I’m 17 . I met a guy in Fall 2008. We dated. He’s 3 years older. For 6 months, I was a virgin and we would exchange nude pictures and we would talk constantly about how badly we wanted to have sex with each other. I told him that I wanted to sleep with him badly and that I wanted to lose my V to him.
I was 15 and young & stupid. When it came down to it, I was terrified of having sex. I was SO scared. I wanted to feel pleasure but I was scared s’hitless of sex.
We would be naked and he would be ready for sex but I couldn’t bring myself to do it. He got angry because I lied to him and led him on thinking he was going 2 have sex with me.
After he realized I wasn’t going to sleep with him, he started leading me on & stringing me along for revenge. I dumped him one year ago.
He just came back into my life and I was silly enough to fall for his niceness.
He keeps asking me to hang out so many times but then flakes on me and blows me off and makes up lies & excuses. He literally just came back so that he could get revenge on me AGAIN.
Why is he still trying to get revenge on me for what happened in 2008?
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Me and my boyfriend had been together for 10 months when he left for missouri with my best friend to go through AIT for the national guards. When he left we were perfectly happy, and everything was fine. We both agreed we would stay together for the 3 months he would be gone, and both we ok with a short long distance. Two weeks into him being gone i open my e-mail to find a naked picture spread eagle over a bowling alley tiolet of my best friend sent to me from my boyfriends cell phone. i talked to him the next day about it because he only got his phone on certain nights depending on his physical trainings. i asked him instantly about the picture, and he had no idea what i was talking about. aparently when they have personal time they have to use the buddy system and decided because it was legal to drink on base, because they are both 18, to get drunk together, then meet up with others at the bowling alley. he says he doesnt remember sending me them, and i called everything off. he continues to call me and talks to my family as if nothing happened (none of my family know what he did), and tries to make me feel guilty for calling things off. he wants to go on a date when he gets back (Oct. 31st). ive told him repetedly that i want nothing to do with him, and he isnt listening at all. i was wondering if i should give him another chance, ignore him, or try to get him to back off by getting revenge and making him see how messed up what he did was?
i did talk to my friedn, and she started crying and apologizing to me about what happeend. i flat out asked her what happened and she said we had sex but its not like that between them, it was a one time thing, and it would never happen again.



