First of all it’s not really a book yet, and I don’t expect it to get published because so far its only 12 pages and I haven’t added anything since 6 months ago because I have writer’s block, but as I re-read it I noticed that it has no symbolic meaning, it’s just a random magical story, with a series of events, occaisionally a few plot twists, and a lot of dramatic moments because I love writing dramatic things especially with magic- but there’s no message being sent out from the story itself, and I think that might be why I’m having trouble. I’m 14 and I love writing, but my ideas aren’t really coming out very well especailly because I’m going through a point in life right now where I’m having trouble "finding my true self." So I guess that’s why I don’t have much to express through my writing and my story. It gets kind of boring because it’s just like I’m playing games making up these random events and putting them into the plot. I’m actually not as inspired as I thought. Advice?
Can You win your ex boyfriend back?
Ok so me and my ex dated off an on for awhile. He went into the marines, and wrote me TONS of love letters which i never responded to.
I tried calling after he graduated and a week later he apologized and said that he was upset that i never responded so he basically tried to “punish” me. I went through this huge confession that I still loved him and yada yada. Now that ive confessed he basically has been trying to piss me off by making me jealous.
He tells me the marines have taught him not to “feel”. and hes no longer jealous that I have a boyfriend. Obviously hes playing games with me because he was “upset” because I didnt write and now he doesnt feel anything?
Yeah right, then after I told him I was going to dinner with my boyfriend he says he rented a hotel room with a jacuzzi and is going there with his new gf, in which he texted me at midnight to tell me he had awesome sex. (which im sure hes lieing because who texts their xgf when their with their new gf to tell them they had sex? thats just disrepectful to you new gf.
Tonight, after he claims that he’ll probably “forget” about me at marine combat training, I told him to stop kidding, and that i really know he loves me. He told me I have a problem and that he was going out with his new gf, (no name given!) lol.
So now, im hurt, and decide to tell him I was joking around and just wanted to make him THINK I liked him. He calls me and tells me to stop acting like a 3 yr old and getting pissy jealous and tells me hes going out on a date and hangs up. Im upset, and kind of want to win him back, if not, really HURT him.
I know its stupid and im playing games, but talking to him doesnt work, I need to know how to manipulate him. any ideas? PLEASE NO SMART ALECK REMARKS! If he wants to play dirty, so will I.
My father has never been denied access to his grandchildren. He’s been invited to all birthdays, holidays, etc, he has babysat, they have visited etc. But he rarely sees them or asks about them except for holidays. This isn’t shocking as he left when I was nine years old and was gone for 10 years. Came back when child support wasn’t expected of him anymore. We’ve never had a problems respecing my kids until now.
Now he has contacted my ex behind my back, set up meetings between my ex and him and the kids and even called my ex instead of me to say he had a present for my son for his bday but never called me who the kids live with. And didn’t even contact me to tll me anything, I find out from my son and my ex!
He has always been manipulative, blaming my mother for HIS abandoning his children, never taking any responsibility. I bit my tongue so my kids at least knew him but now he is up to his drama and games again. There is also a court procedure going on with my ex and myself, but we do get along very well considering (me and my ex).
I confronted him and told him it was manipulative and disloyal and wrong to be doing this behind my back and gave a sob story abut how I keep the kids from him, blantantly bullshitting me to my face. He had the kids overnight one week before contacting my ex! So this is a lie he is using as an excuse for his actions. I have told him, considering all he has done, this is the last straw and I want nothing to do with him.
Am I right to be upset?
My father likes playing games with people..he played me and my sister against each other for years. Now that we get along, this is his new target.
His excuse to me was that I never let him see the kids then admitted the week before he had them overnight! So this is a huge game to him. He expects everything to be handed to him and never make an effort. He pops round for glory visits on holidays and then the kids never hear from him
My father likes playing games with people..he played me and my sister against each other for years. Now that we get along, this is his new target.
His excuse to me was that I never let him see the kids then admitted the week before he had them overnight! So this is a huge game to him. He expects everything to be handed to him and never make an effort. He pops round for glory visits on holidays and then the kids never hear from him
I’m just wondering what other people since those are usually the types of video games I tend to play. I’m just curious what other people think. As for me, I don’t think it’s ever affected my faith. I mean, I’ve been playing video games since I was like 5 or 6 and they’ve never effect my faith, Actually I even started playing games like before I was A Christian. But I’m still growing as a Christian pretty fast, not as fast I’d like it too, but I’m still growing.
