My ex-boyfriend broke up with me. He went out to the bar last night and I felt insecure so I sent him a text telling him this and asking if I had any reason to be. He never texted back and showed up today to break up with me. He was angry that I don’t trust, yet he’s done nothing to warrant it. I know this, but I can be jealous and I find it so hard to trust men. He’s prince charming and I want him back. He told me that he cares for me more than he has ever cared for a woman, but that there is this trust issue that makes the relationship sour. I want to trust him and I just wish he’d see that I sometimes need just a little reassurance, like a little text msg back telling me i’m being silly. Now I’m scared I’ll loose him forever. What can I do to solve the problem I’ve created and how do I get him to give me another chance?????
We’ve been together 3 months.
Are there laws against a man over-defending himself from a woman? Similar to the notion that if you self-defend with a gun against a knife, you have the advantage of further range and can be punished?
This has to do with the fact that my son has been raised on his father’s time to beleive that:
A man can and should hit back as hard as need be when attacked by a female, even to a small degree.
Now most men I know feel that it is wrong to ever hit a woman, although restraining a woman to the point that she bruises herself while struggling is perfectly fine.
Self-defense, then, consists of doing just that.
Now, if we’re talking about an Amazon woman attacking the artist Formerly and Now Once Again Known as Prince,
hey, you know what?
I’ll throw this rule out, too!
But before I go trying to tell my twelve-year-old to change his views about women before he dates (and hurts someone!), I’d like to know if there are real-life consequences, to bolster my argument. Thanks!
Yes, his father did it to me, and that’s why I’m scareds that the thinking will produce the same kind of person in our son.
He’s already got the mental and emotional abouse routine down; it’s so much a part of his every facial expressdion and denigrating tone fo voice that I’m pretty sure he will will be abusive to his future mates. And i have never been able to override that, though he respects all fo my rules. His personality is as nasty as his father’s, but I want to get through to him at least on this level.
PS He does not hit me, but he is finally mt height. Now, we split a long time ago, and he has lived with dad since my near-fatal car crash. I have never had the family support or money to take him back AND be home with him, so I’ve generally had him on weekends.
I’m just afraid that he will be liek this man, and I want to prevent that, is all. Thanks to all who show so much concern!
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*Read* As requested by thehp59, This is just a peveiw, let me know what you think. There are probably too many effects because I was getting carried away with Sony Vegas, especially with the ones towards the begining, they looked alright on Sony Vegas but as soon as I watched in on WMM it looked terrible! So sorry guys… I’ll probably make it all different now… Clips: Harry Potter PS – HBP Song: Your Ex Lover is Dead by STARS Program used: Sony Vegas Pro. 9 **DISCLAIMER** I OWN NOTHING! ALL COPYRIGHT GOES TO JK ROWLING AND WARNER BROS I AM NOT MAKING ANY MONEY/PROFIT FROM THIS IT IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY NO COPYRIGHT INFRINGEMENT INTENDED ***********
here is an excerpt from the book. i know it wont make a lot of sense if you just jump in to it so here is a little background.
setting: mideval type of setting w/ fantasy
characters:
annabel mavis: helps prince vincent on mission and is very independent. wants to be something more then just a servent like her mother and wants to see the world.
prince vincent: a prince who has just lost his father becuase of the war going on and has sworn to kill the man who killed his father (bad guys name is daken wraith). will do anytihng to kill him and doesnt fully un derstand how much he truly needs annabel (even if he doesnt want to except it). his true misson is to end the war between his kingdom and a few other agianst dakin wraith and his army of traitors.
Fran: one of the last shifters in the lands. as a shifter she is wanted by many for her shapshifting powers. fran wants to help vincent and annabel but annabel doesnt fully trust her untill fran tells her a very important deep secret.
what happened right before this:
vincent and annabel get into a fight becuase vincents ego gets in the way and annabel is fed up. fran ,annabel, and vincent part and go seprate ways. fran and annabel stay together and end up getting caught. annabel knows that vincent is not around to help and that it is up to her to save fran and herself because fran was taken over by a drak spirit with dark magic.
(annabel narrating whats going on.)
I felt my heart pounding in my chest ready to jump out my throat. I took in a shaky breath hoping that my capturers wouldn’t hear my unsteady heart. Vincent was my only other source of help seeing has how fans body was being taken over at the moment. I should have never left you Vincent I mumbled to myself. My feeling of defeat slowly started to turn into anger at everyone. If Vincent hadn’t of been so… so… horrible I wouldn’t be in this mess. It was his fault I was all tied up like this not mine. Here I was about to be killed or worse and he was nowhere in sight. I started to come off my anger high just as soon as I came upon it. It wasn’t Vincent’s fault it wasn’t anyone’s fault but my own. It was my own doing that I was here. If I had only done what I was supposed to and guided Vincent and aided him on his journey this would not be happening. I am not going to let them do anything to me. I thought quietly in my head. I am just as strong as anyone else. Even if I had no help and had messed up big time I wouldn’t let myself just give up. “you won’t’ get away with this.” I spat out my voice more menacing and stronger than I thought it would be.
“We’ll see about that.” Zenthyia said in a tone that made me want to kick her. Hard… “Fran ….” I shouted shifting my attention to her “your stronger than this don’t let this wench fool you. Fight Fran fight please.” I then felt a startling blow to the back of my head and slumped down in the chair I was tied to. Falling and fading into a darkness that went on forever.
When I awoke I was hanging from shackles nailed in to the uneven bumpy wall that was behind me. The shackles were digging into my skin my wrists and ankles sore and bleeding. I struggled trying to not give up and to get away.” There’s no use in doing that. You’re only making yourself weaker.” Fran said coming out of the shadows. How long had she been there? How long had I been unconscious? Where was Vincent.” Fran.” I pleaded, and I dint like to plead.” Please let me go. You don’t know what you’re doing. Be strong Fran fight this creature that possesses you I know you can. I believe in you. Vincent’s counting on you I’m counting on you.” I said forcing back my tears as my voice cracked.
“Fran isn’t here right now. And If I were you I wouldn’t count on her ever coming back.” For a moment I forgot who I was talking to and tried to kick the demon that possessed Frans body.
“I don’t think that was a really wise thing to do, Do you?” she said taking a step back. I spat at her and got her right in the face.
“I think we should teach you a little lesson on how to be kind to your hosts and friends.”
“You are no friend of mine I said to her wanting to kick her and not miss. “Besides hurting me will result in you hurting your friend.” I thought this thought over and realized that it was true, no matter how badly I wanted to kick the person inside, and that I would have to think about my actions more carefully. But a little spit couldn’t hurt right? I bowed my head I wanted to give the illusion that I had given up. Maybe this way I could catch her off guard. She knew my trick all too well and didn’t turn around or take her eyes off of me once. It was frustrating. If I only I hadn’t of been so stupid. There was a terrific crash from the room above and it made Fran loose her focus on me for only a moment. That moment was all I needed. All it took was Fran standing too close and my leg kicking her in just the right way. That the keys flew off of her belt and would you believe my
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