I fell in love with a girl and she also loved me and then we got married. But after 2 weeks of marriage, she had to move to different continent so due to living in 2 different continents, we broke up. She says she now "NO MORE LOVES" me. (divorce is not in writing/orally). But its break-up.

But, practicaly, she will remarry one day and same i will have to remarry. I have met many girls afterwards and dating etc. And a couple of girls told me they are in love with me but I dont feel love for any of new girls. Moreover, I think they are "lieing" becaz i cant trust any new girl if she says she loves me.
Now how can i "love" any new girl? Becaz everytime i am dating or gossiping with any new girl, i THINK ABOUT my ex. I still love her (from my heart no matter what happened). Should I remarry without love. If I do, it will be shallow marriage. Becaz i can fulfil physical needs but not emotional needs (feelings) of any new wife.

Pls advice what to do.
i am 30………some friends say if i dont remarry now iwill be old and then no young lady will come even"near" me.
a very very pretty girl met me and now says she’s in love with me and have started "hopes" with me. I really dont find love for her either. I dont know if she really loves me or is just like the ex.


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I have been with this guy for four months. Today I told him that I am falling in love with him. He said that love is a powerful thing. He wants to make sure he really truly loves me before he says it. He’s been hurt and he’s still not completely over his ex.

They were together for about four years they have been broken up for 3 or 4 years. I told him if he doesn’t love me by the 6th month we’ve been together there will be no use in us continuing our relationship. I don’t want to waste my time and get hurt. I do realize you can’t put a time frame on love though. And I don’t want to pressure him. I’m going to tell him that I won’t break up with him that I have changed my mind…I don’t want to rush him.

I never complain when he goes out with his friends.[ I want to make sure I give him his freedom.. I'm not clingy at all] I give him compliments. I don’t get mad when a pretty girl walks by and his eyes follow. [hes in a relationship not dead lol he's a man he's gonna look] I am very understanding. I know that I have faults of my own, I am pretty spiteful.

I know that I have his heart. I just want him completely. I am always there for him when he needs me and he’s is for me too. Today when I told him how I felt he was very understanding. He said he can see himself falling in love with me but to him four months is just too soon.

He admitted that he was scared and holding back.

How can I show him he can trust me [ he says he does or he wouldn't be with me] I won’t hurt him, that its OK to fall in love again?