Actually the main thing that started this is that I started to find that my friends have started to change from what they used to be like since they were growing as Christians really a lot faster than I am. And there interests started to change. So that was bugging me, since I’m in between anxiety meds right now. Getting off one and starting anther(The new is also supposed to help my depression, and maybe even my social skills too.). But because of that my mind started to run wild since I my old med is only on half strength at the time, and the I haven’t been taking the new long enough to have a real effect on me. Anyway, my mind made me thing that God would eventually make me get rid of all my games. After battling that fear for a while. and now that I’m the new med is taking more of an effect. My mind is getting more reasonable so now I’m just worried about this now. Long story short, it wasn’t the holy spirit it was my ocd.
Anyway I get this weird feeling when something has a chance of effecting my faith. I’d guess it’s some sorta form of discernment since it only goes off when a few times. Like when I found a girl I knew was a wiccan. When I was this documentary thing about the Crystal Skulls and they were showing some sorta satanic or pagan ritual. You know stuff like that. But it’s never gone off when I’ve been playing video games like this. Probably because when I play video games like I don’t usually focus on the magic since to me it’s just either sprites, 3D models, or a particle system that makes up the magic on the TV screen I don’t focus on it. The demons usually are bad guys in the games. The other gods are usually the enemies or sometimes they help you. But once again I don’t’ really focus in it.
BTW, I can honestly say that I wouldn’t that afraid if Jesus walked on me if I was playing those kind of games.
"Abstain from all appearance of evil." 1 Thessalonians 5:22
Do you think it’s talking about something like video games?
I’m just wondering what other people since those are usually the types of video games I tend to play. I’m just curious what other people think. As for me, I don’t think it’s ever affected my faith. I mean, I’ve been playing video games since I was like 5 or 6 and they’ve never effect my faith, Actually I even started playing games like before I was A Christian. But I’m still growing as a Christian pretty fast, not as fast I’d like it too, but I’m still growing.
Actually the main thing that started this is that I started to find that my friends have started to change from what they used to be like since they were growing as Christians really a lot faster than I am. And there interests started to change. So that was bugging me, since I’m in between anxiety meds right now. Getting off one and starting anther(The new is also supposed to help my depression, and maybe even my social skills too.). But because of that my mind started to run wild since I my old med is only on half strength at the time, and the I haven’t been taking the new long enough to have a real effect on me. Anyway, my mind made me thing that God would eventually make me get rid of all my games. After battling that fear for a while. and now that I’m the new med is taking more of an effect. My mind is getting more reasonable so now I’m just worried about this now. Long story short, it wasn’t the holy spirit it was my ocd.
Anyway I get this weird feeling when something has a chance of effecting my faith. I’d guess it’s some sorta form of discernment since it only goes off when a few times. Like when I found a girl I knew was a wiccan. When I was this documentary thing about the Crystal Skulls and they were showing some sorta satanic or pagan ritual. You know stuff like that. But it’s never gone off when I’ve been playing video games like this. Probably because when I play video games like I don’t usually focus on the magic since to me it’s just either sprites, 3D models, or a particle system that makes up the magic on the TV screen I don’t focus on it. The demons usually are bad guys in the games. The other gods are usually the enemies or sometimes they help you. But once again I don’t’ really focus in it.
BTW, I can honestly say that I wouldn’t that afraid if Jesus walked on me if I was playing those kind of games.
"Abstain from all appearance of evil." 1 Thessalonians 5:22
Do you think it’s talking about something like video games?
I’m just wondering what other people since those are usually the types of video games I tend to play. I’m just curious what other people think. As for me, I don’t think it’s ever affected my faith. I mean, I’ve been playing video games since I was like 5 or 6 and they’ve never effect my faith, Actually I even started playing games like before I was A Christian. But I’m still growing as a Christian pretty fast, not as fast I’d like it too, but I’m still growing.
Actually the main thing that started this is that I started to find that my friends have started to change from what they used to be like since they were growing as Christians really a lot faster than I am. And there interests started to change. So that was bugging me, since I’m in between anxiety meds right now. Getting off one and starting anther(The new is also supposed to help my depression, and maybe even my social skills too.). But because of that my mind started to run wild since I my old med is only on half strength at the time, and the I haven’t been taking the new long enough to have a real effect on me. Anyway, my mind made me thing that God would eventually make me get rid of all my games. After battling that fear for a while. and now that I’m the new med is taking more of an effect. My mind is getting more reasonable so now I’m just worried about this now. Long story short, it wasn’t the holy spirit it was my ocd.
