My ex-girlfriend plays soccer for Appalachian State, I am a huge oklahoma sooners fan, my ex-gf told me never to talk to her again and she got a new boyfrind, so I hung out with 30 Oklahoma sorority girls, I went to App state and I posted pics of me and the sorority partying and having fun all over my Ex-girlfriend’s dorm room door, My friend told me that my ex-gf was crying that I did that and crying about all those girls in the photo partying with me, so was this a great way to get revenge?, why or why not?
here is her pic from App state
http://www.goasu.com/wsoccer/roster/6048…
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A friend of mine began dating my ex a few years back, they lasted nearly three years and have now broken up. I couldn’t help but notice that the week prior to their breakup we were all partying, she was bringing up old times between me and her, deep ones of romance and the important things that happened between us. She also kept looking my way, but looking at me the same way she used to.
Then, a week later and they’re over.
Now I’ve noticed she’s always flirting with me and talking to me whenever she sees the chance. She’s wanting me to hang around with her, party with her, stuff like this.
The thing of it all is that I havn’t lost the same feelings I’ve had for her at all. I still have very strong feelings for her.
However she just ended it with a guy who’s literally like a brother to me. Yet he had no problem dating her when we split, so if I acted on the flirting, the feelings, everything, are my actions justified? Or would it be considered “wrong” of me to do that?
I’ve never stopped loving her, and have always secretly wished for a second chance. But he’s a best friend of mine.
OPINIONS?!
An additional note is te original reason we split is pretty much my problems with alcohol a few years back. I was drunk everyday and was never around her sober or without a bottle in my hand.
I could of had her back but made the stupid mistake of rejecting her to go after an … “Easier” girl who would get drunk all the time for me.
Changed now, see my mistakes.
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So, I am 23, and my husband is 27. We always get invited to his brothers house who is 25-26 and his wifes house who is also 23.. they have three kids, and we have one daughter.. well every weekend they invite us to go over to their house because they are "partying" with some friends and drinking whatever.. well we hardly go, but when we do go, I don’t drink and I make the night short.. (not past 9pm) so i feel bad for my husband because he wants to hang out with his brother.. but i want to get my daughter home bathed and fed and in bed at a decent hour now have her out all hours of the night so my husband can party with his brother. i understand that he doesn’t get to see him much.. but I mean.. i rather be a good parent and we made a commitment to our child when we decided to have children.. I want to be a responsible parent.. but I don’t want my husband feeling held back either.. how can I compromise with this situation?
by the way, my daughter is only 6 months.. she doesn’t do "nap" times and my husband would never "do something" to my daughter while she is sleeping.. that is just gross
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I had a six month casual relationship with this guy who I lost my virginity to. I got too attached to him and told him how I felt and that I either want an official relationship from him or thats it. So he asked me to be his girlfriend and that was the best in my life. But then, he went MIA for a while and when I finally called him, he told me that he didnt want a girlfriend right now and only needed to focus on his studies. He asked if we could still be friends and because I have strong feelings for him, I agreed. When we would "hang out", he would act like my boyfriend again, cuddle with me, hold my hand, making false promises and giving me false hope. I have realized that he was just playing with my feelings so that he was the only one who could have me and he was hoping for me to sleep with him again. I have decided to end it for good and have ignored him for the past few weeks.
Ever since we broke up two months ago, I have suffered major depression and have cried almost every night. I lost all of my closest friends because they had warned me about him but being so in love with him, I was too blind to see it. So I can’t talk to anyone about this, as I have no close friends. I try to be stong, act like nothing is wrong and put on a smile for everyone who knows me but I am dying on the inside. I have tried to forget about this with alcohol and partying but that just makes it worse. I feel like I am not worthy of a real relationship and I will never be loved. Please help! Will I ever get over this?
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my girlfriend has been acting weird for the past 4 weeks we only used to go out to the movies and restaurants because i have always love drinking and if we go out i spend all my money and we are trying to save to go live someplace else.. anyways to make a huge story short i let her go out one Friday 3 weeks ago but i told her to promise me she was not going to drink and get home early, so i called her at 3am and she still was not home and she sounded very drunk so the next day i confronted hear and told her that i trusted her and that she broke my trust and she was not going out because i cant even trust her not to do that.. fast forward to the next weekend comes Friday we go to the movies and to eat and she kept telling me how tired she was and how much she wanted to go home so at 11PM i left her home and went to take a shower to my house and started watching a movie it becomes 1am i call her phone and sure enough she was at a club i got so mad i broke up with her the next day but she started crying and calling me so i forgave her and went back with her again… fast forward again to Friday, we got in a small fight and told me that she was going to her friends house and that she never spends time with her blah blah blah so i said ok but stop to by my house once you take a shower and get ready to go with her, so she did but i noticed to much makeup on her face so i was very suspicions that she was going to a club, so i opened her cars trunk and there it was a new ward drove. so i told her why are you doing this to me i give you everything and do everything for you and you throw it all away for partying? she said you know what i am going and that’s it, so she left and went to the club… next day i had a date with some random chick NOW she starts throwing a fit and she starts to tell me that she is sorry that she only did it because she was mad at me and stuff so like the dumbazz i am i forgave her so NOW THIS WEEK she gets a call from an ex boyfriend and tells me to tell him not to call her again and i said no you tell him that and you put it on speaker, so she said no and i got out of the car and she left… a few hours pass and i cool-off and she comes to my house everything was fine but now today she told me she wants some space that she needs to thinking throw… what should i do?? i love her more than my self more than anyone else more than anything what should i do??? it kills me inside i work so hard to give her everything but she said she want a break and i told her nooo decide to stay with me or to breakup.. she couldn’t answer… what do i do? i am going crazy how can someone throw everything to go party?? wtf i do everything for her and she tells me she needs a break wtf???
Thank you for the answers.. i will also like to add a few details. 1.she has cheated on me twice once when we started going out and then five months after. 2.i don’t mind if she goes out but don’t pussyfoot it around just tell me i am going to get super drunk and dance with random guys , i don’t mind i am super comfortable with my self i just don’t like people to lie or pussyfoot a story or their actions. 3. she is bisexual i didn’t find out until two months in our relationship i didn’t mind at all i have nothing against it so i told her i did not mind if she had a gf or did something with another woman, so she got back with her ex girlfriend and well its nothing serious its just casual sex once in a while.. so you see i let her do anything if she just asks me she can have or buy anything i don’t mind really i just don’t know what else to do. is it my fault for being to open with her??? i don’t think i am a control freak but i like to know the truth and what she will be doing.
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