My mom was petition by her husband like 13 yrs ago. she then petition me I was a little girl.( I had been to the US before anyway cuz I had an american visa) they got divorced after 2 yrs cuz he was a truck driver and was cheating and he contacted an STD and told her about so she wont get sick too. well, now immigration was thinking that their marriage was fake and the poor thing now has court MATER HEARING next week. She was told by the lawyers(the best in miami and most expensive) that everything will be ok cuz she has proof and witnesses and all kinds of stuff. the judge will either say approved or not and if he says no she can appeal or whatever or file again with her new husband. the thing is that since she petition me I’m afraid that if the judge says no, Ill have to go too.The lawyer says that if the judge approves the case we both get our green cards back, but if he doesnt and my mom doesnt do what she needs to do fast she could get deported. I mean since she petition me would that mean Ill get deported too? Im married to a citizen and the lawyer told me that only my mom would be affected cuz I was a minor and had a visa anyway along with the green card that in case of anything i could file with my hubby, and also my name is not in the court order neither is my green card number like my moms.
I’m so scared for her. she is such a good woman loved by everyone that works hard and loves this country since we lived all whole lives here. I on my part do not even speak the other language I left when I was 3 yrs old. My mom tell me that if she gets deported I wont cuz I did not do anything I could have a chance to fix my stuff up is this true? I mean thats what the lawyers say! I am a full-tim teacher at 21 yrs old, full-time student, full-time wife lol and I love this country with all my heart. Im married for and we just want answers. I want to trust the lawyers cuz I dont really wanna go back but is this true???? help me anyway
She is using my weak spot, Nicky my guinea pig. She has vegetables for him. She’s never visited before and now that I am breaking free, she wants to come over. I wrote her thank you, but we have veggies here. I won’t call her because she is soooo very good and sweet and caring when her husband is there and can hear her and I come off looking like the bad guy.
She doesn’t like e-mail because if she goes off, there’s proof in black and white. She ignored me while I was in a crisis and she knew it. Grew cold and contemptuous to me. Upon reading N literature, I had a refresher course. Why did I not see all the red flags? But once I realized she was an N, I had flashbacks of stuff she did or said that was like an N slide show. I actually lied, told her my husband was on his way back from another state, so she wouldn’t come over here. Now I feel guilty about that and how I’m down on her level. Don’t want to get her angry, just don’t want contact any more.
Advice please! – Bunny
Do you think this is the least he could do to reassure me he isn’t still with this woman that made my life hell? In fact, He didn’t actually say it was over he just said "he wanted us to save our marriage"
Are there any tough questions for me to ask him? Obviously, he will lie so should I contact "this woman" to see if he really ended it? Or will she just lie as well? How would I now for a fact and what is proof that it’s over between them?
I don’t want to waist anymore of my life.
I want to work it out for our kids but, my heart tells me I need to "Be Sure" He was with HER for 2 yrs of our marriage!
I have been seeing my current boyfriend for going on a year and I heva a sick feeling that he is going to keep running back to his ex.
I have found emails where he is telling her how much he loves her. I also found a text message from her saying how " I feel asleep waiting for you last night". I want to believe him but I must say the proof is in the pudding. Should I leave him?? Will he always have a connection with her and keep running back?
My husband just came back from being away in training for two months. I found out (and this is a for sure yes) that he cheated on me with someone who was in his class several times.
He knows I’m suspicious but I haven’t told him I have the proof and I don’t plan on telling him. I want my marriage and I love him. I have forgiven him in my heart and mind, that’s not the problem. My problem is we are still living in the same household and will be for another three months until I can get on my feet (financially) for the sake of our children.
He won’t sleep in the same bed with me or give me any sign of affection (says his mind’s set). He told me no matter how hard he tried I was never happy and he gets angry thinking of all our fights and the low blows I would give him and vice-versa. I told him I was over it, apologized, & that our marriage is mendable.
What do I do to win his love back? Please help. (and the whore is states away back with her husband, so i dont worry about her).
