Things girls dont realize?
1. Guys are more emotional then you think, if they loved you at one point, it’ll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

2. Guys may be flirting around all day, but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

3. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

4. Guys will to anything just to get you to notice him.

5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they’re goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-he… how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.

8. Guys don’t care how gorgeous you are, if you’re a *****– Goodbye.

9. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh…nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he’ll assume he did something wrong and he’ll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

10. Girls are guys’ weaknesses.

11. Guys are very open about themselves.

12. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

13. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

14. Guys love you more than you love them.

15. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole hell of a lot.

16. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

17. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

18. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn’t notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

19. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

20. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he’s probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

21. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

22. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

23. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does, you know something’s up.

24. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don’t say you aren’t. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don’t want you to disagree with them.

25. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he’s definitely thinking something.

26. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

27. Don’t be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

28. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

29. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

30. A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl’s mind for a day.

31. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He’s just too stubborn to admit it.

32. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of them.

33. They love it when girls talk about their boobs.

34. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

35. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.

36. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.

37. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

38. Even if you dump a guy months ago and he loved you he probably still does and if he had one wish it would be you to come back into his life.

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Down all the time, no will to even move
Lights always off, won’t get up to eat my food
Stuck in this void, soul completely destroyed
Lost in the darkness, fallen like the city of Troy
Broken into pieces, everything caught in flames
Stuck out in the rain, an everlasting pain
All hope gone, my mentality lost in reality
This has put a disturbance in my personality
In a rut, my head in the darkest region of space
Loosing this race, my responsibility a waste
Heading the wrong direction, at the Devil selection
A mind set of hatred has come to a resurrection
My body can’t function, slowly I’m frantic
Can’t control it, constantly in this panic
Someday I wish to leave this darkened fortress
And maybe one day I again experience happiness

Floating in purgatory
A hellish nightmare story
No escape, can’t fight back
Forever in pitch black

Loosing it all, thanks to this ugly depression
Maybe its because of this everlasting recession
Sad thoughts continue to find a way inside
Still in bed, forgotten how many times I cried
Choosing just stay within the walls of my home
When I’m crazy as hell, so best leave me alone
Try to keep the evil thoughts from entering
About homicide, little children gone missing
Someone on the 34 floor to give his final jump
More people finding a way back into this slump
Women grabbed by the streets, about to be raped
Tied to the seat, no way for her to escape
Monoxide filling a room containing kids
Mass slaughtering of people stuffed in a fridge
No way out, why won’t these thoughts leave me
Want it to be over with, someone set me free

Floating in purgatory
A hellish nightmare story
No escape, can’t fight back
Forever in pitch black

Sick of the sadness, can’t cope with all of it
Pleading to God, to get and keep me from it
Got to fight the devil, fight him and his evil ways
It been to damn long, its been too many days
The damage done, completely devoured
Can’t believe the rejuvenation of this shower
Shook it off, thinking clearly, once again
Knowing I can win, the pain I can mend
If you don’t get rid of the evil on your shoulders
Can weigh you down like your carrying boulders
The Devil tries to get inside your head
Hoping you drink that water full of lead

Floating in purgatory
A hellish nightmare story
No escape, can’t fight back
Forever in pitch black

The Midwest Arsonist

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My friend has put me in trouble. He didn’t do it intentionally. And now i feel he is being separated from me due to the guilty consciousness he have. I want him to be like how he was before. His personality is also too delicate and gets upset or angry soon.

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if he even have feelings for me cos we do make out but he’s str8 ..u see im his first and he’d been a playboy all his life and he said he’s sure about his sexuality thts why he’s not afraid to do things.. anyways he always tells me that he loves me as a person, i can tell he likes my personality and me as a person.. anyways so just yesterday when i asked him how he feels honestly h said that he’s afraid to love me like gay people do cos he also believes that anyone can love a gay person- which makes total sense cos str8s usally dont do gay stuff just cos most of th time society dictates thm.. and so.. this is what i told him, i said that i dont want to force him into this cos i know it’s hard to be gay and he’s lucky that he’s straight that everyone sees him as normal and it has benefits.. so what should i do.. should i loose him cos i care about him, or should i wait and wait and give it another shot cos ive been literally waiting for a year already and its kinda tiring..
btw we made this promise that we wont see anyone else.. and we told ourselves that it’d be just the two of us for the longest time..

