I dated my best friend and neighbor`s wife`s sister. She lives far away but we met at the wedding. We both had other people at the time and broke up with them to be together. She was very convincing with her "I love you and this was meant to be" garbage. She dumped me over the phone and has the balls to be coming to visit my buddy and his wife and stay for 2 weeks WITH her ex-boyfriend whom she is now back with. I know I`ll see them in the elevator or in the neighborhood for sure. I lost my job because of her as well but that story is way too long. I`m trying to move on but seeing them is gonna be rough since I`m the one who still isn`t working. I just don`t want to hide and I always thought that if I could find a job and get my life on track, maybe she`d come back to me. I`m an idiot right? Is it wrong for me to want some sort of revenge. its also a sore spot in my buddies marriage. no lectures, just advice please.
great advice. i guess "revenge" wasn`t the right word. I don`t want to hurt anyone. I just don`t need this right now and i know the correct solution is to forget about it and move on. but it sucks. no revenge. i just wanted it to be over but its hard when they`re gonna be right here.
also, to clarify, she convinced me to quit my job and move to where she was. when i got there, she said she changed her mind so i moved back here. that was the worst part.
great advice everyone. thanks.
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Okay, well I had a boyfriend over the summer. I had liked him for about 6 months before we went out. We went out for a month and a half. (I’m 13 and he’s 14) So we got in trouble in our neighborhood and he had to move. Since he had to move, I broke up with him because I didn’t know how much I would see him. When we broke up he cried. I felt really bad. but I didn’t know if I could trust him. I still talk to him a lot. I miss him, and I want him back. I was texting him the other day and I told him I missed him, and we needed to hang out and he said he missed me too, and we did need to hang out. He sent me the song "Fall For You" bye Secondhand Serenade. My uncle [my ex met my whole family. He went with me on Fathers Day to my uncles moms house.] was telling me about how I could have my ex back like ‘that’. And I do want him back, I miss him. What should I do? Do I have a chance?
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I was thinking about posting flyers on telephone poles with my ex girlfriends face saying have you seen this psycho-hoe notify:(enter her phone number and address) in her neighborhood.
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I found it in my documents while cleaning out my computer. I always wanted to become a writer and i did but i want to know how my start was. Heres the second chapter.
CHAP 2-Home: Adam approached Walnut Street with happiness. He was feeling particularly happy on this day, and couldn’t figure out why. He saw one of his neighbors walking her lab, and he ran to pet it. The lab was named Maximillion, and everyone loved it. It had the biggest brown eyes. It always smelt like fresh flowers, and its fur was never in knots or curls. He smiled at the woman, whose name was Rosaline. She was a middle aged woman who was actually friendly to the kids in the neighborhood. She even brings out fresh baked cookies and milk and leaves them on a table outside her house. “Well Adam, you’ve certainly grown taller over the summer” she said in her old dry voice. “Well you’ve grown older over the summer” Adam joked. In this community it was okay to say jokes and make playful fun about someone. Rosaline threw back her head and hollered out a laugh. She then grabbed his cheeks “Well you’ve become a smart alec”. He laughed and said goodbye. He walked over to his house. His father had a meeting today and his mother didn’t get home until 6pm. He cursed himself when he got to the front mahogany door. He had forgotten his key in his room. But it was fine because his father always left a spare key under a flower pot on his porch. He struggled to lift the flowerpot. When he finally got it up and moved it, a worm squiggled under the pot. He didn’t wish to harm it like most boys. He picked it up and gently put it down in the top of the pot. It buried itself down in to the fertile soil. He grabbed the key and brushed the dirt off of it. He moved the pot back to its original spot. He sunk the key into the door. It opened perfectly because his father had just recently installed the door. He stepped into the quiet house. He kicked off his muddy sneakers. He took the candy bar out of his pocket. He began unwrapping it and called his mother. He talked about how his day was and how her day was still going. He said I love you and hung up. He took a bite of the creamy milk chocolate. He filled his mouth with joy. He decided to do his homework and get it out of the way. He stomped up the stairs carrying his 15pound book bag. The only things he had for homework was to do a 200word essay about how Abraham Lincoln tried to get the Union back together and a…….. he turned into his room, and saw a man sitting in his computer chair looking at him. The man was a young man who had a on a black turtleneck and black sweatpants. Adam dropped his book bag. It landed with a thud on the hardwood floor. The man stood up and was surprisingly tall. He moved towards Adam with a look in his eyes that wasn’t really evil but more of a comforting look. The man had a long slender face. He had on black leather gloves that showed the boniness of his fingers. He stopped 5ft. in front of Adam. Adams bones were frozen but did not want to run away. He could not speak. The man spoke in a soft voice. “I saw you admiring my work”. Adam grew even stiffer, and he knew the man was the man who killed the man this morning. The mans eyes shifted from Adam to his chocolate bar. “Is that chocolate?” Adam still couldn’t speak, but he nodded his head. “May I?”Adam didn’t know what the man wanted but he handed him the chocolate bar. The mans lips touched the bar and his eyes widened. “I haven’t hade chocolate in 10years.” Adams voiced opened and he spoke. “I…I..a….wh..who are you?” The man looked at him puzzled and then he threw the chocolate bar at the wall and grabbed Adam by the arm. The man had a fearsome and strong grip and Adam tried to struggled out. The man turned him around and bent him over on the bed. Adam was afraid that the man might rape him and he shut his eyes tight. Who am I? the man asked. “I am an angel”. Adam knew the man as going to kill him. He said prayers in his head. The man pulled softly at adams hair. “Do you want to be saved”
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he had been with for over three years. He decided to leave the relationship and live in a state with no family of his own to be with a girl ( with a jail record and who is known in her neighborhood as easy) and her child over his own flesh. He chooses to see his daughters once a month, if he could ,instead of being a constant father figure as he is for another man’s child. After being there for his first born (who is born on his birthday) for seven months of her life, he now says he was not ready 2b a father. What type of statement is that if you are viewed as a provider (bought a home for this girl and her child) for another man’s child? Do you understand this? Would you neglect your own flesh to be apart of someone elses? Men please let me know.
