ways to avoid divorce

Here are five ways to avoid divorce or a break up. Learn the real secrets to making up.

Any relationship is difficult to hold and there are no easy ways to make the relationship last. A lasting marriage requires a lot of work, and although divorce is a common thing now, there are some things you can do to prevent divorce happens and save you from heartache.

Keep communication channels open. If you know you can always talk to your spouse and be honest with your feelings, your relationship will always work and will last for many years. Every one needs someone to talk to and if you are the kind of spouse who keeps the lines of communication open, you can prevent divorce happens. Your spouse does not need to look for other people outside the marriage to speak with because he or she knows that communication in marriage is always open.

Be open with your feelings, especially when things go bad. Sometimes, relationships fall apart because the couple is not open and honest with their feelings. When there are things in marriage that concern you or bothers you, it is best to open up with your spouse and talk about the problem than to keep it to yourself. People who are afraid to open up their true feelings for her spouse is vulnerable to extramarital affairs.

Do things together. Find a common interest or hobby and do it together. Doing things together that you both like is a good way to bond with each other. Bonding activities are important if you want to prevent divorce happens. You can take photography classes together, watch concerts, dance or sing along, participate in charity work together and so on. It does not matter what it is as long as you both enjoy doing it together, and it can make the relationship stronger.

Do your own thing separately. Using too much time with each other can be so tiring and overwhelming. To avoid boredom and prevent divorce happens, take some time to yourself and do your own thing. At the same time, give your spouse his or her own time to do the things they want to do. For him, it can be to play basketball with his friends and for her it might be shopping or going to a salon with her friends.

Make time for romance and intimacy. You must have time to be intimate with each other. Cuddling, kissing and sex is very important to keep love and romance in your marriage. There are many things that you both can do to make marriage more exciting and prevent divorce happens.

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So, my friend just broke up with her boyfriend (of 4 months) last night for a number of good, legitimate reasons (he took advantage of her, made plans on his own time, didn’t take her into consideration, didn’t love her like she loved him, didn’t take things seriously, wasn’t able to communicate like a grown up, et…) It wasn’t just a rash decision, she seriously thought about everything (the above) and came to the conclusion that it’s just not going to work out.

So she called him last night (yeah I know thats kinda crappy, but they live 3 hours apart and she had tried at least 4 times for them to meet up, but he was never able to make it happen). So when she called to break up, she thought it was going to be the same, him acting like a child and such but he was actually really understanding about it, telling her shes such a good person and deserves better and such. Then after they hung up, later he texted her saying something along the same lines.

So, needless to say she called me after crying about how much she loves him. And yes, I get it of course she loves him and I know like he loved her (though he did a crap job showing it) I just don’t know what to tell her because really, breaking up with him was the right move.

She’s my best friend and I love her, I’d really like to be there for her but I live like 3 hours away too. So all I can do is repeat ‘It’s ok’ over he phone as she cries. I just don’t know what to say, I’m not really good at these things as I don’t like crying in front of people, showing that kind of emotion. But I’m fine if my friends want to come to me, I’m just a better listener than advice giver, but I do care.

What do I do?

Oh, almost missed the whole point I came on here. Yes, so she called and woke me up this morning crying still cause he texted her again telling her what an amazing soul she has and how no one will be good enough for her and she deserves so much better and that his heart is breaking, so on.

I mean, they JUST broke up. Why would you text them back???

Advice, please!


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Many years ago (mid to late 80′s) I read a time travel romance and loved it. I think there were 2 novels. Unfortunately, I can’t recall the author or the title of either novel. I think the author’s first name is either Lisa or Jill but I’m not sure and I have no recollection on her last name. None what-so-ever. (There’s a good chance that the female character’s name was Lisa or Jill.)
If I remember correctly the story starts with a woman driving when bam! A gorgeous man appears in the passenger seat dressed in early to mid 18th century apparel. One thing leads to another she freaks out, they fall in love, marry and have a child when on Christmas he goes back to his own time right before the heroines eyes. The second novel she ends up going back with their son Kitt, becomes a maid, and tries to find out what happened to her husband in her spare time. Next thing you know her employer is hosting a party and low and behold her husband is a guest.


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I want my ex back and I just need more advice?

I just want her back. I am going cazy because I just don’t know wha to do. I just want to work thing out.I just need more advice on how can I get her back by actions. I mean if see told me don’t call her what type of action can I do? Also if i do that what will see be thinking about by me not calling and giving her own time. I need help?


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hello people,

i had a major fall out with my bf a month ago… we split and he hated me for things i did to him… and not only this he as a retort went back to his ex girl..

However i realized i love him way too much to let go of him. So i apologized apologised and apologized… He took his own time to forgive me, but he has finally forgiven me.. He speaks to me nicely, meets me every couple of days… we are very comfortable with each other… just that.. over past 1 month he seems to have outgrown the romantic equation with me.. he seems to have more girls in his life, one of them being his ex gf whom he is also very close to..

Ignoring all of this i just concentrated in making things better in between both of us over past few weeks which seemed to have worked..

Howver, he still dsnt wanan get back with me, and wants to be only fFriendsi ppresume.

Ummm.. i think today i’ll ask him to try and make things work in between us, or at least stay ppositivewhere we both are concerned..

How do u think i sshouldgo about telling this to a stubborn, hard hearted and insensitive guy? i dnt wanna loose him…

please suggest… thanks guys :)


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