BF Upset about his bestfriend(also an ex) being pregnant?

*I am pretty sure its not his* I have never seen my bf cry until today when I stopped by his place to visit and we have been together for almost a year. So naturally I asked what was wrong and he told me that his best friend was pregnant. His best friend is a girl who used to be one of his roomates, they all lived together for almost four years. I noticed their chemistry before we dated and questioned him about it and he said they had been romantically involved for a while but that was over and they were just best friends who had been through thick and thin together. They visit each other a bit and we have gone out together, she has now been with someone else for a while and we’ve done double dates and everyone seems to get along great. So i was confused why he was upset that she was pregnant and I asked him, this made him angry and he asked me to leave but I stood my ground because I was scared maybe something had happened between them. He then told me that he had gotten her pregnant, unplanned and that they decided they were going to keep the baby because apparently they used protection and figured it was meant to be when that failed. Two months before the baby was due they were in a car accident and she lost the baby and went into a bit of depression, they stopped their physical relationship and have still been best friends since even though they both date other people. I felt horrible, I had no idea but also I think maybe he should have told this to me before now. The worst part is that he said It was so unfair he screwed up his chance for a family (he was driving and only had a few scratches) and that he doesn’t know if he can watch her be so happy and pregnant because it brings back so much to him. He said sorry and asked me to leave for a bit because he is so emotional right now . I can’t imagine going through that but I feel like he should move on from it, she seems to have especially now that he’s with me. What would you do?
** I know this is almost a repeat but it is more clarified now that I am not as emotional as I was when I intially posted ** Also this forum seems to have a more mature audience then the relationships



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