My fiance lost his children in a nasty divorce and child custody hearing. We live in Mississippi and they favor women in child custody cases. His ex-wife is abusive to the children and we have gotten proof. We went to our local D.H.S and the children told them everything. They accused the children of lying and the father of coaching his kids. We even had pictures of injuries their mother left on their bodies. They even had some on them when we went in and showed them. Still it didn’t help. We have been continually reporting these things to our d.h.s and the children have been telling their teachers and counselors at school things that happen to them while in their mothers care, nothing happens. Since then his oldest soon has been molested while in his mother care and nothing has been done by d.h.s. He was tested for molestation by a doc. that our d.h.s referred and when it came back positive they said he was not a credited doc. by them. We have even reported the local d.h.s to our state government, still nothing has been done. The children are 11, 8, and 6. There is still a lot of abuse that I didn’t have room to put on here. We don’t know what to do, and the children are loosing hope and don’t want to talk anymore because their mother finds out what they are reporting about her and they suffer for talking against her. Please help.
Fell for him and he broke my heart. Turns out he’s happily married. A$$hole. I have a few ideas in my head, but I don’t even think they will do any justice. I just want to hurt or humiliate him like he hurt me. I would tell his wife, but I have no proof to show her either.
I met an amazing girl who I connected with back in May. She lives in OH, I live in CA.. we started talking more and more, our crushes getting more and more intense. She starts to get busy about a month into it and I get to talk to her less and less.. then she decides to visit her recent ex for a week in Sweden. I know I don’t have any proof that they’re back together again, but people say 9 out of 10 times "when an ex comes out of the woodworks, it spells the end for you." Can I assume it’s pretty much over with us?
I worked for my co. for 11 years and a new manager came in who decided he didn’t like me. I’ve always been a top producer, a hard worker and dedicated employee. I know I can’t always expect everyone to like me in life, but I have never had anything but raving reviews from bosses/employers. He terminated me on the spot, with no documented proof of what he accused me of doing- and HR didn’t stop him or even investigate it. He lied to his boss and HR – all based on he/said she/said – accused me of falsifying information- something I didn’t do. Even the other co-workers involved stood up for me, after I was let go, and told HR and my management that I did not do what I was accused of. Then they told the unemployment office this same lie and even added to it by saying that I ADMITTED to what they accused me of doing!! I am just beside myself in disgust and disbelief. Isn’t that slander? Can they lie to UI like that? Can I sue for something like this?
Is there a way to respond to those of you asking me more details? Thank you for the responses. There is so much more to the story- my manager did some very unethical things trying to find "dirt" on me. He even misrepresented himself (as to who he was in the co.) to gather information he later called "an audit". I was never given anything in writing on the terms of my job responsibilities. Lots of loosey goosey in all of this on their part.
Steve- no I’m not in a protected class. Although the atty I spoke with said he saw some grounds for gender discrim. But now I’m wondering about the way they are slandering my professional reputation by lying to UI about why I was let go. I can’t believe they told them I admitted to what they accused me of!!
My mother and I need this for a child support modification review. DCSS has told my mother that they do not do this, that she has to. Is there a way around this? My father says he is making less, but we all know he is making more. Though he has filed for unemployment between movies, he is still taking vacations and renting hotels and cars on this amount of money. He owns multiple properties. Is there a way to get proof of his income, properties owned, or any other information to help with my mother’s case?