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I’ve been dating/talking to this guy for about a month and a half (though I met him a month prior). He’s…wonderful. I know he cares, he doesn’t have his mind on one thing and he really does adore me. I appreciate so many things he does for me & according to him he feels he "should be doing more b/c it’s not enough". Things are goin surprisingly well and since day 1, we’ve always been super comfortable w. each other.

Sooner or later, the "sex" talk was going to be brought up. (I’m actually surprised that he didn’t ask me right away). Thing is, I’m nearing my mid 20’s and i’m still a virgin. I’m not ugly w. a nice personality, nor weird…i’m very protective and picky…it just didn’t happen…didn’t feel right during those times. I’ve done other things BUT "that". I’ve only cared for 3 guys in my life. First boyfriend, i loved him but wasn’t "in love" and there was no chemistry; 2nd guy had too many STD’s and the 3rd…wasn’t "real love"…I just don’t wanna let it go so easily. I’m not ashamed at all yet past experiences have made me be a bit more conscious about it. My virginity was a deal breaker for some guys I’ve dated and as much as i’m "better off", it still kinda hurts. I’ve also dealt w. numerous guys that have only wanted 1 thing but I never let him succeed. With this guy, he’s not like other guys i’ve dated…i actually care about him…alot. So I was very hesistant/nervous/scared/anxious in telling him. So when I did, I got the typcal reaction, "geuninely shocked" and asked if i was really joking/lying "b/c there’s no way a pretty girl like you, would still be a virgin." (as I get fr. alot of guys i’ve dated). I got sensitive to it and just cried. And after he soaked it all in said, "babe, even if you stayed a virgin ’til the day you die, it doesn’t matter…and its okay, don’t worry. I’m not here for that. I want you and that love you give me b/c i’m happy…" The reason I get insecure is b/c guys can say how much they "respect" it and their gone or create their escape plans…i actually care about this guy. He then said, if it was a problem to him, the rest of the conversation would be awkward and we still stayed on the phone for another 2 hrs. He’s still normal around me and to make me feel better, he suggested to stop w. the "sex talk" and if I feel okay to talk it out, then we would another time. He admitted that for him as a guy, his # of women (who he slept w.) is considered "low" for a guy. I asked if he was relived hearing about me and he said, "a bit but it really doesn’t matter". Anyhoo, things are fine but I can’t helpt but feel insecure…

I’m not pressured to do anything w. him….but opening up that virgin confeeision made me get insecure. How can I rebound back and stop being insecure about it?
He’s a "shy guy" type btw…if that helps…and the # of girls he’s slept w? you can count in one hand and it’s been w. his serious, long term gf’s…i’ve got a good guy

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I’ve been dating/talking to this guy for about a month and a half (though I met him a month prior). He’s…wonderful. I know he cares, he doesn’t have his mind on one thing and he really does adore me. I appreciate so many things he does for me & according to him he feels he "should be doing more b/c it’s not enough". Things are goin surprisingly well and since day 1, we’ve always been super comfortable w. each other.

Sooner or later, the "sex" talk was going to be brought up. (I’m actually surprised that he didn’t ask me right away). Thing is, I’m nearing my mid 20’s and i’m still a virgin. I’m not ugly w. a nice personality, nor weird…i’m very protective and picky…it just didn’t happen…didn’t feel right during those times. I’ve done other things BUT "that". I’ve only cared for 3 guys in my life. First boyfriend, i loved him but wasn’t "in love" and there was no chemistry; 2nd guy had too many STD’s and the 3rd…wasn’t "real love"…I just don’t wanna let it go so easily. I’m not ashamed at all yet past experiences have made me be a bit more conscious about it. My virginity was a deal breaker for some guys I’ve dated and as much as i’m "better off", it still kinda hurts. I’ve also dealt w. numerous guys that have only wanted 1 thing but I never let him succeed. With this guy, he’s not like other guys i’ve dated…i actually care about him…alot. So I was very hesistant/nervous/scared/anxious in telling him. So when I did, I got the typcal reaction, "geuninely shocked" and asked if i was really joking/lying "b/c there’s no way a pretty girl like you, would still be a virgin." (as I get fr. alot of guys i’ve dated). I got sensitive to it and just cried. And after he soaked it all in said, "babe, even if you stayed a virgin ’til the day you die, it doesn’t matter…and its okay, don’t worry. I’m not here for that. I want you and that love you give me b/c i’m happy…" The reason I get insecure is b/c guys can say how much they "respect" it and their gone or create their escape plans…i actually care about this guy. He then said, if it was a problem to him, the rest of the conversation would be awkward and we still stayed on the phone for another 2 hrs. He’s still normal around me and to make me feel better, he suggested to stop w. the "sex talk" and if I feel okay to talk it out, then we would another time. He admitted that for him as a guy, his # of women (who he slept w.) is considered "low" for a guy. I asked if he was relived hearing about me and he said, "a bit but it really doesn’t matter". Anyhoo, things are fine but I can’t helpt but feel insecure…