Anyway I get this weird feeling when something has a chance of effecting my faith. I’d guess it’s some sorta form of discernment since it only goes off when a few times. Like when I found a girl I knew was a wiccan. When I was this documentary thing about the Crystal Skulls and they were showing some sorta satanic or pagan ritual. You know stuff like that. But it’s never gone off when I’ve been playing video games like this. Probably because when I play video games like I don’t usually focus on the magic since to me it’s just either sprites, 3D models, or a particle system that makes up the magic on the TV screen I don’t focus on it. The demons usually are bad guys in the games. The other gods are usually the enemies or sometimes they help you. But once again I don’t’ really focus in it.
BTW, I can honestly say that I wouldn’t that afraid if Jesus walked on me if I was playing those kind of games.
"Abstain from all appearance of evil." 1 Thessalonians 5:22
Do you think it’s talking about something like video games?
What do I need to do to my browser to keep the scores or winnings? It resets to 1000 everytime I return
We’ve been together for 7 years, we have 3 children 51/2, 4, and 3. I’ve haven’t felt "in love" with him since before the birth of our 3rd child. I’ve told him this before, we’re trying to work it out. I thought it was working but I still don’t feel like I can fall back in love with him. I have trouble kissing him, we barely have sex and the only thing we seem to talk about is the children. I have cheated on him in the past although he doesnt know. We have a beautiful house and 2 nice vehicles. I don’t want to loose that but I can’t move out and neither can he. I’m just so unhappy almost depressed about the situation. My parents don’t agree, my husband thinks I’m playing mind games with him but I’ve been honest with everyone (except the cheating part, but that was the past.) Do I just suck it up for the kids and continue being unhappy or say it again and mean it that I’m done and loose everything I’ve worked for?
We make a great family but not a couple. It’s really hard to know and deal with the fact that I’m not sexually into my husband when a normal couple should be. HELP!
I’m not worried about the house, Its that I created a place for my children to grow and I don’t want to take that away from them.
BTW – we dated 2 months before I got pregnant with our son.
We were dating for about two years, until this girl came into the picture. She was constanly flirting with him and i couldn’t stand it any more. I got jealous and we were always arguing over her. then, out of no where he broke up with me because only "half of his heart" was in it. Now they are together for about a month and i don’t know what to do because i still love him and he continues to text me and tell me he misses me and wants to hang out still.
what does this mean? Is he just playing games?
Long story short (well, kind of); I lived at home until I was 23 so my mom and I had more time than most to bond. We are really close and we consider each other our best friend. I moved in with my b/f just 10 miles away in the next town over and was always there to talk to her or visit frequently. My b/f was an immigrant and there was a problem with his visa and he got sent back to his home country just before we were about to get married. I love him with all my heart so I moved to his country to be with him and I couldn’t imagine it any other way because I love him with all of my heart. We got married in his country and I am now living there. This was all early last year. I stayed about 6 months and needed to come back to the U.S. for personal reason and I have been here almost 5 1/2 months but I am leaving in a few weeks to permanently be with him.
The thing is, my mother has been with the same man for 18 years and he treats her horribly. Right after I came back we found out he was seeing another lady and he ended up moving in with her. He’s coming back and forth between the two now playing games with both of them. We live in a very small town and my mother doesn’t have many friends or any hope of finding someone else and truth be told I think she still wants him to come back. One reason is that she can’t financially support herself and my teenage brother that lives with her. She really has no one and I see her devestated that I am leaving although she understands that I have to in order to save my marriage. The man she is seeing (back and forth) is a horrible person and she’s constantly depressed because of his actions and my brother adds to that. He is disrespectful and out of control. He cusses her, calls her names, and really treats her like a piece of crap. I feel so bad leaving here there all alone but I realize I am an adult now and I have to get on with my life.
She’s on disability and has no job to occupy her time. She sits around everyday doing basically nothing and has started to drink more and more.
I don’t know what to do. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks for reading such a long question!
I wish my mother would come with me. She’s not as open minded as I am about moving to a different country and she’s dead set on having my brother finish school where he is and not having to sell her house, etc.
