I have been ttc for 8 months now. 12 dpo, 1 day away from expected af , and BFN this morning. I have no pregnancy symptoms or signs of AF showing but I know she is on her way. My DH and I are getting so discouraged and just feel like it’s never going to happen. Everytime I go on the pregnancy forum, I see questions about abortion and it just breaks my heart. I am already blessed with two boy’s, 9 and 10 years old from my previous marriage so I am thankful but I am soooo wanting number 3. I really wanted a girl but at this point, I don’t care what sex the baby would be, I just want another child so bad. Why is this so hard. My first child was unexpected, I was on bc…hence the first marriage and I went to get on bc again after my first child because the ex was cheating and guess what, I was pregnant. So even though I got a divorce while I was pregnant, I am so glad I conceived my two boys but I just don’t get it, why is it so hard this time around. My dh was checked and his sperm count is great and all of my test came back good, so I am at a loss. I’m sorry, I guess I am just extremely frustrated and looking for some words of encouragement. And god bless you ladies who have been trying for a year and more. My heart goes out to you, I don’t know how you deal with the disappointment of not conceiving month after month.
Congratulations emma’s mommy…twins, you must be so excited:)
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Well, I have a best friend and i’m in love with her brother. It didn’t take her long but she made effort to hook us up so we could be together. At first it just started with just talking and friendly conversation here and there. It seemed like we clicked almost immediately but i was skeptical about trusting him so I didn’t really warm up to him right away. He’s from the North and I’m from the south so almost everything we do is different, from the way we talk to the way we walk. Damn near everything we do is different. When we started to spend time together the sexual attraction between us was sky high. We had sex and we were using protection and the we said f*ck it lol. So we just started making whoopie with each other raw, no withdrawal, no condoms or creams…I was on the pill but that **** ran out but hell i thought ain’t nothing gonna happen, because i figured the birth control was still in my system i wasn’t trippin’. But anyways soon enough i thought i was pregnant and i started mistaking the symptoms before my period for pregnancy symptoms because we were doing it so damn much. Everything went downhill from there. The thought of me being pregnant by him made him lose all respect for me. We started arguing almost every day, we stopped talking to each other numerous times and said alot of things to each other that shouldn’t have been said. We even broke up, and this was all over a baby that wasn’t even inside me that i was so sure that was there. Well to make this long story shorter than it could be, after i turned out not to be pregnant things never went back to the way they were. Sometimes we are ok but only in a friendly way, we don’t say the things we used to say or do the things we used to. We never even got back together, because he says that he doesn’t get back with his exes. But we still continued to pleasure each other. I don’t understand why he refuses to speak his mind to me. I cuss him out when he pisses me off because i don’t play that mess, i feel like i went through a lot when it comes to this love affair and i need to know what credit i’m due. Somebody please tell me how i can get through to him, and how i can get him to want me again. What do i do?
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Well, I have a best friend and i’m in love with her brother. It didn’t take her long but she made effort to hook us up so we could be together. At first it just started with just talking and friendly conversation here and there. It seemed like we clicked almost immediately but i was skeptical about trusting him so I didn’t really warm up to him right away. He’s from the North and I’m from the south so almost everything we do is different, from the way we talk to the way we walk. Damn near everything we do is different. When we started to spend time together the sexual attraction between us was sky high. We had sex and we were using protection and the we said f*ck it lol. So we just started making whoopie with each other raw, no withdrawal, no condoms or creams…I was on the pill but that **** ran out but hell i thought ain’t nothing gonna happen, because i figured the birth control was still in my system i wasn’t trippin’. But anyways soon enough i thought i was pregnant and i started mistaking the symptoms before my period for pregnancy symptoms because we were doing it so damn much. Everything went downhill from there. The thought of me being pregnant by him made him lose all respect for me. We started arguing almost every day, we stopped talking to each other numerous times and said alot of things to each other that shouldn’t have been said. We even broke up, and this was all over a baby that wasn’t even inside me that i was so sure that was there. Well to make this long story shorter than it could be, after i turned out not to be pregnant things never went back to the way they were. Sometimes we are ok but only in a friendly way, we don’t say the things we used to say or do the things we used to. We never even got back together, because he says that he doesn’t get back with his exes. But we still continued to pleasure each other. I don’t understand why he refuses to speak his mind to me. I cuss him out when he pisses me off because i don’t play that mess, i feel like i went through a lot when it comes to this love affair and i need to know what credit i’m due. Somebody please tell me how i can get through to him, and how i can get him to want me again. What do i do?
I asked him why he didn’t want to get back together, and he said that we don’t click and that he doesn’t think getting back with me would be a good move…idk he makes me feel so sad and empty, and I don’t think he means to.
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