How likely is it that your ex would back off from contacting you if he really wants you back?

How do you know if your ex is just playing games with your head or he really realizes he made a mistake. My ex called me several days ago after I had not contacted him for several wks. because he had told me it was over & to move on-he was seeing a married woman after we split but, not sure whats going on with that. He called to tell me he would continue paying my car insur. & then came over & kissed me. I remained cool because I wasn’t sure what he was up to.Then he calls again three days later to ask me if he had left something here (he still has personal belongings here he never picked up) & then told me once again he would be coming the next day to get the rest of his stuff. I didn’t say anything other than ok. Wasn’t sure if he was looking for a reaction but, he never did come.I do love him & want him back but, now I have not heard from him again in 5 days. Should I have said something more- I don’t want to put myself out there again to get hurt. Not sure what to do-please help.


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Help with something I percieve as addiction?

First of all, I like playing mmorpg’s alot. Runescape, Runes of Magic, Rose online, maplestory, etc. I stopped playing all of them but I started runes of magic. ITs like WoW as people say, but i never played WoW and i dont plan on doing so.

I am not a game addict, but i regard myself as one. The only time i play games (mmorpg’s) is at night from 11:00p.m to 2:00p.m. If i were home alone, I would probably play all day. I’m sick and tired of this dumb habit. I understand that mmorpg’s like WoW and others mentioend above are a total waste of life. These games give absolutly nothing except for messing up peoples lives. I want to stop playing mmorpg’s totally. Playing these games is sort of what i do in my free time. 3 hours everyday. Its summer, so thats probably normal for most people. But for me its the same thing as playing 24/7. Can anyone help me, give advice, or motivation to stop playing games. I am going to make the first move by un-installing all games on my computer. I did this two times before but I downloaded other mmorpg’s after 6 months or so. Now I want to stop 100% and I am willing to do whatever it takes.

One thing I want someone to clearly explain to me is the point of playing these games. I want to know what good I gain from these games. I always ask myself, "why do I play this game?" I jsut want to stop for the rest of my life and I don’t want this habit to stick with me when I am in college.

Things I have been doing to stop this addiction is

"driving training". MY goal is to finish it as soon as possible and start driving with friends. Takes my mind of games.

Music- listening to music relaxes me. I only like listening to music when I am doing nothing, so this helps.

Reading stuff online (general knowledge/stuff i’m itnerested in: biology) news. I’m going to start reading about car parts so I can fix my own car.

Recently got a program called blender. (Not a game) I want to make small animations like Ice Age. You can make games with it, but i do not want to.

Working out: I can’t go to the gym, can’t drive yet, so i’m creating a workout plan for home: pushups, sit-ups, crunches, leglifts, weights, etc.

Is this a good start to get away from addiction to games?
Please help me in any way.


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I removed a friend from my facebook list…now I regret it cause it's something that the normal me wouldn't do?

