hears what i mean! Last year i was dating my ex who i had been with since we were about 13yrs. old. i am now 27. but one day out of the blue she ups and leaves me for a man who doesn’t believe in God and also is a bum. While we were together i paid all of our bills, including her car, and gave her anything she asked for. all she ever had to do was ask me and i would give in to her. i just do’nt understand why women leave the good guys for the guys who are very wrong for them. Oh as well my ex is catholic and her old man now is athiest. what the heck. her family is having a field day with it and they wish she would come back to me but she wont. i really miss her and wish she would come back. what does everyone else think i should do? and why do women leave the good guys for the bad ones?HELP
i hear what everyone is saying but here is the facts: we had a good relationship. we only had 3 fights the whole time we were together we were perfect for each other and i wish she was on here because she would tell you that we really loved each other, but i don’t know now if she does. i see her still all the time because she lives in one of my dads houses. what do i do
It just seems like in older stories and such you see someone pining away for years or killing themselves over someone, etc, and now everyones like "hurry up, get over it, move on, etc.
Examples: Scarlett O’hara pining for Ashly Wilkes through 3 marraiges.
Romeo and Juliet
Mrs. Havisham from Great Expectations
Real life examples:
Queen Victoria mourning prince Albert
Queen Joanna and Phillip the fair
Frank Sinatra/ Ava Gardener
Bonus: King Edward giving up his throne for Wallis Simpson, not exactly the same but still kinda on topic.. I can barely get my old man to mow the lawn for me..
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Can someone pls help me to find Intellectual and Emotinal imagery in "lying eyes" (The Eagles)??
City girls just seem to find out early
How to open doors with just a smile
A rich old man
And she won’t have to worry
She’ll dress up all in lace and go in style
Late at night a big old house gets lonely
I guess ev’ry form of refuge has its price
And it breaks her heart to think her love is
Only given to a man with hands as cold as ice
So she tells him she must go out for the evening
To comfort an old friend who’s feelin’ down
But he knows where she’s goin’ as she’s leavin’
She is headed for the cheatin’ side of town
You can’t hide your lyin’ eyes
And your smile is a thin disguise
I thought by now you’d realize
There ain’t no way to hide your lyin eyes
On the other side of town a boy is waiting
with fiery eyes and dreams no one could steal
She drives on through the nice anticipating
‘Cause he makes her feel the way she used to feel
She rushes to his arms,
They fall together
She whispers that it’s only for awhile
She swears that soon she’ll be comin’ back forever
She pulls away and leaves him with a smile
You can’t hid your lyin’ eyes
And your smile is a thin disguise
I thought by now you’d realize
There ain’t now way to hide you lyin’ eyes
She gets up and pours herself a strong one
And stares out at the stars up in the sky
Another night, it’s gonna be a long one
She draws the shade and hangs her head to cry
She wonders how it ever got this crazy
She thinks about a boy she knew in school
Did she get tired or did she just get lazy?
She’s so far gone she feels just like a fool
My, oh my, you sure know how to arrange things
You set it up so well, so carefully
Ain’t it funny how your new life didn’t change things
You’re still the same old girl you used to be
You can’t hide your lyin eyes
And your smile is a thin disguise
I thought by now you’d realize
There ain’t no way to hide your lyin’ eyes
There ain’t no way to hide your lyin’ eyes
Honey, you can’t hide your lyin’ eyes
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My husband is a diesel mechanic and he works really hard and when he gets home he’s all dirty and nasty. We have a huge bathtub so every night I always have it fill so he can soak and relax. He has no sex drive anymore. Is this a stage a man goes through. I do know for a fact he is not cheating on me. How can I get him sexually active again without the use of medicines?
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So I meet this girl at the club a few weeks ago. She invites me out one night with her and her girl. So I go out there and her friend is talking to the bar-back because I guess they are F-Buddies and we all decide to go to another bar. While there I’m talking to her friend at the bar and this dude pulls her aside and starts telling my girl that he made a mistake sleeping with her friend and he wants to be with her and he kisses her (I had no clue this was going on). Then she comes back to me and tells me that he told her he made a mistake with the friend, but fails to mention anything else. Anyway her friend and him slept together that night and the next day he tries to pick up my girl again. So that’s the beginning of the drama with her. This is the first night we have hung out since we met.
Well also during that night she tells me that she answered an ad for a housekeeping job and when she got there the 60 year old man (shes 22) who placed the ad told her he wasn’t looking for a housekeeper but a wife. He is loaded and would give her 0,000, pay for her college, buy her cars, blah blah blah. She asked me if I would still be her boyfriend if she married him. I told her that I didn’t know, maybe if it was strictly a business relationship between the two of them.
Well the next day she fills in the huge details that she left out the night before. She tells me that the dude kissed her and she tells me that not only does the old guy want to get married but he wants her to have his kid too. What the hel?
So now shes pressing me on if I want to stay with her. I really don’t know if I should get involved if shes going to be in another relationship. It may be okay now, but what happens when we start seeing each other and I start to love her? I think I will just be setting myself up to get hurt if I do. I told her I need to even see if we are right for each other first so I would make up my mind after we dated a few weeks.
2 days later: She asks me last minute to go to a Halloween party with her since her friend cant go. I tell her I have plans, but she pleads for me to go. So I give in, I go to her place and shes like "Wheres your costume?" even though she didn’t tell me I needed one. Now its this huge deal that everyone HAS to have a costume. All the stores are closed so I agree to go in drag. So we go driving around to all her friends houses to find me clothes. So then I go and meet all her friends at this party dressed up like a chick. It’s embarrassing as hell but I did it as a favor to her. So during the night it came up that I was getting off probation for something minor shortly. Also she asked me something about sex and my ex’s and I told her that I ususally date girls who have a kinky side to them and she cops this attitude and is distant to me the whole night, then she just gets up and leaves me (even though I asked her at the beginning to do me one favor of not leaving me alone at the party). So we get back to her place and shes all distant to me still and says she doesn’t want to have sex with me because I’m a different person than she thought I was. I asked her how and shes like "You seemed like a nice guy when I met you then I find out you date kinky girls and your on probation, why don’t you just go date Rachel (her friend from the beginning of the story)"
What is up with this girl? Why cant I find a decent girl? Or maybe its just me. Did I do something wrong?
Are there any cute sane women in the Tampa area? If so, hit me up
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