Ranger D you must be the person whom im talking about. Again I just had two babies with months of each other. Again, our relationship should hold no bearing on his relationship with his babies. You seem to be guilty of neglecting your children but thanks for your immature and not knowing what ur talking about answer.
I am 100% positive he can not stand me and he never did. Weather his is happy is questionable but i guess you think you know he is. Jealousy over my babies of course but you will never be apart of their lives WHORE
To superKitten, I read read questions you wrote and I see you’re crazy. But thank you for not knowing what ur talking about.
Again to super Kitten, you are obviously hurting to be so hurtful to someone you do not know. I see many of your questions you ask is about sucide. Your anger explains why you are suicidal. You do not know me to judge me. If your experience with men has made you bitter then instead of asking about suicide see a psyciatrist. You have ABSOLUTELY no idea what you’re talking about. No one is perfect but a person’s imperfection should not allow others to treat them badly especially innocent babies. Your imperfections got you asking questions about suicide.
SuperKitten, what are you talking about. You have no idea what you are talking about! The other person’s child is NOT his, he just met her and her child is older so please do not talk what you do not know. You are talking about me and did not address the question. You have no clue what you’re talking about and I did not pick on Ranger, I just enlightened him further about his situation is not the same because his kids are older. You obviously have no problem with adultery, which they are both doing, and you obviously have no problem with children getting hurt for self-fish reasons. You started with the attack, look at your first sentence. I will not stoop to your level because what I have learned thru it all is if someone is being cruel, do not minimize yourself to be like them, just get rid of the negative energy. Believe me when I say, if you knew it all you would be sanging a different tune. I do not have to specify to you.You gave your answer and I appreciate it.
you speak of death and suicide and your energy is does not fit mine. You do not have to be a horrible person to be treated horrible. There are good people who get used , scamed and mistreated by horribe people.
One last thing "super kitten" my "stupid question" maybe a personal questions for others. Like the say in school, no question is stupid question because someone might have the same one in mind. Again just reading your Q&A and your comment here, you are a bitter person and a hypercrit. If you felt the question was "stupid" then why answer it? One might consider your questions stupid and a bit crazy. Should they judge you w/o knowing what they are talking about? You’re just one of many so I will ignore you, because as I said, I learned my lesson about minimize my character to stoop to levels beneath me.
Again you are messing the point. It shows you need to stop passing judgement without knowing everything. I asked a specific question, period. I did not have to tell anyone that he left me with a 7 mnth old and 3 months pregnant or even that he allowed our house to foreclose and left me and his infant daughter w/o adequate housing all because he says he went into something w/o being ready. His reasons or new life has no bearing on the one he created. They should be erased because he made a "mistake". I should not have to explain how her refuses to pay child support because he feels they do not need that much and is now questioning his daughter’s parternity because he feels it will delay his support order not caring how it may one day make her feel. Before you judge me, yes we argued but I never cheated nor disrespected him. My attack on this "innocent girl" as you put it is just because she stepped foot in my home while I went to visit my mother. At the time I was clueless.
Even if I was the type to miss with a married man, I would never step foot in another woman’s home nor would I make it difficult for him to see his kids if I could not be present. Again you made judgement calls that 1-had nothing to do with the ques. asked and 2- did not need explaining. We are in court and I have moved on. You saying I want him back, where was that in the ques? You saying the other girl kid is his, when we just moved to the state he met her in, where is that asked in my question, and her treating him better because I was horrible to him, where was that asked. If you really want to know his own family members are the ones who helped me see he was living a double life. My response to Ranger was due to his comment of my weight, when I specified his 18mnth old and 2mnth old.Do the math. Like my mother use to tell me " stop and think before speaking" .
running another woman down? that only fits if I am making false comments. Again talking what you do not know. She is far from a woman and anyone who KNOWS THE SITUATION says the same even those who are related to him. Please stop wasting your time insulting those you have no clue about. My reason for bringing up her true characteristics were for MEN to address based on her qualities. It was not said out of "jealousy" or making false statements. I have no reason to be jealous of her. She’s not even on my level.
Date: Fri, 01 Jun 2007 13:27:36 -0400
From: "June McF
To: "M PIERRE-LOUIS" <mpierre_louis0827@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: We miss you
You are better off without him. Your kids deserve to be love and cared
about. That paternity test is just to stall for time. I believe in
carma. What you do comes back to you. He will be very sorry for doing
this. I’m just sorry you have to suffer in the mean time.
This is a real email from an old neighbor who knew both of us and his own close netword says the same. I have no other comment to you but stop attacking people without knowing what you are talking about. Answer the question at hand. If you need to be rude because "you feel the question asked is "stupid" then use your intelligence towards questions that are suitable for you. thank you for telling others that it is ok to mistreat people, even those who are innocent for totally selfish and unjust reasons.
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