I’m a single mom of two,one is 10 and the other one 4,my eldest one ask me that question because of the fact that i was in a very fast paced relationship and my ex freaked out when he found out that i was pregnant and left me with all the responsibility,i am very heartbroken and i don’t know what to answer my son,please help
is it because they are scared?well the mother is to! is it because they just want to be off he hook and continue screwing more girls?
Me and my fiance were together 2 years and just left Iraq together and moved to his hometown in Washington DC when we got out the military a few months ago. My fiance was the BEST the entire 2 years we were together. He treated me like such a gentleman and was always sweet and when we were in Iraq and found out I was pregnant he went out of his way to make me happy and comfortable all the time. Now we are in DC and I am 8 months…we just started not getting along and arguing all the time to the point that he has moved out and in to his aunts house. He goes with me to some of my appointments and still pays all the bills but he is not there for me emotionally at all anymore. He looks frightened when he touches my belly when its moving and he doesnt like talking about the baby anymore. All he wants to do is go out to parties and pretend like the baby is not on the way. It seems the further along I get the more distant he becomes. I miss him so much and it hurts that he is not here laying with me every night when I left my family all the way in St.Louis to move here and be with him…I have tried talking to him and pouring my heart out how I need him and he just says he needs time and that he will still be here for me. He says he is tired of my flipping out on him but I wouldnt flip out if he was there more. PLEASE HELP
ONLY INTERESTED IN MEN’S ANSWERS….
Why would a man leave his spouse or partner during her most difficult time when she’s pregnant, feels isolated, tired, ugly (some feel beautiful i did but i had a supportive husband). I run a support group for single mothers and this is our number one unanswered question. Most of them didn’t even see it coming.
my fiance and I got engaged 8 months ago. Back track we been dating off and on for 5 yrs.. Hes had some serious commitment issues. He is 35 now and still lives wit his mom. When he broke up with me the 1st time he had gotten a girl pregnant adn tried to mak it work out with her. Well she ended up leaving him and thats when he wanted to get back together with me. He promsed that he realized how much i mean to him, how much he loves me and wants to get married. So I got back together with him…. believing that he was ready to commit. Well his baby mama wasnt allowed to know about me, i wasnt allowed near his son, it was like he was lving to lives. So he got into arguments about that. BEcause i wanted a committed serious relationship and i wanted to create a relationship with his son. I wanted to be apart of his life. So I ended up getting pregnant and nothing changed he still treated me like i was some friend, I wasnt allowed near him when his son was around, his Xgf wasnt allowed to know i existed, Holiday came and I wasnt allowed at his house until the baby left. So I ended up not having the baby. We broke up for a few months… and got back together… he again promised me everything I wanted and said he knew he had issues that he needed to work on… I believed him again and stuck by him. Well things didnt change and one day we got into an argument and he just stopped calling me and stop talking to me, no explanation, no break up nothing. So 2-3 months go by and he decides to call me and we hang out, we have sex and thats it… i dont hear from him until the next week when he wants to hang out and drink. So we hang out and i didnt hear from him for 2 wks after that. So he wrote to me 2 wks after not hearing from him asking how i was and all that. So i ignored it, at this point im done with being this girl that he just uses basically. He lies and tells me what i want to hear but never actually does it. So I didnt answer him, But then my stupid idiot self wrote him back. I love him, i missed him and just wanted to see him. So we hang out a few time after that. And i told him I wasnt going to sit around anymore just being friends with benefits. If thats what he wants then fine… i will be dating and meeting other people and if i meet someone who is a good person and i can have a future then i will be that person… I was honest with him. After that about 2 wks later he says hes ready to get married and commit he loves me and doesnt wantt o lose me. So we got engaged. But things still didnt change. He told his baby mama hes engaged and i would be around the baby (she told him once ur engaged that girl can be around the kid) so she said fine whatever… but then made a new rule… i wasnt allowed in the car with him when he picks up his kid. He agreed…. I wasnt happy …. I thought this **** would stop. Her controlling rules were so ridiculous and for osme reason he listened to her and went by them. This rule has nothing to do with her son it has to do with her controlling rules. So he told me to suck it up just like everything else i been sucking up the last 5 yrs. He told me just to be happy shes ok with us being engaged and wait a few months and i can be int he car with him. So here we are 8 months later and he tells me that he wants to start trying for a baby… and once im pregnant we can get married an move in together. He loves me and wants to give me everything he couldnt when i was pregnant the last time. So i was so happy that he finally was willing to commit and have a family. I was shocked. So I got pregnant that month! He was happy about it, we were happy. I tried talking to him about the wedding date… and he always got so wierd when i would talk about it, my mom would talk about it , or his mom. But we finally made the date it was going to be JULY 17. So 3 wks ago… we got into an argument. I was with him and his son all day… and he had to bring him home…. he was going to drop me off and i asked why i couldnt go for the ride. OK months later pregnant, moving intogether and getting married. I really thought the car thing wouldnt be an issue anymore. So he got mad at me, turned it around on me, and we broke up. Over an argument. So a few days later i waited til he was cooled off (because this is nothing new we break up and then speak when hes ready) i talk to him about getting back together and having the family and marriage we planned. So he said no he was sick of my complaining and my bullshit. My bullshit if anything i should be telling you screw u after all this **** you been pulling. So he broke up our marriage date… adn he broke off being together, moving in together everything we planned. Over an argument. I think its just his way to getting out of committing again! He didnt call me for a whole week in half and then finally did to see how i was. So I asked if he wanted to come to a dr apptment with me… and he said fine. He comes, we talked we were friendly etc. So he asked
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