My ex-girlfriend of 3 1/2 years won’t let me talk to her…what should I do?
We got together the summer before senior year of high school. The last year or so has been 5 hour drive long distance relationship. We didn’t ever fight about being apart and we never let that get between us until 4 weeks ago.
You see, normally she would come visit me because she has a car and I pretty much don’t. I would go down and visit her sometimes. I even went so far as to move down there for a few months. Unfortunately, I couldn’t stay cause of finances. Like 2 months ago I went down there and she, being in college and having a job, didn’t really have time for me.
I wasn’t too upset with that cause I understood she was just trying to get her stuff done and I just came down on a bad weekend. So 4 weeks ago her room mates brother was going down and wanted to know if I wanted to go with him (he lives like a half hour away from me). I wanted to, but she had been talking about how much work she had to do this weekend and was stressing out over it.
So I didn’t go down. Well it was going to be a surprise originally, so she didn’t know about it. The weekend came out and I told her what I had done, but said that I was coming down the next weekend if she didn’t have anything to do. She blew up like a bunker buster.
I was really caught off guard and didn’t know what to say. I kept apologizing, but she didn’t seem to care. She said that I should have come see her and broke up with me. Anyway, so jump to present time. I tried giving her space or whatever and we started doing really, really well like three weeks into this mess. We were still saying I love you and talking like we always had.
But then out of no where she decides we’re talking too much and thinks we should stop. I got mad because it made me feel even worse than I already did. Now she won’t talk to me at all really and when she does she just tells me that I really messed up and I should have thought about what I said before I said it (I really wasn’t mean about it). I don;t know what to do.
I can’t go down there anytime soon and she won’t let me talk to her. I sent a long, sweet email, but got no reply. What should I do to get her to at least talk to me again?
