I have a tendency of wanting to explain everything so I guess my other question included too much reading.
Here’s the deal:
*we dated, but never turned into an actual boyfriend/GF relationship
*I decided to *end* it because I’m new to this and thought he wasn’t serious about me
*I’m in love with him…we spent a year separated
*He’s back into my life and is showing me interest…except we’re still not officially together (which is what I want)
Okay…So we were open about wanting to spend intimate time together, I agreed because all this time away from him I’ve desired to kiss him and do things like before. He’s alone, I know he’s not seeing anyone else. I want to enjoy this moment we have planned, but I’m trying to come up with things I can do when that day comes in order to interest him even more.
I’m not planning on having sex, never had sex with him before, he respects that…But now, ladies I need some help I really want to achieve having him want me more, I know there’s attraction and desire from his side, I’m in love with him and I’m glad he opened up about wanting to be alone with me…I want to use this as a way of increasing what he feels and maybe have him back as something more serious.
How much is too much, what can I do yet not go overboard by giving too much when we’re alone, kiss, touch heat things up and that’s it? Or do something more (oral sex etc.) ?
I hope this time I wrote less and can get some advice, I’m not too experience but I’m willing to try, we’ve spoken about oral sex/masturbation as some of the "possibilities"…at first he was okay with just spending intimate time but our conversations have grown even more so we’ve spoken about those things…
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Well first of all he seriously makes me cum EVERY time we have sex atleast like 2 or 3 times and its gotten up to like 25 times not in a day but in one session! Yes i kno im soo lucky!! Well one day he was fingering me like crazy working magic with his hands and doing oral sex and when i came i like squirted out like a man does when he cums, and it was ALOT of wet spots, my dress needed to be changed cuz it was soaked the couch actually had to be scrubbed with some kind of cleaner like he had stuff drippin of his elbows…WOWOO!! well none of my friends have ever even heard of this and neither have i ever! I have had sex with him for the past year and every time i abso love it im not complaining im jus wondering if any other females have ever experienced this or am i the only weird yet extrememely lucky girl in the world?! Also one more question….i have never been into the whole doing the butt thing and hes been obsessed with doing it since we started dating a year ago and ive never let anyone do it cuz it hurt toooo bad to even penetrate at all….well his cousin gave us some stuff called anal eaze and we had a couple drinks one night so i was feeling adventorous and i put it on probably too much and let him do it! Well after the first few mins it started feeling really really good to me and i came, it wasnt like an orgasm when we have vaginal sex or oral or magic fingers but it felt really good and again my vagina was soaked not squirting tho and he was soo turned on he was loving it, his fav part of my body is my butt cuz i gotta really big booty for a white girl…so after a year of beggin he gets it……WHY THE HELL DIDNT HE CUM?? THAS ALL HES BEEN WANTIN TO DO IS FILL MY REAR UP?? WE HAD A COUPLE DRINKS AND A LIL PARTYIN WAS IT FROM THAT MAYBE OR WAHT??
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I’m trying to figure out the exact boundaries of virginity. My pastor told me it includes oral sex and hand jobs, but he didn’t think it would include cyber sex. I want a second opinion just to make sure I won’t end up in hell over this. Thanks for your input.
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She even gets angry sometimes when I want to fool around. How do I get her in the mood more often?
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I don’t mean "giving" me oral. I mean letting me give "her" oral. She finds it repulsive and thinks I can give her bacterial infections and she just refuses. We enjoyed this activity quite a bit before the birth of our second child, who is now 4yrs old.
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