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1.dammit – blink 182
2.this disaster – new found glory
3.the adventure – angels and airwaves
4.I write sins, not tragedies – panic! At the disco
5.white lights – rufio
6.MakeDamnSure – taking back Sunday
7.making love to the camera – the starting line
8.taking it all back – count the stars
9.monsters – matchbook romance
10.understanding in a car crash – Thursday
11.swing life away – rise against
12.red is the new black – funeral for a friend
13.anthem of our dying day – story of the year
14.out of control – rufio
15.valentine – the get up kids
16.until the day I die – story of the year
17.pretty girl – sugarcult
18.all the small things – blink 182
19.ohio is for lovers – hawthorne heights
20.I miss you – blink 182
21.cute without the e – taking back Sunday
22.island in the sun – weezer
23.we are all on drugs – weezer
24.the anthem – good charlotte
25.so long , Astoria – the ataris
26.punk rock princess – something corporate
27.what it is to burn – finch
28.saying sorry – hawthorne heights
29.lifeless frightening – rise against
30.a decade under the influence – taking back Sunday
31.memory – sugarcult
32.the best of me – the starting line
33.Beverly hills – weezer
34.home – three days grace
35.still frame – trapt
36.so cold- breaking Benjamin
37.hit or miss – new found glory
38.failure’s not flattering – new found glory
39.take me back – story of the year
40.existentialism on prom night – straylight run
41.I woke up in a car – something corporate
42.letters to you – finch
43.buries a lie – senses fail
44.red sky – thrice
45.when I come around – green day
46.welcome to paradise – green day
47.you’re so last summer – taking back Sunday
48.wish you were here – incubus
49.stellar – incubus
50.drive – incubus
51.echo –incubus
52.megalomaniac – incubus
53.lights and sounds – yellowcard
54.jesus of suburbia – green day
55.automatic – lagwagon
56.the outsider – a perfect circle
57.weak and powerless – a perfect circle
58.all downhill from here – new found glory
59.4words – bullet for my valentine
60.the suffering – coheed and cambria
61.sugar’ we’re going down – fallout boy
62.head on collision – new found glory
63.ghost of you – my chemical romance
64.seein’ red – unwritten law
65.ape dos mil – glassjaw
66.must’ve run all day – glassjaw
67.brand new skin – count the stars
68.pens and needles – hawthorne heights
69.niki fm – hawthorne heights
70.vitamin r – chevelle
71.the energy – audiovent
72.the artist in the ambulance – thrice
73.bitemarks and bloodstains – finch
74.I feel so – box car racer
75.top of the world – the all-american rejects
76.at least I’m known for something – new found glory
77.work – jimmy eat world
78.she says – unwritten law
79.space –something corporate
80.given the chance – the starting line
81.welcome home – coheed and cambria
82.cross my heart – home grown
83.sic transit Gloria…glory fades – brand new
84.the science of selling yourself short – less than jake
85.somewhere on fullerton – allister
86.bottom of a bottle – smile empty soul
87.counting 5-4-3-2-1 – Thursday
88.little razorblade – pink spiders
89.waiting –trapt
90.move along – the all-american rejects
91.dressed to kill – new found glory
92.pieces – sum 41
93.there is – box car racer
94.the middle – jimmy eat world
95.paperthin hymn – anberlin
96.bouncing off the walls – sugarcult
97.Kelly song – the movielife
98.the kill -30 seconds to mars
99.what’s it feel like to be a ghost – taking back Sunday
100.your stories, my alibis – matchbook romance
101.animal I have become – three days grace
102.new beginnings – finch
103.hands in the sky – straylight run
104.image of the invisible – thrice
105.the mixed tape – jack’s mannequin
106.save me – unwritten law
107.my friends over you – new found glory
108.car underwater – armor for sleep
109.everything is alright – motion city soundtrack
110.ex’s and oh’s – atreyu
111.the truth about heaven – armor for sleep
112.smile in your sleep – silverstein
113.what’s my age again – blink 182
114.first date – blink 182
115.hands down – dashboard confessional
116.vindicated – dashboard confessional
117.screaming infidelities- dashboard confessional
118.basketcase – green day
119.Helena – my chemical romance
120.to the end – my chemical romance
121.I’m not okey – my chemical romance
122.thank you for the venom – my chemical romance
123.cemetery drive – my chemical romance
124.you know what they do to guys like us in prison – my chemical romance
125.we don’t care anymore – story of the year
126.pain – jimmy eat world
127.heart-breaking music – lagwagon


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I NEED TO KNOW

if you could only see the way
he looks at you when you turn away
you wouldn’t have to wonder
is this love

the way he watches you move your lips
and when you stumble, fall and when you trip
but you turn to see him
and hes gone

so come on
take a chance
ask that girl out
to the dance

Chours: I wanna know more about you
I wanna know your favorite colors blue
I need to know
I need to know
I wanna know the way you feel inside
don’t let your true colors hide
I need to know
I need to know

I hear you might ask me to the dance
but this could be a fake romance
I ask my friends
what I should do

they say go on take a chance
go on go with him to the dance
you’ll have a great time
dancing under the stars

Chorus

then one day you take me by surprise
you reveal your hidden disguise
what am I to do

Chorus

Louise

I find it hard to believe the way your looking at her
u think she’s just another pretty girl
but theres more to her than just her dark brown curls
she’s different from those other girls

she lays there at night counting the celing panels
so far shes counted 492
she watches tv flipping aimlessy through channels
can’t wait till she gets through

CHORUS:
to scared to show her real self she hides behind
and wishes you knew your always on her mind
she makes a fingerprint engraved in your skin
the most beautiful tattoo it makes your head spin
so get her to open her eyes and see what the rest of the world sees
because she feels far away, bring me back louise

I wish she could see just what you do
because when she looks in the mirror she doesn’t see whats true
that girl with freckles all over her cheeks
the one who barely murmurs a word, the one who never speaks

CHORUS x2

UNDERGROUND

Verse 1
i’m over the fight over the fear
the end of the dark is finally here
i’m not letting go i’m trying to show
just how i feel this loves really real

ive just got to keep trying ill get there someday
who knows tomorrow, maybe today
keep holding on, were almost there
don’t worry babe I promise I swear

CHORUS
the walls start to crumble
were almost there
weve got to hurry up no time to spare
grab my hand ill lead the way
the times flying by, disapeering away
i was stuck under ground
without any light
for just too long but now it’s right

