my fiance broke up with me the night after my sisters wedding and said mean things to me and then broke up with me at 4:00 am and came back to my house the next morning crying and saying he didnt mean a word of it and he wanted me to take him back. but the things he said were REALLY hurtful.
First off i Would like to say this is the first time I am posting on this forum site, so i hope that i get this right.
To get started I was injured at my job on Mon. feb 22, 2010. I was lifting a 70 lb. peice of metal and as I was picking it up I sneezed.(I know sneezed but it happened) It hurt like all hell laid on the ground for about half an our let my boss know, who by the way did NOT file an injury report, and woke up the next morning not able to roll out of bed. Then when I was finally able to reach for my phone,3 hours later, called the shop supervise, who is above my boss, and told him what happened asked if i should make a doctors appointment for go to a chiropractor that day so I could get a note. He told me to go the the chiropractor, so I did and it cost me because they did not take insurance…. First mistake I guess… So, she told me that I tweaked my back and to take the rest of the week off. In the mean time I was talking with my parents and they told me to make an appointment with my doctor so I did for the following Tues. and used up all of my holiday pay for those couple of days. Then my doctor tells me that I have severe back spasms and a possible ruptured disc he per scribed me a tone of pills, 4 every 6 hours, but he also told me that I need to talk to the owner and tell him since I was injured at work I have 45 days to file a claim. I talked to the owner the next day on wed. and he told me to go to their doctor on thurs. That doctor told me the exact same thing that my doctor said and they told me to take a bunch more pills, another 4 every 6 hours. So, at one point I was taking upwards of 16 pills a day. So they told me to come back next thurs and I did, they gave me an ex ray and said you still have the severe back spasms and my need an MRI later. Then, my Workman’s comp insurance handler calls me takes my information and tells me that I can not go to their doctor anymore I have to go to another doctor that’s an hour away, verses 10 minutes and by the way they were both the exact same company centegra… ugh… I received a check from the insurance company from the 2/23/10-3/8/10. I continued to see their doctors and they keep telling me that I need physical therapy. Neither my nor the doctors have been able to get a hold of my case manager who never meet her commitment that she said on her voice mail, which was to contact me back by 3:30 the same day i left the messages. In the mean time I moved my motorcycle five feet so i could get my garbage cans out the door and it killed my back. I told my doctor this and she wrote it down and told me not to do it again. So we Finlay hear from Workmans comp that I could start physical therapy on, get this 4/10/2010. Over a month later. So, I have been doing that from now until last week when my Therapist told me that Workman’s comp denied my claim. I called them up and the case manager said that she dined it because if I was well enough to move my bike I was well enough to go back to work. both the therapists and THEIR doctor said that was bs. oh did i mention that I haven’t gotten any money since that first check!!!! I have just recently contacted a lawyer and he is working to get me what they owe me and so i can go back to therapy.
So, in all im broke behind on my rent, car, car insurance, bike insurance, phone bill, utility bills, credit cards, and over drawn on my savings account. I have no idea what my next step is and can I hit these guys so hard that they wont think about discontinuing someones claim before contacting anyone!!!!!!!
Forgot to mention a couple of things I had to drop my dental, short term disability and life insurance because I can not afford the every 2 weeks and can not get them through my work again until next Jan.