I removed a friend from my facebook list…now I regret it cause it’s something that the normal me wouldn’t do?
I have known him for almost 13 years…BUT…we haven’t been in contact during all this time. We kind of had a crushed in one another when we were young but we never were an item. I confessed him my feelings, but he said that he liked me as a sister; however his actions denoted all the contrary…he scared all the boys who got close to me, and everybody around me seem to believe that he was jealous and in love with me. The worst part about all that relationship is that he was the kind of guy who always seemed to be playing games…he wanted me to notice him and then when I did he kind of ignored me. He is the kind of egocentric person who wants to receive other people’s attention and affection but is incapable of give something in return. Around 7 years ago I moved to another country and lost all track of communication with him. Now I am happily married to a wonderful man that I love with all my heart and soul and that loves me back in the same way. I feel extremely fortunate!!!!
Last October I opened a facebook account…not even 2 weeks after I created the account I received a friend request from him. I talked it out with my husband since he is my best friend…and he didn’t see anything bad in accepting the request…so I did. When I accepted the request I wrote him 2 messages asking how was everything with him, and congratulating him for his daughter…yes, he is now married too and his wife was expecting. He never wrote back. When his daughter was born I wrote for second time congratulating him and his wife for the beautiful baby girl. Never wrote back…not even to thank me for the the good wishes. So last week I was in facebook(on-line) and suddenly the chat window pop up…it was him saying hi. I wrote hi too…and then he wrote something that I couldn’t understand that seem to be directed to somebody else…and suddenly signed off. It felt as if he hanged off the phone on me. SO…I felt so insulted by his idiotic attitude that the first thing that came to my mind was to remove him from my facebook friend’s list. Why I would have a friend that never writes and doesn’t have the education to at least return my congratulatory message. And although he deserves to be out of my friend’s list without an explanation, in some way I now feel really bad…. not that much because of him but because I acted in a way that I wouldn’t normally act. The normal me would have write him one more time to ask him what’s his damage, why did he bother to search my name on facebook and invite me if he wasn’t going to write to even say thank you! BUT I didn’t write because I didn’t want to play his games again. When I told my husband about the whole chat thing he said that maybe somebody else was logged into his facebook account because the last words on the unintelible message that he wrote me was something like "kisses"…something way too emotional to come from him. But what I think is that he did write me and then he just made me think on purpose that he was chatting with somebody else.
THE QUESTION IS: Should I send him a new friend request or e-mail him… to explain why I removed him from my list?? Again is not because of him but because of me… I don’t feel in peace with my conscience for not solving the problem as I would normally do…with words. What should I do or better yet what anyone of you would do if you were in this situation.

**Sorry for the long story but I guess you need a few details to understand the situation**


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I'm having trouble writing my story. Any writing tips?

First of all it’s not really a book yet, and I don’t expect it to get published because so far its only 12 pages and I haven’t added anything since 6 months ago because I have writer’s block, but as I re-read it I noticed that it has no symbolic meaning, it’s just a random magical story, with a series of events, occaisionally a few plot twists, and a lot of dramatic moments because I love writing dramatic things especially with magic- but there’s no message being sent out from the story itself, and I think that might be why I’m having trouble. I’m 14 and I love writing, but my ideas aren’t really coming out very well especailly because I’m going through a point in life right now where I’m having trouble "finding my true self." So I guess that’s why I don’t have much to express through my writing and my story. It gets kind of boring because it’s just like I’m playing games making up these random events and putting them into the plot. I’m actually not as inspired as I thought. Advice?


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How do you win your ex boyfriend back?

Can You win your ex boyfriend back?

Ok so me and my ex dated off an on for awhile. He went into the marines, and wrote me TONS of love letters which i never responded to.

I tried calling after he graduated and a week later he apologized and said that he was upset that i never responded so he basically tried to “punish” me. I went through this huge confession that I still loved him and yada yada. Now that ive confessed he basically has been trying to piss me off by making me jealous.

He tells me the marines have taught him not to “feel”. and hes no longer jealous that I have a boyfriend. Obviously hes playing games with me because he was “upset” because I didnt write and now he doesnt feel anything?

Yeah right, then after I told him I was going to dinner with my boyfriend he says he rented a hotel room with a jacuzzi and is going there with his new gf, in which he texted me at midnight to tell me he had awesome sex. (which im sure hes lieing because who texts their xgf when their with their new gf to tell them they had sex? thats just disrepectful to you new gf.

Tonight, after he claims that he’ll probably “forget” about me at marine combat training, I told him to stop kidding, and that i really know he loves me. He told me I have a problem and that he was going out with his new gf, (no name given!) lol.

So now, im hurt, and decide to tell him I was joking around and just wanted to make him THINK I liked him. He calls me and tells me to stop acting like a 3 yr old and getting pissy jealous and tells me hes going out on a date and hangs up. Im upset, and kind of want to win him back, if not, really HURT him.

I know its stupid and im playing games, but talking to him doesnt work, I need to know how to manipulate him. any ideas? PLEASE NO SMART ALECK REMARKS! If he wants to play dirty, so will I.

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