ok I know this has been a while ago and I have been trying my hardest to forget about my ex but I cant shes constantly stuck on the back of my mind and i see constant reminders of her nd things. It was about two nd a half months ago she broke up with me on seemingly good terms. then about a week later she was wif a new guy which hurt so tried to move on.
Truth is she was wif him for a month before she broke up with me. she doesnt no that i no that she cheated. we havent spoke since I just let her go thought she rushed the decision so i feel i just let her get away without reasoning etc.she sent me a bday text but my friend said not to reply then went on to explain the cheating so i didnt reply.
anyways so ive been out like nearly every nite constantly doing things to try get her off my mind but she doesnt budge, ive been looking to meet new girls aswell still no luck on that part but still looking.
my friend G nd his gf where up town today and they bumped into her and she was with the guy she cheated on me with.my friend Gs gf went to school with her its how I met my ex.They were talking for ages Now they are all going out this friday and some of her friends and one of my and Gs friends is goin. My friend Gs gf is trying to get mine and gs friend matched up wif one of my exs and Gs gfs friends.
So now I feel like S**** cause my close friends will be hanging out with my ex nd that guy. nd there friends.its the way it used to be before we broke up wed go and have a good time with r friends.
I dont no wat to do about the cheating thing with regards my ex. How do i get her of my mind, im trying everything.do i talk to her?I feel bad as well that we havent spoke she said to be friends.I just wish it didnt happen the way it did be so much easier.I treated her rite I thought she was perfect nd trusted her, so im shocked nd dont no her now. I dont get how she didnt say to me aswell with the guilt etc.she must feel bad about herself but she doesnt no i no.wat do?advice please.
also makes me sick because we never got round to doing "it".it would have been r first time for both of us and I was her first boyfriend.so I feel sick at the fact that they probly have r have wen I was with her.
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My girlfriend is pretty much through with me but I feel like the relationship can be saved and she has agreed to talk one last time. She is very agrumentive around me and doesnt want to be aroung me at all. She says she does not love me anymore and hates me for who I am. What steps can I take to give her more space and have her more comfortable around me?
These are a few issues we have but the major one is I need to stop being so clingy and give her freedom to do what she wants. The more I stop her the more she wants to!
1. she is a hostess and goes out with clients for dinner dates. Solution: I told her not to but now I am good with it.
2. she goes out with her friends every weekend. She meets new girls and guys. My problem with this is she did it 3 times a week and never went out with me. Solution: Give her the space to meet new people and make new friends. After awhile she will want to go with me.
3. Try to be friends. Get out of her face and try not to live her life.
3 continued: stop telling her what to do and just be supportive of her.
4. Get my own life. I have a new job now. I am more busy.
5. tell her not to marry anymore.
I guess my problem is I am a control freak. I have been improving and it is showing. I dont want to say I love her, give her gives and buy her off. I want her to come to me out her own free will.
Tonight will be tough. women usually get set on a decision and dont change their minds.
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I fell in love with a girl and she also loved me and then we got married. But after 2 weeks of marriage, she had to move to different continent so due to living in 2 different continents, we broke up. She says she now "NO MORE LOVES" me. (divorce is not in writing/orally). But its break-up.
But, practicaly, she will remarry one day and same i will have to remarry. I have met many girls afterwards and dating etc. And a couple of girls told me they are in love with me but I dont feel love for any of new girls. Moreover, I think they are "lieing" becaz i cant trust any new girl if she says she loves me.
Now how can i "love" any new girl? Becaz everytime i am dating or gossiping with any new girl, i THINK ABOUT my ex. I still love her (from my heart no matter what happened). Should I remarry without love. If I do, it will be shallow marriage. Becaz i can fulfil physical needs but not emotional needs (feelings) of any new wife.
Pls advice what to do.
i am 30………some friends say if i dont remarry now iwill be old and then no young lady will come even"near" me.
a very very pretty girl met me and now says she’s in love with me and have started "hopes" with me. I really dont find love for her either. I dont know if she really loves me or is just like the ex.
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I have no problems getting new girls but I just want my ex girl back I loved her so much I would have done anything for her.But she moved on and she dont want me back and I’m going crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!
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My ex-girlfriend and I went out for almost 4 months (July – October). We never fought or had any serious arguments. Although we go to different colleges that are not too far away, we made sure we still saw each other, and of course we texted/talked everyday. Suddenly, just out of the blue, she said her feelings changed and she had to break up with me. I asked if I did anything wrong and she said no. I know for a fact that she didn’t cheat on me. Now almost a couple months have gone by and I still haven’t been able to really move on. I’ve gone out, hung out with other girls, met new girls, but nothing feels right. I also know that she hasn’t found anyone new. She’s very pretty but also shy and she’s not really a "party" girl. I’ve talked to her 4 times since the breakup and everytime I try have a serious conversation about getting back together she just gives short responses and tells me to stop. But if I talk in a friendly, regular, "what’s up..how’s it going?" type conversation, she seems to be fine. We both live in towns fairly close to one another, and with winter break coming up, I’d like to try to pursue her again and convince her of what she’s missing. Can anyone give me advice? Should I continue this "friendly" approach and see where it goes?
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