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How can I get back my ex? ?
My ex and I were in a long distance relationship (he goes to uni), when we broke up. He thought I didn’t care about his big move, but I cared for him more than anything. He’s back for the holidays, and I saw him yesterday. There was no awkwardness at all between us. He did compliment me and said I looked great. When we hugged he held me quite close, almost like the hugs we used to have but not as passionate. When he left me he said "Its been nice to see you… I’m glad we met up… Its been really nice…" and kept repeating himself. He gave me the same look he gave me before he left for uni when we were together. The one that says "I will miss you". His lips were twitching, his eyes looked hurt and sad. I don’t know, maybe I’m misreading the signs. He also kept his hands firmly in his pockets while we were walking. If our hands did touch, we’d quickly move them away. And when I caught him staring he quickly looked away.

I really want him back, but I don’t know how he feels about that. We’re good friends now, but now I feel like ranting to him about stuff, and I don’t know if I should or not. I just really really want him back. I’ve never been with a guy as amazing as him before.

I don’t want to confront him directly, as if the worst comes to worst I still want to be his friend. He’s an amazing guy and I don’t want to leave him forever. How can I bring back our relationships subtly?

Help please?

And no mean comments, thanks.


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125 Most Romantic Things to Do with Your Lover

1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Take showers together.
3. Back rubs and massages.
4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or with black light.
5. French Kiss.
6. Hold her with hands inside the back of her shirt.
7. Whisper to each other.
8. Cook for each other.
9. Skinny dip.

10. Make out in the rain.
11. Dress each other.
12. Undress each other.
13. Kiss every part of their body.
14. Hold hands.
15. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other…not sex)
16. One word…Foreplay
17. Sit and talk in just underwear.
18. Buy gifts for each other.
19. Roses.
20. Find out their favorite cologne or perfume and wear it every time you’re together.

21. Wear his clothes.
22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars.
23. Incense/candles/oils/black lights and music make for great cuddling/sex.
24. Kiss at every chance you get.
25. Don’t wear underwear and let them find out.
26. Kinky is bad…Blindfolds are good.
27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear, then whisper I love you.
28. Bubble baths.
29. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
30. Make love.

31. Write poetry for each other.
32. Kiss and smell her hair.
33. Hugs are the universal medicine.
34. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.
35. Give random gifts of flowers, candy, poetry etc.
36. Tell her that she’s the only girl you ever want. Don’t lie.
37. Spend every second possible together.
38. Tell her that she doesn’t have to do anything she doesn’t want to. And mean it.
39. Look into each other’s eyes.
40. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.

41. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes.
42. When in public, only flirt with each other.
43. Walk behind her and put your hands in her front pockets.
44. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren’t looking.
45. Clothes are no fun.
46. Buy her a ring.
47. Keep one of her bras somewhere where you see it everyday.
48. Sing to each other.
49. Read to each other.
50. PDA = Public Display of Affection.

51. Take advantage of any time alone together.
52. Tell her about how you answered every question in math with her name.
53. Draw. (If you can)
54. Let her sit on your lap.
55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain.
56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks, and collarbones, and hands, and ears.
57. Kiss her stomach.
58. Always hold her around her hips, sides.
59. Guys like half-shirts.
60. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.

61. Spaghetti… ( Ever see Lady and the Tramp ?)
62. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.
63. Unless you can feel their heart beating, you aren’t close enough.
64. Dance together.
65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out, make love.
66. I love the way a girl looks right after she’s fallen asleep with her head in my lap.
67. Carry her to bed.
68. Waterbeds are fun.
69. You figure it out.
70. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.

71. Break every one of your parent’s relationship rules for them.
72. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes
73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you.
74. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about them.
75. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.
76. Ride your bike 8 miles just to see them for a few hours.
77. Ride home and call them.
78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets ,fears.
79. Somehow incorporate them into any kind of religion or worship you have.
80. Be Prince Charming to her parents. ( Brownie Points )

81. Act out mutual fantasies together. ( Not necessarily sexual )
82. Brush her hair out of her face for her.
83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to them.
84. Hang out with his, her friends. ( more brownie points )
85. Go to church, pray and worship together.
86. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night.
88. Learn from each other and don’t make the same mistake twice.
89. Everyone deserves a second chance.
90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him, her.

91. Make sacrifices for each other.
92. Really love each other, or don’t stay together.
93. Write a fictional story about how you met, fell in love, etc. and give it to them.
94. Let there never be a sec. during any given day that you aren’t thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
95. Love yourself before you love anyone else.
96. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages.
97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
99. Sleep naked together.
100. Stand up for them when someone talks trash.
101. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say, " Sweet dreams. "

102. Have flowers sent to your girl/guy at their place of work.
103. Plan a surprise trip out of town and don’t tell your loved one where the two of you are going until you get there.
104. Rent a motel/hotel room in town. Just because you’re not out of town doesn’t mean you can’t pretend!
105. Write her/him a poem and put it in their lunch bag.
106. Write them a love letter and put it in the mail.
107. Write on the bathroom mirror in lipstick, I LOVE YOU.
108. Make your sweetheart breakfast in bed.
109. Call your honey at work and tell him/her you’re thinking of him/her.
110. Spoil your love with a nice massage.
111. Write a list of all the reasons why you love your sweetheart, then slip it into their lunch bag.

112. Buy tickets to their favorite concert or play and surprise him/her with them.
113. Buy a gift certificate for her for a day of pampering at a beauty salon.
114. Slow dance with your sweetheart to your favorite song.
115. Go for a walk at the beach and search for seashells together
116. Dedicate a song to her/him over the radio.
117. Watch the sunset together. Or a sunrise.
118. Do not limit romantic occasions to just the weekend.
119. Light some candles to enhance a romantic situation.
120. Compliment her/him.
121. Plan one night a week as a Date Night.

122. Wear his cologne or her perfume for the day.. to remind you of her/him.
123. When you kiss … cup your hands around your lover’s face.. and look deeply into their eyes while saying their name.
124. Surprise your sweetheart by hiding a gift in an obscure spot, like in their desk or in their bed, right below their pillow.
125. Brush her hair. She’ll love you for it!


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