First of all, abortion provides individual rights for women to protect and defeat their rights to bear a child or not. Women have the right whether or not they want to continue being pregnant. Society today views abortion as a cold blooded crime and a sin of God for a woman who had have experience an abortion. Rather than viewing an abortion as a life decision for a woman to make and defend their own individual rights. Many antiabortionists support and defend more the fetuses than the women arguing that carry out an abortion is violating fetuses’ individual rights. On the essay of Ellen Willis, she makes an excited statement “I do consider the life of a fertilized egg less precious than the well-being of a woman with feeling, self consciousness…” (508) I strongly agree with Willis that the life of a woman is far more important than fetus and need to be protect and defeat women’s individual rights by allowing abortion to be continue in the United States. Some of the antiabortionists believe that the solution for eliminated abortion is for women to stop having unprotected sex and women to wait for marriage to have sex. According to the essay of Willis, “Criminalizing abortion doesn’t just harm individual women with unwanted pregnancies, it affects all women’s sense of themselves” (509) I agree with Willis if criminalizing abortion will conceded, it will violation women’s individual rights that women will feel unhopeful or powerless of their own bodies. What will happen to women who may experience a dangerous pregnancy or raped? One of my sisters had a dangerous pregnancy; she was in her sixth months and expecting little girl when the doctor discovered that my sister’s health and also the baby were danger. My sister needed to have an abortion to save her life or both my sister and the baby will dead. Without a doubt, my sister had an abortion but if government pass to criminalizing abortion. My sister will possible be dead right now. The same case applies to the women who are raped and having to experience an unwanted pregnancy. A raped victim itself is an emotional stage that many of them are unable to override her terrible experience. An unwanted pregnancy will increase the raped victim’s emotional stage that unwanted baby will possible have an unhappy life.
So, me and my ex just brokeup. i’m 15 and he’s 16. he wanted to breakup
because we don’t see each other as often as we would like to and i
wanted to breakup because i found proof of him cheating. now i gave him
a couple of chances to confess but he just kept tellin me to trust him
when he says he wouldn’t do it again (he cheated on me before but i gave
him a second chance.) i really care about him and want this to work
without him cheating on me. i wish it was just that easy but it isn’t,
its kind of hard for me to go over and see him even though our towns are
only 15 min. away. my mom doesn’t always feel like driving me. i also
think he cheated because i was too nervous too kiss him and it seemed
like i just didn’t want to. i have an alter ego with him sometimes, i
act bitchy in my opinion but im an actually sweet person and i want him
to see that. but its been four days and he hasn’t called or text me and
i think he’s still with that girl even though they don’t see eachother.
he also put that he was depressed as his mood on myspace. is there any
hope for us? i don’t want it to be over. my friend thinks i should call
him to talk it out and then make plans to see him next weekend. if so,
what should i say? i love him and hope that this can work, but if i’m
going to get hurt everytime then i’d rather just not do it agan.
Whilst with my ex, I paid of £3750 of a drug debt for him, as we were a family and it made sense to do so, as I had the money – he has now left, and still owes me the money. I have proof of withdrawing the cash from my savings, and his bank would have proof of me paying it in, but he just refuses to give it back, saying he doesn’t have it. He works full time, earns and OK salary, so don’t see why I should be so out of pocket, as now I am on my own and have children (his also) to look after I really do need the money.
I have thought of small claims court (here in the uk) any advice out there please?
Many thanks
Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to stay friends badly!. I kept asking her i wanted her back sweetly. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sickening and now she says she will never be friends and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just wanted to stay friends. Saw her recently and she said hello. We tried to talk but she said she has nothing to say? The happened to her? She said she will regret the breakup. Why
I saw her this past weekend and we tried to talk, but she said she had nothing to say to me. We hang out at similar places and she talks to my friends. I treated her so well. She always told me how lucky she was to be "stuck" with me and i am the best. Told me she wanted to marry me etc.. have kids and all. All of a sudden you lose feelings. Makes no sense. She did just get out of a 2 1/2 yr verbally abusive relationship which ended in a restraining order, which I come to find out she has started to text him again, nothing more and the texting started while we were together, of course she denied, but I have proof. I guess i was a rebound or what. Do you guys think she just realized she didnt want to be in a relationship cause she was not ready?? Or was she just confused, she is a Gemini and I am a Pisces? Any advice on how I should deal with this? Will she consider me as a friend since our fallout? That is all i really want and i told her so.
I need help on how to save my marriage , I have cheated in my wife on the past , several times and now I always think something is going on that is not and it is pushing us apart. I don’t have proof of anything wrong she has done just what I think she has done and She has about had it with me because of it. I dont know what to do ?