Verse 3
your deep blue eyes set into my face
nothing here but wide open space
the walls around me have finally gone
I am now free to move on

i now know what i want it is easy to see
im looking at you your looking at me

CHORUS x 2

50 years from now

Were jumping up and down on my old trampoline
I look up at the sky it’s an amazing clear blue
the green in your eyes shines next to the yellow flowers in bloom
we pump our legs to see who can pump higher
our hair blows in the wind and we play hide and seek
the days fly by and soon Monday is Friday
and one day the day will come when I’ll have to leave

but I’ll always remember the days I spent with you
on my bedroom floor under the red and blue tent
and I’ll never forget the time we went to sleep at 2 am
and the day we saw the movie that made me cry
and when we used to play dress ups and jump so high
and when you held my hand when we both crossed the finish line
those are the days I will remember when I’m sitting next to you 50 years from now

We’ve got our pink dresses and our makeup on
we go downstairs and play singstar until the morning
we’d pick handfuls of honeysuckles in the spring
We wouldn’t spend a second away from each other
people were always like wow those girls are always together
we linked arms and walked at the same pace
and I’d look at your smile and think I don’t want to leave this place

but I’ll always remember the days I spent with you
on my bedroom floor under the red and blue tent
and I’ll never forget the time we went to sleep at 2 am
and the day we saw the movie that made me cry
and when we used to play dress ups and jump so high
and when you held my hand when we both crossed the finish line
those are the days I will remember when I’m sitting next to you 50 years from now x2

Who knows where will be in the future
nothing is certain but all I know for now is one thing
that I’ll be sitting next to you 50 years from now

please let me know what you think. thanks in advance :)


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I’ve been dating/talking to this guy for about a month and a half (though I met him a month prior). He’s…wonderful. I know he cares, he doesn’t have his mind on one thing and he really does adore me. I appreciate so many things he does for me & according to him he feels he "should be doing more b/c it’s not enough". Things are goin surprisingly well and since day 1, we’ve always been super comfortable w. each other.

Sooner or later, the "sex" talk was going to be brought up. (I’m actually surprised that he didn’t ask me right away). Thing is, I’m nearing my mid 20′s and i’m still a virgin. I’m not ugly w. a nice personality, nor weird…i’m very protective and picky…it just didn’t happen…didn’t feel right during those times. I’ve done other things BUT "that". I’ve only cared for 3 guys in my life. First boyfriend, i loved him but wasn’t "in love" and there was no chemistry; 2nd guy had too many STD’s and the 3rd…wasn’t "real love"…I just don’t wanna let it go so easily. I’m not ashamed at all yet past experiences have made me be a bit more conscious about it. My virginity was a deal breaker for some guys I’ve dated and as much as i’m "better off", it still kinda hurts. I’ve also dealt w. numerous guys that have only wanted 1 thing but I never let him succeed. With this guy, he’s not like other guys i’ve dated…i actually care about him…alot. So I was very hesistant/nervous/scared/anxious in telling him. So when I did, I got the typcal reaction, "geuninely shocked" and asked if i was really joking/lying "b/c there’s no way a pretty girl like you, would still be a virgin." (as I get fr. alot of guys i’ve dated). I got sensitive to it and just cried. And after he soaked it all in said, "babe, even if you stayed a virgin ’til the day you die, it doesn’t matter…and its okay, don’t worry. I’m not here for that. I want you and that love you give me b/c i’m happy…" The reason I get insecure is b/c guys can say how much they "respect" it and their gone or create their escape plans…i actually care about this guy. He then said, if it was a problem to him, the rest of the conversation would be awkward and we still stayed on the phone for another 2 hrs. He’s still normal around me and to make me feel better, he suggested to stop w. the "sex talk" and if I feel okay to talk it out, then we would another time. He admitted that for him as a guy, his # of women (who he slept w.) is considered "low" for a guy. I asked if he was relived hearing about me and he said, "a bit but it really doesn’t matter". Anyhoo, things are fine but I can’t helpt but feel insecure…

I’m not pressured to do anything w. him….but opening up that virgin confeeision made me get insecure. How can I rebound back and stop being insecure about it?
He’s a "shy guy" type btw…if that helps…and the # of girls he’s slept w? you can count in one hand and it’s been w. his serious, long term gf’s…i’ve got a good guy


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