I’m not pressured to do anything w. him….but opening up that virgin confeeision made me get insecure. How can I rebound back and stop being insecure about it?
(Also i’m scared things may change or he may look at me differently….)

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hi i am 36 and single going to be 37 on june 17 th ( having bit of birthday blues ) …..i never married because i never found the right woman and now i am bit set in my ways to contemplate marriage … i am in a reasonably dead end job ….. in the accepted meaning of the term i am a failure . … but i have kicked alcoholism 8 years back after a 6 year affair with the bottle .. i have overcome dire poverty to have an existence and have changed from being a wimp to having a rather pleasant personality ….. am i being too harsh on myself just because i do not have a wife and mandatory two and half kids and a dog … and have not yet been able to accumulate assets like house , or started saving for retirement …….
does anyone know a good motivation , self help website ?
i believe like Rocky … " it is not how hard you get hit and stand up which matters .. but how hard you can get hit and keep moving ….. " is that a good mantra to have ?
Oops that was wrong quote here is the right one …." It ain’t how hard you hit; it’s about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done. "

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I know that you guys need a lot of attention and that once you made up your mind about something, it’s hard to change it. My ex bf said he wanted his freedom and he wanted to be single. We were in love like crazy for 8 months then he just gave up on me due to my negativity but now i changed like A LOOOTT! and i am proud of me and i admire my personality i have confident am nto broken anymore i want him to see me like this and take me back because thats what he fell in love with me beign all happy and energetic and enthusiastic. But what, if ANYTHING is possible under heaven, will make you want to go back out with your girlfriend? Please help me out. Thanks all you sexy Aries! I would appreciate your help

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If you have recently gone through a tough break up, chances are you’re looking for some proven tips on how to to get your wife back. It can be one of life’s most difficult situations: a marriage falling apart.  While it is important to try to honestly evaluate the problems in your marriage, and be willing to make reasonable changes to your unacceptable behavior, you still need to answer the question: ‘how do i get my wife to come back home?’ You can’t even work on your relationship until she is home.

It’s helpful if you have a ‘game plan’ for when your wife returns home.  This isn’t about manipulation or only paying lip service to making changes, it’s about taking stock of the person you are and what areas of your personality and behavior you need to change.  Remember you’re not just making changes to keep your wife happy, you’re making changes that need to be made for you to become a better person and a better husband.

Having given honest consideration to these things before your wife comes home will mean that you don’t just repeat the same hurtful and destructive behaviors that caused her to leave in the first place.  You don’t want to have a relationship that is turbulent where you are constantly fighting about the same things.   That type of relationship isn’t good for anyone. Now that you have honestly accepted that there are some changes you will need to make, it’s time to figure out how to get your wife to come home.

Here are some steps that can help you convince your wife that you still love her and there is hope for your relationship and that she should return home:

1. The first thing is to let her know that you’ve been honest with yourself and realize that there are things in your behavior that you are willing, and able, to change.  Let her know that you are a sincere, mature man who wants to be a better man and a better husband and that you are willing to work on those things.  If she has real reason to believe things can be different this time she’ll be more likely to return home and give it a try.

2. Don’t go into ‘bachelor mode’ and be a pig.  Keep the house clean.  Shower, shave, do the laundry, etc.  Your wife sure isn’t going to want to come home if she feels like she is just going to have to be the maid.  No woman wants to have to be a mother to her own husband.  Most woman want a friend, a partner, and a lover.  Let her see that even though you miss her, you respect her enough to keep up with the housework even when you’re on your own.

3. If you’re wrong, admit it and apologize.  Many men get caught up in the macho idea that apologizing is a sign of weakness.  Nothing could be further from the truth.  If you screw up and admit it and apologize that is actually a sign of confidence, strength, and maturity.

Admitting when you are wrong and offering a sincere apology not only lets others know that you are a mature, confidant person, it also shows that you have respect for yourself and for them.