Me and my ex have been best friends since this time 3 years ago, when we met back in 9th grade. Last year (10-20-07) i started dating her and we had an amazing relationship. We fell in love fast and hard, and we went everywhere and did everything together. Well i started getting kind of clingy and on top of that, i’m bipolar. I love her to death and i would never hurt her on purpose, but i started getting jealous of other guys, and i didnt trust her fully. So this started causing a few fights over the summer, and into now, but i promised that i am changing,i promised several times, and i keep letting her down, and i’m not trying to. On the 10th she dumped me and removed me from her life, all contact completely. The reasons are because i keep letting her down and i haven’t been giving her time to be herself, i’m clingy, and i don’t trust her, and it’s just negativity on her in my opinion. Now she says she’ll never forget me, but i don’t know if she loves me or will ever talk to me again. Like an idiot, i immediately reacted and called her phone a bunch of times, leaving pathetic messages begging to talk to her, i did this up until that sunday, and then i didnt call her all day. I broke down again at night and called her. The next morning( the 143h) I called her mom to make sure she wasnt home, and i dropped off a dozen flowers, some candy, and a nice little card saying i miss her and i love her and how sorry i am. When i went there i noticed the promise ring i got her was sitting there, and it hurt, because she always wears it =/. I stopped calling her, but only 2 days later, the 15th, i made an idiot move. I got a ride to her house and went to her, followed her around, and it ended with her in her bathroom crying and telling me to leave, and me outside the door yelling i love her and asking if she even cares and saying stupid shit like oh if it was jimmy you’d care.(This is her friend she’s been hanging with, she’s known him for like 5 years so they hang out alot now)I regretted that so much and called and apologized, no-one answered. I found a box of old notes she gave me saying how much she loves me and if she can’t have me she wants nothing and she’s there forever, etc. They made me break down in tears so i wanted her to see them and see how things were, so i put them, some candy, her favorite soda, and wrote an 8 page letter to her, stuck it all in a box, dropped it off at her doorstep, knocked, and left. Now i hadn’t contacted her again, or tried, until Monday, the 20th, and i only did so because that would have been our 1 year anniversary, so i just wanted to say hi and check up, she didnt answer and i ended up calling 6 times and leaving just as many messages. Later that night i called again and just told her i love her and i miss her and im always there. I sent her some messages on myspace telling her to come to a concert with me, and another with a huge collage of our old photos, some very recent, some from a few years ago, just to commemorate our would-have-been anniversary. She didn’t open the messages, it tells you, they just said sent, so i deleted them. I was hoping she opened the package, but found out earlier she didn’t. My friend danny asked her if she got anything from me and she said yeah and she opened it and got the candy and stuff, but didnt read the notes, which sucks. Her friend jess who takes her to school every day told me to stop obsessing and give her space, and that she’ll never forget me and told me she doesn’t like anyone else and knows she won’t for a VERY long time, which i agree with, because she never really liked anyone from her school except me. She also told me that when i went there i scared her, which really upsets me because i didn’t mean to. I know that she is happy right now and is just being herself. I really honestly can say that i am MADLY in love with this girl. I can’t take my mind off her, like people say to, i just can’t. I’ve tried everything, games, sleepovers, going out with people, etc, none of it works. She’s always there, and she’s one of the most influential people in my entire life. I want her to be happy and it really really hurts that i let her down. I want to at least be her friend again, and from there we can move slowly back into a relationship, but for now i just want her to talk to me again so we can be friends again. I’m very alone and i live in a different city than her since i moved, so i don’t really have friends up here. I don’t have anyone i can tell things to, and i’m just lost without her. I love her to pieces but i’m really scared of her thinking i wont change and i will just be the same way, and she’ll just move on and find someone else. I don’t want to let her down anymore and i really have stopped contacting her this time, to give her space. I’m scared that i’ve messed things up too much and ruined my chances, but i can’t deal with that, i love her too much and i can’t get her off my mind, and quite frankly, i don’t want to.
I cry a few times a day about it and when im not im just thinking about it. I got my permit now which shes been wanting me to do and i got a job, as well as making sure my grades are good, which they are, straight a’s. I can do these things but she can’t see that im being positive for myself and improving myself so i can improve things for the both of us. I truly trust her now and never had a reason not to, and i don’t know why i was so jealous, she was with me, not them. I love her to pieces and i really don’t want to lose the most important person in the world to me, i’d do anything for her and i’ll wait forever if i have to. Another thing is, there’s a party on the 31st at her job that i was planning on attending for fun, but now we’re apart and i still want to attend, i’m not sure if i should. I have no clue what to do here and my lifes a mess. Help me, please. I love this girl.
Yeah i most definitely am backing off, but i just don’t know what to do. Go to this party, how to signal to her indirectly that i’m improving, etc.
