shots of tequila.

8. You cough so loudly my floor shakes when you do it… Are you going to cough up some unknown life form out of that lung? Is that why you are shaped like a damn watermelon?

9. I stopped calling you. I stopped coming over to your place. Why can you not take this as a hint?

10. Sex is horrible with you. I definitely wouldn’t of hit that if I was sober at the time. There are fat flaps around your cooter. You have to make the Moses parting the red sea movement to move this camel-toe-esque fat lobs out of the way to get the job done.

11. You cannot get the hint when I say this isn’t working you keep calling and showing up. What the hell is wrong with you???

12. I have hit on other girls in front of you… Ones that are actually attractive and you still cling to me.

13. I find it really retarded that you think that it is perfectly acceptable to drive around a car with no insurance and without a driver’s license.

14. Why don’t you try to drag yourself out of white trashiness?

15. Oh yeah, one last thing, why do you think it’s acceptable to go the bar every night, don’t get me wrong I love going on the weekends, maybe one night in the week occasionally (If I had a bad day at work), but every goddamn night? Are you seriously trying to be a freakin’ drunk???

Anyone got any advice on communicating these views to this girl so that she will comprehend them please for the love of God and all that is holy and right in the world please tell me how to pound this into her oversized and under-developed head!!!


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