The reality is that people who won’t apologize are actually very weak and insecure.  They are too unsure of themselves to be able to admit they were wrong.  When you’re confidant enough in yourself to offer a sincere apology it shows that you are a strong, confidant individual…and that is sexy to any woman.

I hope these tips have given you some ideas on how to answer the question: “how do i get my wife to come back home?” The point is that if you truly want your marriage to work you need to be willing to work on your marriage.  It takes two.

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I will try and make this as short as possible. Few months ago, out drinking with one of my best friend he begins telling me how sexy he finds my wife, and tells me he would love to have sex with her. He probably expected to get punched in the shoulder, but I told him this has always been a fantasy of mine, allowing my wife to sleep with another man. Although I have never told my wife, or anyone for that matter. My friend and I did not speak about it until a week ago, and I invited him over for dinner last night. I never thought anything would happen other than than some minor flirting, due to her personality. She is the typical business women, very serious, no nonsense and professional… basically does not put up with any crap. My wife was dressed very nicely, wearing a short black dress and black stiletto heels. I kept the drinks flowing, and the 2 of them started flirting heavily. He had his hands all over her and she was very responsive. I began making comments like you two need to get a room. Finally I said jokingly… you 2 should just get this over with and go in the den and have sex. I went in the kitchen to get another drink and I hear a door shut. They had gone in the den together, and I just waited in the living room. A few minutes later I knew my fantasy was coming true, as I heard her beginning to moan. I waited a while and listened to her getting louder and louder and finally peeked in. He had her pinned up against the wall naked wearing only her stiletto heels, pounding her absolutely senseless! I went back into the living room and listened to her. I have never heard her moan and scream that loud, and it went on for almost 2 hours. This morning she was concerned how I felt and i assured her it was a huge turn on for me and that i was fine with it. I asked her for details of the experience and she told me that she had more orgasms than she could count, and that he was so big he could barely fit inside her, but once he was inside it was the most amazing feeling shes ever had. I can not wait for her to do this again, and she agreed to do this often! Should I just stop this now? I know I probably should, but really don’t want to!

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Hi .. I am 36 and single going to be 37 on june 17 th ( having bit of birthday blues ) …..i never married because i never found the right woman and now i am bit set in my ways to contemplate marriage … i am in a reasonably dead end job ….. in the accepted meaning of the term i am a failure . … but i have kicked alcoholism 8 years back after a 6 year affair with the bottle .. i have overcome dire poverty to have an existence and have changed from being a wimp to having a rather pleasant personality ….. am i being too harsh on myself just because i do not have a wife and mandatory two and half kids and a dog … and have not yet been able to accumulate assets like house , or started saving for retirement …….
does anyone know a good motivation , self help website ?
i believe like Rocky … " it is not how hard you get hit and stand up which matters .. but how hard you can get hit and keep moving ….. " is that a good mantra to have ?
uh forgot to mention that i am from india … but i am very cosmopolitan so your answers are welcome where ever you are in the world ..

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I’m about to be 21 years old now.. And i’ve been through alot.. enough to make it where I don’t want to EVER date again. In my mind, I believe all girls are evil and they want to eat your soul. Let me explain.

My first true love died in after a carwreck three days later in the hospital… As a result, I went into a really bad drug frenzy because I couldn’t deal with it. During this time, I met another girl.. Who looked just like her and had the same kind of personality too. Anyways, she always said she loved me and would never leave me.. [I asked her this all the time cause I was always tripping and paranoid] I was madly in love with her.. I would have killed myself in the blink of an eye.. I couldn’t imagine living without her. Well it ended after 8 months. And after it did end, I went crazy. I did things I shouldn’t have did and got locked up.. And I got a restraining order put on me. That was over 2 years ago…

I haven’t dated since. I have tried.. But I never ask a girl out.. everytime i started getting to know them.. they want to leave for someone else.. And I mean.. I always tell them i want to take it slow.. I would always plan to get to know them for a couple of months before asking them out.. But girls around my town always want to rush into things and start saying they love people when they first start going out with them. So every girl has pretty much ditched me for another guy just because I don’t jump in and start loving them. I know what love is now. I’ve felt it. Its everytime you see that person you love.. It feels like your heart drops into the pit of your stomach.. It beats so fast and you get a adreniline rush.

I just wonder if I will ever feel that again.. If i’ll ever have a wife of my own.. I don’t want to be lonely.. I’m scared of being lonely.. But i never show it around anyone.

