I am in seventh grade. He used to like me a lot. The last time we went out he broke up with me the same day. Monday at school he asks my best friend out. How do i get him back. I really like him.
well he does like me too. My friend likes him. My friend said that he asked her out. But it turns out she asked him out. My other best friend whos going out with his best friend said hes just going out with her to make me gelous.
I dated a guy for almost 4 years, I loved him very much. He cheated on me a couple of times in the beginning, then we were fine for about two years. Don’t ask why I stayed with him, love does crazy things. Well we were off and on for about 4 months and I found someone else that I’m now dating. He is a great guy, very sweet, and a very good influence in my life (as opposed to the other guy). I really like him a lot and love being with him. Anyway, my old boyfriend has been calling and text messaging me a lot wanting to get together and talk about things. He still says he loves me and I know he’s being sincere, and at first I felt like I didn’t still have feelings for him but now I’m not so sure. I know I’ve made him seem like a jerk but he really is a good guy and has always been here for me. Him and my boyfriend now just come from two totally different backgrounds and are two completely different people. The truth is, I don’t want to lose either one of them.. what should I do?
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Me and my husband have been separated for almost six months due to my husband becoming more like a room-mate vs. a husband. My husband worked a lot of hours and he had no sexual interest in me. He had only been intimate with me one time in a year and half. I was hurting terribly missing him and of course wondering what was wrong with me. Just prior to our separation, I had gotten back in contact with an old friend/boyfriend that I had known for 22 years. We had not spoken to one another in 10 years but we reconnected. I left my husband and moved back to my home town to figure out what I needed going forward. Did I want to save my marriage or go forward with my relationship with my old boyfriend. I had gone once to visit with my boyfriend and he once came and visited with me (Absolutely NO sex involved) and we for the past 7 months have talked via phone, text, facebook almost daily. He was very careful how he was handling our relationship because he was guarding his heart. He knew I was married and he told me that it couldn’t go any further than friendship as long as there was a ring on my finger. However, I knew he cared much more if he didn’t he wouldn’t have been communicating with me on a daily basis and asked me to fly out to visit and meet his family and friends at Thanksgiving as well as he flew to my location to spend New Years with me. Oh but it gets better, I’m in love with two men now at the same time. My husband is promising me he will change and do better to show me love and respect while all the same time, I do still care for him too. His father passes away and me and my our daughter go South to the service and during this time it was emotional enough with the passing of his father not to mention it was our first time seeing one another after 5 months. It just got out of control and crazy, I started having all kinds of mixed feelings and emotions going on. I didn’t know what I wanted, I didn’t know if I wanted my husband back, even if I could trust and get past the hurt he caused me or if I wanted to continue a relationship with my boyfriend that I knew was there yet he wasn’t telling me nor showing me. It ends up, I had sex with my husband and I felt guilty and blurted it out to my boyfriend and now he won’t talk to me, he won’t respond to me in any way shape or form. I miss him terribly and it is killing me. I just want the chance to talk to him and explain and see where and if we can get past this. I have apologized and begged to him many, many times. He has even went as far as to delete me from facebook and I haven’t done anything wrong or said anything wrong on facebook. I don’t know what else to do. Yeah, I am still in love with two men. But now, I just don’t know which man I should choose or if I even have the opportunity. What do you think the boyfriend is thinking? I have truly been on an emotional roller coaster ride. That is why I ended up sleeping with my husband…. I am not a bad person at all. I made a mistake and I admitted it. I just don’t know what to do!