Ok I have a son that is two months old. The guy that I was with we never got married. Yes, his name is on the birth certificate. He has always been very emotionally abusive to me and he has treated me horribly. It all started when I became pregnant. We moved back to Kentucky trying to have a better life for our son and so the guy I was with the baby’s father could be closer to his family. When I was pregnant I only had three pairs of maternity pants and that’s all I was aloud because he said that I didn’t need anything else. I even got clorox on a pair of the pants and he made me use a black magic marker to cover up to the clorox spot, but he would always go and get what he needed. He would even go and always get his haircut, but I had to cut my own hair. When I was 9 months pregnant he made me carry a couch and love seat because he didn’t want to ask the neighbors for help. He is horrible horrible. Plus his mother has always been horrible to me to and he aloud it. He never defended me or nothing. I was getting very tired of it. The other night I wanted to stop taking this birth control because it made me dizzy and he told me that he was going to cram the pill down my throat if I didn’t take it because he didn’t want anymore kids. That’s where I finally drew the line. I told him that he needed to start treating me better and stop the emotional abuse and start defending me against his mom. He chose not to. The house that we were living in was in my name. So, I told him that he needed to leave and go to his mom’s and bring his stuff with him. Well, he left and I went to my mom’s because I was very upset. When I went home the next morning the entire house was empty. He even took all of my stuff and the neighbors witnessed him taking everything. He totally abandoned me and my son. Left us with no money or nothing. He contacted me the next day and I told him what he did was horrible and that our son needed formula. He didn’t even offer to go and get formula, but that’s the way that it always has been. I’m the one that got all over our son’s clothes I’m the one that has got all of his formula. I’m the one that paid rent. I’m the one who has always gave our son a bath. He never even took me to any of my doctors appointments when I was pregnant. And never went to any of our son’s appointments except for one because he stayed home from work and he still didn’t want to go, but I told him that he was going to get his shots and his dad should be there so he went. Oh and I had a c-section with my son and he would make me sleep on the couch while he was in the room because he needed his sleep and didn’t want to be woken up because he said he needed his sleep for work. He only stayed up with our son three times because I just couldn’t physically go anymore. My body shut down because I was so exhausted. Well, I sent him mom a couple text messages just to let her know about her son and how horrible that he was and that he has never paid for diapers or nothing. That I was the one doing it all. Plus, I sent the father a couple text messages to. Well, she threatened to charge me with phone harassment and so did he, but i’m not sure if they actually did. So, I decided enough is enough and that I don’t need this abuse anymore and either does my son. He would even just put our son in his swing because he never wanted to hold him. Well his mom wants another baby so he decided he wants his son and take him away from me. I couldn’t afford the house that we were in without him because of him abandoning us. My parents were getting ready to move so my dad could be by his mom because she’s getting ready to die so I had no choice to go with them. I even had to sell his crib his changing table and his dresser to get money for diapers and formula. My son is very healthy he weighs 16 pounds and he’s 24 inches long. He’s big and healthy and very clean. I have always made sure of that. I even have witnesses of how bad that he has been to me. I even have proof that I paid for everything. So, to make a long story short I had no choice, but to leave the state with my family and move in with them. I’m planning on going to nursing school and become an RN. I really want to try. Plus I really need to seek counsling over this because this has been really hard for me and I know the womans shelter has counslers. He is a horrible horrible person and so is his mom. Well since I left I’m not sure if they did charge with me with phone harrassment and if they did what would that do to me? I want full custody of my son. Do you think I will get full custody of my son?? I have been hearing about these new laws for fathers. Can they charge me with kidnapping even though we are not married,but his name is on the birth certificate?? I am in desperate need of advice and help. I don’t want child support from him because he has never wanted to contribute and I don’t want someone to make him contribute. So, thanks for all the help…
I’m a Taurus woman. We’ve been dating 2 months. We spent our 2nd weekend together, started out great, then he did 2 things that bothered me First thing was to do with sex and I asked him to do something differently.. well everything stopped dead in its tracks and the rest of the weekend took on a different mood. After that, he was cool and unresponsive at breakfast the next morning in a very bad way. However his emails on Monday were normal. Later that Monday I expressed my feelings about those 2 things wanting to understand his thoughts, feelings. He took 2 days to write back and basically said we’re out of synch, blamed himself and wanted me to move on. I was crushed. I replied letting him know that I didn’t mean to hurt him with my words, I wanted good things for us, etc. He didn’t respond. I followed up a few days later with another email saying that I miss him very much. He replied that we’re in 2 different stages of life with parenting. His children are older, mine son only 3 yrs. old and that he wants to get on with his life. It seems he used my child as an excuse to move on. He basically wished me well. Again, I’m crushed and I don’t know what to say to convince him that I’m crazy about him. Can you help?
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