What should I do? I’m in recovery right now.. [Been sober for a year] I’m a big Jesus freak. I go to therapy. I miss her alot.. And I hate her.. Its weird.. If I had the chance to go back with her.. I wouldn’t.. I dream about her sometimes still.. I think about her too sometimes unexpectedly.. If I wouldn’t have been on a drug that enhances your feelings x 100. I wouldn’t be this way i’m sure.

Any advice?

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I am 19 and my bf is 20, we are both virgins (I know I am, not sure if he is lying). We started having handjobs and he wanted to have sex earlier but I said I won’t coz I am saved for marriage. Now I said I will stop having handjobs, he said its not gonna work out like that. There are things I wanna change in him, and he says I WILL CHANGE and he keeps agreeing with whatever I say, almost, can I believe him or is he saying that to hang me and make me love him more??? He shouldn’t change anyway but he claimes he will. So, 1- I am not sure if he will change coz otherwise it won’t work out!!! 2- he says I am waaay more than sex to him and he wants to marry me, but he is so concerened about handjobs and was concered about sex although now he understands and says he won’t do it until we tie the bond.

Just so you know: I am drop dead gorgeous (what people say), smart, faithful, tender-hearted and my friends say I can find better but ADVICES are APPRECIATED GREATLY!! WHAT SHOULD I DOOO??
He says he IS so turned always he sees me and hits my butt in public!!! Only thing is, he says he will CHANGE and I don’t know whether to believe him or not.

Also, for: "stop being selfish", so its all about handjobs? I give him all my love, all my care, support, I will give him my virginity in future, I am always there for him when he needs me. He also seems cheap, isn’t that selfish for me? And aren’t we supposed to love "each other’s heart/ personality" first, and then think of handjobs and sex during marriage to strengthen our bond?

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I loved this guy once , madly , he was too good to be true. He was always there for me , respected me , wanted to comfort me and make me feel safe .. always use to text after nights out with my girlie friends to see if im getting home ok and if im safe. He use to tell me I was beautiful and that he loved me, Even asked if he could take me on a date on valentines day to anywere i wished to go and he would get a car to me to make sure i got there ok, sent flowers to my work and chocolates and even bought me a ring as he wanted to propose when i felt i was ready. Thing is there is a huge age gap and I felt maybe i wasnt really what he needed although he took to my personality, so i let him go and we havnt spoke since. Is it true when you let go of something as good as that its rare it will happen again? Will I ever be treated the way or feel the way I did again with maybe someone younger?

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hi i am 36 and single going to be 37 on june 17 th ( having bit of birthday blues ) …..i never married because i never found the right woman and now i am bit set in my ways to contemplate marriage … i am in a reasonably dead end job ….. in the accepted meaning of the term i am a failure . … but i have kicked alcoholism 8 years back after a 6 year affair with the bottle .. i have overcome dire poverty to have an existence and have changed from being a wimp to having a rather pleasant personality ….. am i being too harsh on myself just because i do not have a wife and mandatory two and half kids and a dog … and have not yet been able to accumulate assets like house , or started saving for retirement …….
does anyone know a good motivation , self help website ?
i believe like Rocky … " it is not how hard you get hit and stand up which matters .. but how hard you can get hit and keep moving ….. " is that a good mantra to have ?
uh i work as a teacher and i forgot to add that i am from India …… but i am very cosmopolitan so your answers are welcome where ever you are ?

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Alright here is the story, Me and my Ex were going out for about 9 months in 2007 and we decided it would be best for us to break up because we where both going to be going to different schools and we both live on opposite sides of town so we would never really see each other.

That was all back in 2007 and it’s obviously 2009 now so we haven’t been going out for a few years.

Starting in august we have started talking to each other almost every day and for the past few days now we have been talking for about 5 hours each day..

The other day she was telling me some things like how much she hates her ex boyfriend and she was telling me mean things people say to her etc. I replied saying not to listen to anything those people say as they are stupid! lol

Well basically i want to ask her to the movies and hang out with her but im not sure what i should say =/ She is currently on msn right now and we are talking but it says shes busy because she is watching a tvshow. How should i bring it up with out sounding completely random or w.e.?

I do want to get back together with her but im not sure if she feels the same way..

She is the most beautiful girl i have ever met and she has the most amazing personality.. i would just do anything to be with her again.. seriously just thinking about her actually brings a tear to my eye knowing im not with her right now.. =(
(And no im not just saying that)

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