Okay me and my ex where together for about a year and a half. Everything was great until my ex came into the picture. He came in telling me that he still had feelings for me and he wanted to try things out again. I turned him down and told him I was in love with my boyfriend and we could be friends. But he wanted to be more than that. He kept pushing up on me so I told my boyfriend and they talked. My boyfriend asked my ex to leave me alone and asked me to not talk to him. =( I went behind his back and kept talking to him and some old feelings came back. I decided to give him a chance and ended things with my boyfriend telling him that it was because of family problems. He was crushed. Then when it came back to me and my ex he played me and two other chicks and now we don’t even talk. I then realized that I still did love my boyfriend so my best friend who was cool with him talked to him and he said that he was gonna hurt me as bad as I hurted him and that he really did love me. After finding that out I felt like such a jerk. My ex boyfriend and I haven’t talked since Halloween of 09 now its Feb and Im making a trip to NY to see my aunt and that’s where I first met him. Its gonna be the first time I see him since the break up and I still love him and want him back. I have his new number and Im not sure if I should try to talk to him before I go up there or wait til Im up there. In the back of my mind there is always a chance of rejection and if I talk to him now and that happens it will be so awkwared. But then what if he still feels the same way I do.
HELP ME WHAT DO I DO. ANSWER ASAP IM LEAVING SATURDAY
If your gonna say talk to him what do I say to him?
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Last weekend i was on the phone with my cuz and we were just talkin about girls so then i bought up my ex-gf and we were going to call her but i have not talk to her in months but i called she answer and we started to talking about how have you been doing and things like that. And all the old feelings i had for her started to come up. She has a bf right now and i just got out of an relationship with this other girl. But the thing i wont to know is should i go bcak out with her or leave things how there are now. She’s the girl i’ve been with the longest so what should i do
And the 1st time we broke up you don’t think that you r ever going to meet a girl like that again. She was think about me because she call her other bf my name
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She’s the mother of my daughter (who I love beyond belief), the only girl who has loved me after I gained a little weight, she finishes my sentences, she got some inheritance and paid off my credit cards with it, she is always telling me she loves me, but for some reason I always feel like something is missing. We get along great but it’s always in the back of my head….
We’re supposed to get married soon but I dunno if I’m really in love cuz I’m always checking out other girls and recently my ex has been talking to me and she told me she always thought we would end up getting married. She was my first love and talking to her brings up so many old feelings but I cant stop talking to her cuz it makes me feel good knowing that she might want me back.
I’ve never really known if I love my gf although I’ve always told her that I do, I just get along with her so great but I can never tell if its love or just a great relationship. I actually cried when I had a dream that she died, but at the same time why cant I stop looking at other girls??? And why is my ex trying to get back in my life???
I think she’s just a sociopath trying to see if she can still get me cuz she used to lie to me all the time and always got with other guys while saying I was her priority. We would always fight about her seeing other guys and I would tell her off and she would cry and say I hurt her so much and what not but I thought obviously she must not care THAT much since she would continue to do it but then again she was my first love and I cant seem to get over it… I dunno what to do should i stay with the girl who truly loves me or go for the one that might but would make me happy? Knowing that going for her would make me lose the one that loves me? Please help
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Okay me and my ex where together for about a year and a half. Everything was great until my ex came into the picture. He came in telling me that he still had feelings for me and he wanted to try things out again. I turned him down and told him I was in love with my boyfriend and we could be friends. But he wanted to be more than that. He kept pushing up on me so I told my boyfriend and they talked. My boyfriend asked my ex to leave me alone and asked me to not talk to him. =( I went behind his back and kept talking to him and some old feelings came back. I decided to give him a chance and ended things with my boyfriend telling him that it was because of family problems. He was crushed. Then when it came back to me and my ex he played me and two other chicks and now we don’t even talk. I then realized that I still did love my boyfriend so my best friend who was cool with him talked to him and he said that he was gonna hurt me as bad as I hurted him and that he really did love me. After finding that out I felt like such a jerk. My ex boyfriend and I haven’t talked since Halloween of 09 now its Feb and Im making a trip to NY to see my aunt and that’s where I first met him. Its gonna be the first time I see him since the break up and I still love him and want him back. I have his new number and Im not sure if I should try to talk to him before I go up there or wait til Im up there. In the back of my mind there is always a chance of rejection and if I talk to him now and that happens it will be so awkwared. But then what if he still feels the same way I do.
HELP ME WHAT DO I DO. ANSWER ASAP IM LEAVING SATURDAY
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This is my second marriage. We have been married a little over a year, and yet I am totally insecure. I’m overweight and so is he, and yes I was overweight when he met me, so it wasn’t like I gained weight once we got married. I also stopped working, (his request) about a month after we got married. And I have not been able to find other work. I have always been a HARD worker and not working has literally destroyed my self esteem.
He was deeply in love with his ex-wife and she really hurt him. It took him a long time to get over her. She has a daughter with another guy, but my husband feels like he is her dad. They talk on the phone often, and he will often talk to the girl’s mother. Although he says the mother disgusts him, and he feels she’s one step above white trash, the fact that he talks to her drives me up the wall. Because I am constantly worried that his old feelings will come back. See, when we first started going together and then got married, he was hardly talking to the daughter or the mom. They were on kind of a "hiatus", I guess because of some kind of difference of opinion. But since we have married he has reconciled with the daughter and they started talking again. And I am constantly worried that he will want to go back with her mom. She was his first serious love, and she works and is much better looking than me. At least I feel she is, my husband disagrees.
He looks at other women a lot. Women that are way better looking than me. But he says looking is all he is doing. Which I believe, but I don’t understand why, because he could literally take his pick. We don’t have sex that often, because he has diabetes and high blood pressure which has caused him to have ED and he is considerably older than me. I’m 39 and he is 50. And for some reason lately, whenever we do have sex, I am worried that he is thinking of her. Or he’s thinking of somebody better looking. Because he couldn’t POSSIBLY be attracted to me. Despite him saying I am the prettiest girl he knows, and that he wouldn’t leave me for her or any other girl I have the hardest time being convinced of this. Why? What can I do to snap out of this?
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