Husband's ex sent cops after me for refering to her as and idiot?

Okay this morning I get a phone call from a police officer in another state. He says that he is investigating a police report made by my husband’s ex wife.
In the report she claims the myself and another person slandered her. Now the who conversation was basically this. The other person posted something about the number of idiots in her life. I posted back did you run into the ex’s wife? She said yes and she is getting fat. I said maybe she will pop out another kid.
Now we never used her name and both of our FB accounts are restricted so the only way she got on to see it was to go through one of the step kids pages to get to a parents.
The report also claims that she has numerous other pieces of evidence that she has gathered from other websites. The only other place I talk "About" her is a step parent forum devoted to helping each other with custody issues. In it I have stated the issues and asked questions. I have never used anyone’s names and the only reason she knew it was me is because she is following me around the web.
The office basically told me that she was very upset and I am not aloud to talk about her on line. First I don’t just talk about her I talk about issues we have that include her. Second, if I’m not using names and I am anonymous except to some stalking me (her) how can that be a crime? What about the 1st amendment?
For example if she finds this she would call the cops. Is it right that I can not speak about my issues in a private way?
Third, is there anything I can do, she is basically running around the web looking for my email address that has been changed now?
Is this post a crime?
Popfav, My hubby is a retired cop too, he said the same thing you did, I did call he is legit, but some of what he said was weird like when I pressed the issue and said what crime did I commit he said just don’t talk about her, he also said he didn’t want to make it multijuristictional I didn’t know that could even happen with a mistermeaner. I mean all he said was stop. but like right now we are talking about"her" can I get in trouble? And yeah I shouldn’t have refered to her as an idiot but only me and the other person and her could have known who I was talking about and she wouldn’t have know if she were not snooping where she shouldn’t have been.



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Ex's wife sent cops after me for calling her and idiot.?

Okay this morning I get a phone call from a police officer in another state. He says that he is investigating a police report made by my husband’s ex wife.
In the report she claims the myself and another person slandered her. Now the who conversation was basically this. The other person posted something about the number of idiots in her life. I posted back did you run into the ex’s wife? She said yes and she is getting fat. I said maybe she will pop out another kid.
Now we never used her name and both of our FB accounts are restricted so the only way she got on to see it was to go through one of the step kids pages to get to a parents.
The report also claims that she has numerous other pieces of evidence that she has gathered from other websites. The only other place I talk "About" her is a step parent forum devoted to helping each other with custody issues. In it I have stated the issues and asked questions. I have never used anyone’s names and the only reason she knew it was me is because she is following me around the web.
The office basically told me that she was very upset and I am not aloud to talk about her on line. First I don’t just talk about her I talk about issues we have that include her. Second, if I’m not using names and I am anonymous except to some stalking me (her) how can that be a crime? What about the 1st amendment?
For example if she finds this she would call the cops. Is it right that I can not speak about my issues in a private way?
Third, is there anything I can do, she is basically running around the web looking for my email address that has been changed now?
Is this post a crime?



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What legal rights would I have if I were to make a promissary note between me, my ex, and his boss, and get it?

URGENT: CIVIL CONTRACT AGREEMENT, CRIMINAL FILING, OR WHAT TO DO?
My boyfriend and I had been living together. He stole 000 worth of jewelry from me and took it to a pawn shop in March. Then, on Tuesday night, I saw that there were checks forged in my name that he had stolen from my checkbook. He has also committed debit card fraud. I confronted him, and he told me he had been using cocaine since June of 2007. I told him I was leaving him on Wednesday. He first pleaded with me, then grabbed a knife, held it at me, then at himself, saying he was "going to kill himself", shook me, then ran. I called his son to get him and 911. I was so flustered and did not want to get him in trouble, I forgot to mention the holding the knife up to me and shaking me. He was committed for a psychiatric evaluation. I received a temporary restraining order for him on 4/30. I went back to our shared residence (house is in his deceased mother’s name), and told him not to come near me when I was there and my car was there. He came in, I told him I was going to call 911, he shook me and told me not to call 911, I called 911, he yelled that he was going court, then he called 911 and said I assaulted him, and then he sped off. I have a court date for the restraining order for May 14. I have filed a police report regarding the stolen jewelery, which was an inheritance from my mother, on 5/01/2010. He has admitted in text messages that he pawned my 00 diamond and gold necklace,00 diamond ring, and 0 amythyst and gold ring. I have the empty boxes for all of the missing jewelery. I had kept my jewelery in a safe deposit box, but left it at home for a couple days because I thought I was going to wear it. He has forged 57 worth of checks, which I have reported to Bank of America. I am going to report the debit card fraud tonight, it is approximately 00. He also broke my front tooth in an accident when I fell off his back, which will cost me 75. He has had a history of drug abuse in his past. He is currently on methadone, which he has been on for at least the past 5-6 years, has smoked marijuana, and states that he has been doing cocaine since June of 2009, about 11 months. He lost his first wife and kids to a meth addiction. I would like restitution, in the form of the 000-12,000 amount he owes me (depending on how much I can claim). His boss and my ex boyfriend were trying to work out a restitution agreement where I would fill out a contract, then my ex boyfriend (the employee), would go to the bank, cash his paycheck, and leave a portion of it for me with his employer. I would then sign for it. This would be a Promisary Note with interest.
I would like to know the steps I should or can take, my rights under the restraining order, and whether or not you think it is in my best interest to go the civil route and make up a contract between me, my ex boyfriend, and his employer. If so, what would my rights be if there was a breach of contract?

ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS:

1) What legal rights would I have if I were to make a promissary note between me, my ex, and his boss, and get it notarized and signed?

2) Is there a statute of limitations for payment on a promissary note (if person were to default for a period of time, or pay for a while, then default on payments)?

3) How long could he miss payments before I could take it to civil court and sue? How does this process work?

4) What legal rights do I have to my belongings in his house, if it is stated in the restraining order that he is not to harm my belongings?
I live in WA state



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What steps do I need to take now to get this completely resolved? I have contacted the credit card company and the police. I have checked my credit report and nothing has shown up so far.
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