ok my big issue is my sons mother has left because of anger through out our relationship and how i am as a person she said she has feelings for me and always will but because ihow i am in a relationship she dont think i would change which im trying to prove to her other wise i try telling her she says she dont believe me and that she is talking to 3 other guys one she did something with and another kissed and lies about even talking to guys in general she has my son and is hiding from me wont let me see him and she kissed this one guy in front of my son i also told her i was talking to a couple girls she acted upset and stated its unfair that i can talk to guys but she cantso i know she cares she even says she cares and loves me but not sure about in a relationship she is playing around cause she ahs soo much anger towards me i need to talk to her in person just oncei think and i had inside info but the people are now mad cause i confronted my ex about it which she obvioulsy denied and got off the phone real fast and so she is in a shelter cause she filed a order of protection against me which i have a really good lawyer now but problem is i want my son court is not till feb 22nd and i have hardly seen my son i have not seen him in 3 weeks and she is stating she can non let me have him till court and its BS and now i have not much to go on cause i am basically looking to see how i can get her to come back cause she has thought about it alot she said and she doesnt not think im goingo to change i want to get her to stop talking to other people in the mean time cause she stated i would have to changed in order for her to even think about coming back to me and i am changing so how can i get her to come back and believe me and stop this mess i am willing to forgive her i love her soooo much i need all the help i can get right now
the court order she filed was because i kept on asking her to think about things and just basically harassment as she put it so nothing bad i did not abuse i would never do that and there has been alot going she says i need to see change in you josh before i can think about comeing back to you and i am changing i need to get her to believe me
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i’m trying to get sole custody of my 7 year old daughter b/c she came home on 12-3-09 and told me he had slapped her in the back of the head (where she had 3 staples closing a cut she received the week before from a fall) b/c she didn’t stick with the lie he’d made up for her to miss school. he was supposed to drive her to school that morning but for whatever reason, decided that I should pick her up on my way home from work (he does this all the time) so he told me she hit her head on a car door frame and couldn’t go to school. when I asked my daughter about this, she told me that never happened and when her dad heard her say this, he disconnected our phone call. when I picked my daughter up from his house a few minutes later, she told me after he hung up-he yelled at her "why did you lie to your mom?" then hit her on the back of the head where her staples are then asked her "does your head hurt now?" I called CPS and filed a report but b/c I’m the ex-wife, they assumed I was doing this just b/c I was pissed at him and closed the case. I filed a complaint against the caseworker in because she NEVER called me to discuss anything and this was even after several phone calls were made to her office and me speaking to her superviser twice. after this incident, my ex showed up at our daughter’s school on a day that I TOLD him she was staying hom sick. he showed up to start a fight w/me when I dropped off my other two girls (NOT HIS KIDS). when I got to the school, I saw him on the front porch so I refused to get out of the car b/c things would just escalate so I sent my two girls into the school-my ex ended up harrassing my 10 year old daughter by trying to block her path twice and chasing her down a hallway until a staff member stopped him and made him leave.
I got an order of protection that lasted a month but the court overturned it b/c I couldn’t prove the abuse against our daughter and they wouldn’t interview her.
we had a hearing on friday to change custody where I requested the court interview our daughter b/c without the interview, a fair ruling could not be made. my ex got angry in open court,refusing our daughter’s interview but the judge saw this and decided to order the interview anyways. he then allowed my ex to keep our daughter for 2 days before the interview and told my ex he would be the one taking her to it!! this is all b/c he is listed as the custodial parent in our decree (a mistake on my part-he’s never truly been a custodial parent-I do everything for her medically and educationally).
I am worried my ex won’t show up for this interview today b/c it could incrimenate him. what happens if he doesn’t show up with her and she misses her interview?!! we don’t have another court date until 3-11-10
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She has a order of protection on me, but I think she still cares. We were together for 2yrs. She said She was the best thing that ever happen to me. I was never abusive and threaten to her. Three months has gone by, I can’t email her ,text her or call, or go around her. Is ther anyhting I can do if I want her back?
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