Trust me, you are about as safe with a condom as a rehabilitated crack head is in a crack house. Those things break. I know from experience. The only true way to be safe is to stay away from premarital sex and cheating in marriages the way God intended. 2Timothy 2:22 says, "Flee from youthful lusts; but pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart." If you have heard Christ calling you, please come to Him, be saved from all sins, and gain eternal life(Romans 10:9-13 – that if you confess with your mouth Jesus [as] Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved…) Condoms will break, soon…..but God never fails!
Trust me cheap or not, they break. Don’t put your trust in a…….bag……please.
The only fool proof way is to stay away….
Amen "JC follower"….and for those wondering, this is not a Christian vs. everybody else question. It’s meant to spread love and "true" awareness.
For all those who see this as a time to joke, please go and find some people that are truly suffering the consequences of such actions. Ask them how they feel…….listen……please
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I know its a huge sin to not have premarital sex but how many of you fellow virgins are saving yourself for marriage and what do u ladies and men think about this.
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and just because you don’t doesn’t mean you’re not a christian.
I am a christian and i didn’t wait for marriage. but i read on someone elses question on yahoo answers something regarding this and a lot of people answered that if they have premarital sex then they are not a christian. which is bs. so i was just asking.
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I’m a 19-year-old college girl, and for personal and religious reasons (I’m Christian), I’ve committed to remaining a virgin until my wedding night. I still want to date now, because naturally my body is encouraging me to have sex, and I want very much to fall in love and move toward that wedding night. The only trouble is that it seems most guys are accustomed to getting sex much earlier in a relationship than I’m willing to provide it, and I’m worried they’ll all get snatched up by girls who put out sooner.
Also, I hear so much talk about wanting to ensure "sexual compatibility" before marriage. This doesn’t really make sense to me because I’m thinking that if we have compatible sex drives, as well as similar morals and desires when it comes to sex (all of which we can find out just by talking), and we both have all functioning parts, there can’t be any real sexual incompatibility. Of course, I’m a virgin, so if I’m wrong on this, do tell. My point being that many people consider premarital sex common, and even practical.
So here’s the thing: I want a man who will respect my desire to save sex for marriage, who will be willing to marry without a "test run," and who will be patient enough to work with me on the honeymoon until I’m able to please him sexually. Are they still out there? If so, where can I find them? Are there any men on Y!A who are also waiting?
greatprincemichael, that was completely unhelpful. I’m already aware that most people in our society engage in premarital sex. If you read the question, I’m looking for someone to help me live up to my personal standards, not to scoff at them. A conservative church has not forced these values on me; I have chosen them myself based on my own personal interpretation of the Bible, and based on what I do and don’t want to experience in my life.
Thanks to everyone else for the wonderful answers! I really appreciate the suggestions, the encouragement, the personal experience, and the humour!
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