As soon as she was back on her feet, she began cheating on him. He is a little pissed off.
i was with this girl i courted her and she answered to me. we last for about 2 months. after that she gave me a tons of reasons and broke up. i finally learned that she just broke up with her ex-boyfriend when I courted her, and she said that i am only a fling and she is not considering me as a boyfriend? i am so pissed off! what things i can do to recover?
My husband and I have been together for 9 years and married for three. I’m aware that my husband abuse alcohol. Recently He was arrested for drinking in public. I was the one he called collect every single day. I was even the one who done all the running around for him while he was incarcerated. He came home and started drinking more and he even tried to cheat on me. I threatened to leave him. He begged me to stay he he would change. I gave him another chance. Now another problem came up today,His pay check didn’t come in the mail and we are behind on our rent so now hes pissed off. He left the house and won’t answer his cell phone. Can my marriage be saved or should i just let it go?
So over the past few months my boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot. Mainly it’s b/c we’re talking about buying a house together (no comments on you should wait to get married..it’s an investment and he’s a partner) and trying to get our credit scores up by paying off some small stuff on our reports and try to pay down CC etc…basically just get our finance in order. Our fights mainly center around small stuff like cleaning the house and stuff like that.
But about 2 days ago he received a letter in the mail in regards to some Medical CC that was no interest for 12 months. Well, he went beyond the 12 months and now has to pay back interest. The thing is, i told him about this a year ago. He’s always lecturing me on my spending habits..but i have an excel spread..i run my finances/house like a business..i have income, expenses NOI per month…and the excel spreadsheet matches my bank acct to the dollar. NEway, he’s all pissed off now b/c he paid only half of the bill in a years time and now with the back interest it calcuates out to he’s only really paid like . so he’s back to where he was a year ago. He’s pissed. I mentioned that he should have listened to me a year ago when I tried tell him he needs to pay no less than 0 a month (more would optional) to make sure you don’t accrue the interest at the end of the year. Of course, he starts an aguement, even then, claiming I don’t konw what I’m talking about.
So today we got into a major agruement b/c i went to Chipotle for lunch..he starts to lecture me about how i need to save (i make slightly more than him) for a house blah blah blah. It just really pissed me off b/c i’m totally in control of my finances..i have even suggested that i give him the excel spread i use..it’s simple to use and it would help him. But he refuses. So then the fact that he works at a dead end job came into play and he gets all huffy. It’s like, i’m bust my butt at work..i do commerical real estate..its really slow right now, but i have been searching for other options myself lately. Like maybe working full time and go back to get my masters…i have asked him today if he doesn’t have enough money to pay his bills has he thought of pursuing other options. He always blames it on something..right now it’s ecnonomy before it was "i like my job..it’s low stress". I feel that he’s not trying.
So my question is….can some married or long-term relationship ppl offer some advice on how i can get him to listen. He acts like i don’t know what i’m talking about half the time….but i’m more business savy than him. I read contracts etc etc. He doesn’t even want to reliquinsh the ropes to me either. I have suggested even doing his bills for him. He’s horrible with money management. I have talked about marriage, but seriously, i can’t marry him if he’s not gonna reliniquish the finance management robes to me. He’s has proved to me he cannot management his money "our" money in the future. Any suggestion please on how to approach this situation so it will make sense to him and will concede. I almost have to make it like it was his idea. Men are soooo prideful and odd sometimes.
he broke up with me practically two weeks ago and i was his first real love and relationship.
i felt like he got sick of me because we usually always argued but he did regret breaking up with me 3 nights later when i was not even speaking with him.
he told me we need to fix things before we got back together and he flirted with me that whole night we hungout of us not talking for 3 days.
like the night was going great he was flirting with me and we were started drinking out on my back patio. We were having fun but i think i got real pissed off when we went and smoked weed because the way he was acting turned me off so i started cussing at him
I think i ruined my chance of like ever getting back with him…
like he really did care for me and he did love me..
we just always got frustrated when we were around eachother and i kinda stopped eating because i was depressed.
I really dont think he cares about me and i havent talked to him in 3 days because he came with his friends and my friends to a party and we didnt talk since… i think its really over after all that hard effort of 10 months of dating but to be honest i was his first real relationship and he was mine… and i did take his v-card to put in… like i want him back….. Is 2 weeks a long time for a break up… what should i do to get him back to me…?
!!!!!!please help. thanks
