Hello,

I came across this forum looking for some information. I wanted to just basically get everyone’s opinion about the whole situation. My gf has been living with me for about 2 months, she has recently found out she is pregnant. I believe she is about 2 months or so pregant. My gf cheated on my in December with her ex bf….I am scared she is still seeing him because he may possibly be the father, if they place the pregnancy conception back to the end of December. Over the past week my gf has became very distance, we haven’t had sex for a week. She treats me bad. Last Thursday she was gone all day up there where she is from, she came home and told me she felt fine. I came home from work and she said she was sick. I also noticed strange stains in her underwear (like they had been soaked) She cheated on me before badly and I wouldn’t put it past her again. I wonder if she is keeping her ex in the picture because he may be the father? Help!!! Thanks in advance for your opinion
She has lied to me before many times. I have even recently been using some "unconventional" methods to try to find out the truth. I have been placing a tape recorder in her car and using a program on my PC to log her activity. The worst thing was when her 7 year old nephew said she was talking to her ex. I don’t know how a kid could possibly come up with this….unless he did hear or see something. Despite all she has done to me in the past I do love her, I kinda feel like she is using me for a place to live and she is gonna keep lying to me until I blow up. She even acts like she doesn’t care about us at all anymore. I just wish she would tell me if she is seeing him so I won’t end up catching a disease. She told me in an argument the other day that "she doesn’t need me" This is a girl that is supposed to be having my baby….*sigh*



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What do you guys think about long distance relationships?
well me and this dude have been dating for a month im 16 and he’s 24 (age is just a number to us)
He has one son who is 4yrs old and apparently he liked me a year ago when he saw me on his baby momma’s myspace but anyway I can tell he’s like really into me by how many times he says "I love you" and stuff but I like NEVER had a real relationship and like I feel like I do love him but I also Feel like somethings missing is it because I don’t see him alot?
then my prom is coming up and my ex asked me then i look back at all the fun times I had with my ex should I stay with the dude I am dating or go back to my ex im not the type to cheat or keep things from my man but i just don’t know what to do anymore

im about to be 17 and when I said I never had a Real Relationship is bc my parents won’t let me date yet! but I sneak out from time to time and I see my ex in school

him and his baby momma broke up for reasons she was 25 but I don’t think he would do that to me Im not that into sex cause I had a bad past and I explained that to him and he was very understanding about it

Please Help I luv my bf but I want to see my ex!!

I have a 4yr nephew and a 1yr nephew that I babysit alot and I have been with my ex who has a son who just turned 1yrs old and I was great w/him


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I am 23 years old, and brought up in a joint family in Kolkata. Radhika is my father’s cousin younger sister, who is just 5 years senior to me. Although she is my aunt in relation, our relation is just like friends… she even takes care of me like making tea for both of us and serving me food, and driving me to my college. She gives me pocket money….
She is indeed a very ( in fact the most ) beautiful bengali woman….and very modern too. She dresses up in sleeveless T-shirts and jeans most of the time,whether she is out or in the house.She dresses in these even when she drives me to my college. I discuss all my problems with her and so does she….She has been my best fiend all these years and I have respected her and been very affectionate about her. The problem started 3 months ago when our family went to a trip to Goa. 6 rooms were booked all total,and except she no other woman was in the trip. Naturally, she decided to take me with her due to shortage of rooms… When we went to bathe in the ocean, I was simply shocked to see her in a bikini for the first time…she was simply awesome !!! Her figure, her hips her legs are so perfectly shaped….i didn’t know that i was crossing my lines about thinking about her.But she seemed normal. I touched her elbows and hair, but she didn’t mind.That night , Icouldn’t sleep that night, but kept staring at her lovely sleeping innocent face. I fell in love with her.. Last week we went to Aquatica together (a water sporting club in Kolkata ) and I saw her all wet in her bikinis once again..she doesn’t have that much consciousness that her "little friendly" nephew is a man now. She goes to her office after dropping me to college in her car,but when she is inside my college premises, I become jealous thes edays when any other person looks at her with lustful Eyes…
I have also started masturbating thinking of her. And whenever I get a chance, I smell her
hair, or the smell from her elbow crease… IS THIS LOVE ?
I ALWAYS THINK ABOUT HER AND I LOVE HER GODDAMNED SO MUCH….
SHOULD I PROPOSE TO HER ? I KNOW THIS IS INCEST ,WHICH IS A SIN BUT I AM SO HELPLESS…
PLEASE HELP ME…PLEASE


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Your Male

I’m not here to call you names that sound derogatory
My vow was to protect you in known & unmarked territory
You’ll have my support no matter if you succeed or fail
I am your brother, your guardian, your father, your male

I entered this world to complete your aura
To turn your life from a tundra into a flora
To make your life more effervescent than ginger ale
I am your son, your nephew, your darling, your male

I’m with you through the easy things & the hardest works
I’ll enter your deepest cavern where an orgasmic feeling lurks
I’ll be your sunbathing spot or shelter from falling hail
I am your husband, your lover, your rock, your male

Mixing with you is in my chemistry from morning to dusk
My essence attracts you with a deep hard smelling musk
I can make things sweet again after you thought they were stale
I am your testosterone, your masculinity, your sugah, your male

The book is called, "Poetic Eyez" written by Raymond A. Hiraldo. Gotta give the guy his credit, ya know? :) I for one loved this poem from the book. The pictures in it are really cool too! This poem did to me what Maya Angelou’s "Phenomenal Woman" poem did to me. I loved her poem soooo much.
Oh wow. I didn’t think other people were going to hate this poem that much. Sorry Raymond, wherever you are. I still think Raymond’s writing is good. You guys should give the other writings in his book a chance, even though some of you may not consider them as "poetry."

Well, at least you guys got some type of reaction from this poem, sorry y’all.

Good luck out there Raymond, sorry dude.


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i have a 3 almost 4 year old nephew who i feel is sexual towards me. i know this sounds crazy, but he will purposly pretend to fall or grab something just to touch my breast. he will touch the lower part of my back (forever, if it were up to him) (if i let him, but i dont b/c it freaks me out). when i say he touches my back, i mean, he will come over when im sitting or standing and start put his hand on my back and if i tell him to stop he gets mad and i have to force him to stop. he tried to pull down my pants when i was getting up once and looked at my butt. it really freaks me out and makes me uncomfortable. i try to make him stop and tell him not to do it (and he knows it’s bad), but he wont stop. he used to do a humping motion when he touched my back, but he seems to have stopped. how do i handle this? his mom doesnt think it’s sexual and i do, especially with the breasts. when he starts touching he always wants a kiss or hug. i feel weird giving him either. what do you think??
i think he saw his dad having sex (my sister is divorced to his father) because his dad is a pervert when it comes to women. trust me, im not imagining this! even my husband has noticed and he only does this to me! every single day he does this. it’s been going on since he was around 2.
oh yeah, also, when he touches my back he tries to touch my stomach and eventually he will go towards the breasts and he tries to pull my shirt up. i have to struggle with him to get him to stop.


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