This is becoming a trend and the other day I head this guy say he would just like to make a woman pregnant and keep the baby. Do you guys plan to leave after the girl has given birth and the exciement is over.Think about people you know that have children at a young age (over 21 or mature enough to have made the baby knowing exactly what they are doing), are they still together and why do these men go around creating broken homes just coz its cool to have a kid somewhere?
I am 26, American and lived in the UK for 3 years where i met my ex fiance, we dated for 2yrs but i left him 3wks ago as he has anger & jealousy issues. He always tells me i mesmerize him and how much he loves me etc, i love him too but im terrified of him. I was really good friends with his best pals girlfriend and when the whole lot of us were on a night out 2mths ago a guy came up to me and offered to by me a drink which i refused, he then started flirting with me and i just passed it off and casually flashed my engagement ring at him. The nest thing i know my ex came over to the guy & started squaring up to him and was going to punch him but i pushed him over to the corner and told him to cool down and then he started fighting/shouting with me, i pushed him out of my way so i could walk away from him but he grabbed my arm and pushed me into the wall, he just put his head against mine and was looking into my eyes then he kissed me & said we should leave but i was terrified so i went back over to my friends but he kept his eyes on me. The next day when we had sex he was hurting me and he didn’t stop when i asked him to so i pushed him off me and again we had a screaming match and he told me i knew how to make him thick, he loves me but hates that other guy try it on with me and i ended up calling him a headcase and he got really pissed and punched me in the face, I still have a slight black eye. When he was at work i left him and came home only to find out that i am 2months pregnant with his baby. He has tired to call me all the time but i cant talk to him. No one knows im pregnant and i want to tell someone. Im terrified to tell my ex im having his baby and i don’t know how to or if i should even tell him. Any advice ?
We have been on and off for nearly 3 yrs. Off bc I’m "basically his first gf and he hasn’t met/dated many women." We both are entering our late 20′s. We have broken up twice over the 3 yrs. We both still have feelings for one another but I know he’s not ready for a relationship/marriage, and I am, or atleast he wasn’t. Lately he’s been talking like we’re a family & doesn’t want us to have 2 separate homes & shuffle baby back/forth. Or to see me with some other guy & vise/versa, and doesn’t want baby to have a step-dad or step-mom. How does that work if he doesn’t want us to be together? He was on my computerthe other day, and when I went to use it he left open his yahoo! answers account with all these questions he’d asked about getting back together with me. I swear I did not go looking for it, all of them were already on my screen! It took me a moment to even realize what I was looking at. Point is, he’s asked over and over again whether he should get back together with me, and even before I was pregnant. He asked about marriage, like can you know it’s the right one with out much experience. Lately he’s been wanting to do all these things with me, like family functions, holidays, trading xmas gifts with my parents, and special outtings. I told him recently I don’t want to get back together bc we want 2 different things, and are too different. Meaning I want to settle down and have romance. He said we weren’t too different and were on the same page and that family vacations together sounds really nice. I also said I wanted him to be something he’s not and that’s not fair. I want a guy who’s not affraid to settle down, and have a family etc. Point is since then, I’ve noticed him changing, and now doing those things I had said I wanted. All of a sudden he really cares what my dad thinks of him and wants his approval. I don’t get what’s going on, he’s acting really strange. Finally, he asked me if I wanted to take a road trip with him to this far away place and go cliff jumping…after baby is born. .he had the month and everything. Why would he ask that? What is going on??
Just for the record I want a family unit, and don’t get me wrong if he really did want to get back together I would.
(No lectures please)
fyi.. we did use protection responsibly, just it failed us 8 months ago. So please no lectures
she’s due in march. so she probably got knocked up around july, while we were still living together. but not sleeping together. i was home alone when she was coming home at 9 am after being out all night. we separated in august. filed for divorce in october. she threatened to collect in december. i found out she is pregos in january.
We have been on and off for nearly 3 yrs. Off bc I’m "basically his first gf and he hasn’t met/dated many women." We both are entering our late 20′s. We have broken up twice over the 3 yrs. We both still have feelings for one another but I know he’s not ready for a relationship/marriage, and I am, or atleast he wasn’t. Lately he’s been talking like we’re a family & doesn’t want us to have 2 separate homes & shuffle baby back/forth. Or to see me with some other guy & vise/versa, and doesn’t want baby to have a step-dad or step-mom. How does that work if he doesn’t want us to be together? He was on my computerthe other day, and when I went to use it he left open his yahoo! answers account with all these questions he’d asked about getting back together with me. I swear I did not go looking for it, all of them were already on my screen! It took me a moment to even realize what I was looking at. Point is, he’s asked over and over again whether he should get back together with me, and even before I was pregnant. He asked about marriage, like can you know it’s the right one with out much experience. Lately he’s been wanting to do all these things with me, like family functions, holidays, trading xmas gifts with my parents, and special outtings. I told him recently I don’t want to get back together bc we want 2 different things, and are too different. Meaning I want to settle down and have romance. He said we weren’t too different and were on the same page and that family vacations together sounds really nice. I also said I wanted him to be something he’s not and that’s not fair. I want a guy who’s not affraid to settle down, and have a family etc. Point is since then, I’ve noticed him changing, and now doing those things I had said I wanted. All of a sudden he really cares what my dad thinks of him and wants his approval. I don’t get what’s going on, he’s acting really strange. Finally, he asked me if I wanted to take a road trip with him to this far away place and go cliff jumping…after baby is born. .he had the month and everything. Why would he ask that? What is going on??
Just for the record I want a family unit, and if he really did want to get back together I would.
(No lectures please)
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