Your guide to getting your ex lover back into your arms
We had a rlship for a year, until he had a one night stand so I dumped him.
He spent 4 months on a campaign to get me back.
I said yes, then after a few months the rlship wasnt good so I dumped him.
Now its 6 months later and I want to try again with him but he says he doesnt love me anymore.
I know thats not true! I know when a man loves me.
but he is adamant we are not getting back together, i have been asking him for months now.
He doesnt have a new partner yet.
What do I do???
i think my ex is early stage manic depressive to be honest! he keeps breaking up with me "convinced he’s doing the right thing" and then he comes back begging. before he does it he’ll start getting really withdrawn and stuff. i suspect manic depression because his mom has it and he was on anti-depressants for a year, came off them a few months before i met him. his friends don’t know this stuff but want to have a talk with him for giving me up because they think he’s ******* up his life because i was so good for him. any input on THAT is appreciated! anyway, i can’t be with someone like that.
it’s so hard to look at a photo of him or something, wait for a text back to say hello. it just hurts so much. is it better just to cut him out completely? i’m going to be going away in a month, i’ll be ok then. but i never wanted to just cut him out of my life because he was the best friend i ever had…but maybe i should? is it recommended?
getting guys isn’t a problem, they love me. i’m not the type to ever have a one-night stand though.
it’s just like there’s no one else i’d rather have right now, even though i don’t want to be with him anymore because he’s hurt me so much and let me down too many times for me to have faith in him again.
we had an amazing connection to. he was the best friend i’d ever had.
have you ever replaced something like that?
i think my ex is early stage manic depressive to be honest! he keeps breaking up with me "convinced he’s doing the right thing" and then he comes back begging. before he does it he’ll start getting really withdrawn and stuff. i suspect manic depression because his mom has it and he was on anti-depressants for a year, came off them a few months before i met him. his friends don’t know this stuff but want to have a talk with him for giving me up because they think he’s ******* up his life because i was so good for him. any input on THAT is appreciated! anyway, i can’t be with someone like that.
it’s so hard to look at a photo of him or something, wait for a text back to say hello. it just hurts so much. is it better just to cut him out completely? i’m going to be going away in a month, i’ll be ok then. but i never wanted to just cut him out of my life because he was the best friend i ever had…but maybe i should? is it recommended?
getting guys isn’t a problem, they love me. i’m not the type to ever have a one-night stand though.
it’s just like there’s no one else i’d rather have right now, even though i don’t want to be with him anymore because he’s hurt me so much and let me down too many times for me to have faith in him again.
we had an amazing connection to. he was the best friend i’d ever had.
have you ever replaced something like that?
Oh plus I dont even work so Im home constantly.
I got a inheritance when my parents died.
I was with my ex for 6 years and lived with her for 2.
She left all most a year ago and Im still not over her. I don’t stalk her or anything I haven’t even tried to speak with her in like 7 months but I cant move on.
Ive been in a drunkin drug induced stupper for god knows how long.
Ive had plenty of opportunities for a new GF and all my friends have tried to set me up and once in a while I will be messed up and have a one night stand but I will never let it move on from there.
I just cant get over her. Im all most 30 years old and im a mess. Booze an drugs are costing me all most a grand a week, all I do is get wasted and hope she will call. If and when I come to the conclusion shes not going to call I probably would completely fall apart and possibly commit suicide.
Where do I go from here? Im lost
wife had a one night stand two weeks ago, i still love her, she says she loves me, wanna work it out. we hav a 6 yearold. first time shes cheatd, said it was the worst drunken mistake in her life. but it was 14 days ago right now, was she doing him at this time that might. how do i still love her , i said i forgave he, we,ve made love the last 2 nights(with protection) cause they didnt. how do i still touch her , how do i still make love to her, knowing what happened. our love life has always been more then satisfying for both of us, 10 years together, but how do i look at her in the same way, how do i touch her the way i did 2 weeks ago, i we both want to start over again together, but how?
I cheated on my wife after 13 years of marriage with a woman that was 20 years older than my wife. It was not just a one night stand it was meetings ofter work. I told my wife about the affair because I felt so bad afterwords. I know that I made the worst mistake of my life and that I love my wife more than words can say. It has been 3 years and thank god my wife let me come back home, we have even had a son since the affair but she says that she still does not trust me and that she still has anger and resentment towards me for it. She says that she wants answers as to why it happened and what she did so wrong that made me do it. It was nothing she did it was my stupid mistake and I did it because I thought I could get away with it and no one would get hurt. I have told her that I promise her it will never happen again but she still thinks that I don’t love her but I do. I have never cried so much in my life as I do when it comes to this. I feel like I have failed my wife and kids and am about to loose the only people in the world that ever meant any thing to me. Please help.
My husband has a huge problem of always making excuses and expecting to always be fogiven. Usually there small things but when it happens all the time its starting to make him unreliable. How many times should I forgive his mistakes? "He’s very faithful never cheated and never will" I have to ask him to do this several times before it gets done. He always forgets things. He’s horrible at deadlines "never meets deadlines or pays bills on time". I feel like his mother, and he always gets mad at me because he says i’m controlling. I’ve told him over and over, if he wants me to quit being controlling then he needs to take the intiative to get things done so I’m not always reminding him. My husband always makes bad decisions. Right before my husband and I started dating he had a drunken one night stand with a woman and got her pregnant. now he doesn’t even see the child, he again acts like if he forgets about it that it doesn’t exsist. my husband lives his life making excuses for everything big or small. how to i make my husband start owning up to his mistakes, take intiative to handle his problems, and to quit forgetting things. also how to i get my husband to understand why I always act like the leader in our marriage and why I’m controlling. i dont want to me the leader in my marriage, i would love for us to handle things 50/50, but it always ends up as me fufilling my 50, and him "forgetting about his 50".
I really want to fix this problem without divorce. I strongly don’t believe in divorce unless cheating is involved
I find the idea silly. What if you wait all that time, miss out on all the fun, and get married, and then you two aren’t sexually compatible? He’s a sadist and she’s a prude? That’s bound to cause problems later on.
To those who wait for religious reasons: you’re dumb. Quit letting yourself be brainwaished and think for yourself. (Deny it all you want, but that’s what’s happening.)
So, ASIDE from the fact that some fictional book might tell you pre-marital sex is wrong, why do people wait for marriage?
Edit: I come from a corner of the internet where what I’ve said above is LESS than mild. Don’t get your panties in a bunch 
Also, people crack sex up to be sacred and special and only meant for one person. I just can’t grasp this mindset. I think it can be done both for fun and for love. Nothing wrong with exploring, a one night stand, if you use protection. Psychologically, we lose our innocence long before we have sex, so I don’t see the significance.
Metalhead, sex is indeed an instinct. But that means nothing. Seeking water when we are thirsty is also an instinct. Why have we any reason to suppress instincts? they exist for a reason. And while humanity has come a long from living in nomadic tribes where people randomly had sex, is repressing your nature for years really necessary? Why would someone ever request their partner to prove their love so cruelly?
Ah, perhaps I simply lack a rampant fear of STIs and pregnancy. Considering all the precautions I take, the chance of either happening to me is maybe .0001%. I guess that’s a chance I’m willing to take 
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