Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a month or two now. We’re both in high school, I’m a 10th grader and she’s a 9th grader. We rarely see each other out of school, maybe once a week. We get to see each other mostly at school football games, after the game for pizza, or a special event. She seems to want to hang out with her friends more than me. I am always there if she wants to see me though. We haven’t seen each other since Friday and it was an awkward night. We went to eat after school and her friends were with her. I had no friends with me, I had a hard time contributing to the conversation because they were talking about past memories or cheer-leading or dance. Nothing I could relate too. So I sat at the table silent, not paying attention, and watching E.S.P.N. After that night, our relationship has been dying, she told me she doesn’t like me as much as she used to. To be honest, I don’t like her as much as I use to either. I’ve asked her if she wanted to break up and she has considered it and I’ve considered it. But I don’t want to end it and neither does she. We are both very attracted to each other but the spark doesn’t feel like it’s there anymore. What can I do to save a dying relationship? I’ll see her tomorrow at school and I’m going to call her later tonight so please answer.
Other things you should know:
1. She told me she doesn’t think she treats me good enough.
2. People told her to break up with me (for no valid reason)
3. People told me to break up with her (for no valid reason)
4. I’ll add more when I think of some.
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So I really care about my ex-boyfriend. I can honestly say ive never felt this way about any guy I ever dated. Heres my story of what happened…
We are in college, He lives directly across the hall from me. He was in my room one night and texted me "wanna go get something to eat?" so i was like of course! He took me to this pizza place and put his arm around me and I new he was trying to kiss me but instead I said, wanna go back to the dorm? We did and that night he was talking to my suitemates and told them that he really liked me. We started hooking up that two weeks later he asked me out. three weeks later we broke up but continued hooking up until November 9.
Now, we were hooking up EVERY DAY from September to november. He made me feel like I was the only girl he was seeing because he told me he was crazy about me and he asked me…are you hooking up with other people? I told him of course not and then i asked him and he told me no. He took me out in public a couple times and we would always kiss and hold hands and kiss WHENEVER WE LEFT EACHOTHER
Now, i return to school one sunday and see hickeys all over his neck..i confront him and he laughs it off. I see photos on facebook of him making out with this girl from a club he met that night. I later find out that he had sex with her on that friday along with another girl the previous night. I then found out he hooked up with a couple people during the time we were hooking up.
I screamed at him…ive been devasted for almost one month and i cant stop thinking about him and it hurts because i feel like he doesnt give a shit about me anymore.
He told my friend that he genuinly liked me but now he just cant anymore.
I want him back…i never realized how depressed i would be that were not together.
Im transferring next semester and only have a few days left here and i want to tell him that i want to be with him.
How can i do this without sounding stupid. please help me =/
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