In my last relationship my ex talked me into swinging. When I got pregnant he left me. I was devastated. I found a wonderful man now. We’re married. Our relationship is very loving and we’re monogamous. Lately he wanted to DP me with a toy when we’re having sex. It brought back painful memories of my last relationship. How do it tell him I’m not into it without sounding like a selfish prude wife ?


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i just got through watching it, and it was shocking
all her life, grace has been the good girl christain virgin prude. and i for one think she has a major stick up her asss. Adrian + Grace are friends now, and adriana had just given her some major life advice ( to save her virginity until marriage) and what does she do? she’s trying to act like some hardd asss rebel and has sex with jack anyway. "i’m gonna have sex with jack and then mabye he will stay with me forever and forever. and then we’re gonna get married.. and everything’s just gonna be so perfect" wow, seriously?! i’m sorry but she just pissess me the hell off. how naive can you get?

Ricky + Adriana are changing for the better and i’m starting to like them a lot more. ben needs to get over the fact that ricky stays in amy’s room with the baby? hellooo, their not sleeping together!
it’s HIS baby afterall!

it was so sad when we found out that Grace’s dad died, and her mom was crying and everything. i was so NOT expecting that to happen.. i got a little teary eyed when i found out.. and the worst part is, grace had the chance to forgive her father, but she refused. and now he’s dead and it’s over. looks like grace’s perfectly life isnt so perfect anymore. i know she has a lot of regrets and probably will never forgive herself


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I find the idea silly. What if you wait all that time, miss out on all the fun, and get married, and then you two aren’t sexually compatible? He’s a sadist and she’s a prude? That’s bound to cause problems later on.

To those who wait for religious reasons: you’re dumb. Quit letting yourself be brainwaished and think for yourself. (Deny it all you want, but that’s what’s happening.)

So, ASIDE from the fact that some fictional book might tell you pre-marital sex is wrong, why do people wait for marriage?
Edit: I come from a corner of the internet where what I’ve said above is LESS than mild. Don’t get your panties in a bunch :P
Also, people crack sex up to be sacred and special and only meant for one person. I just can’t grasp this mindset. I think it can be done both for fun and for love. Nothing wrong with exploring, a one night stand, if you use protection. Psychologically, we lose our innocence long before we have sex, so I don’t see the significance.
Metalhead, sex is indeed an instinct. But that means nothing. Seeking water when we are thirsty is also an instinct. Why have we any reason to suppress instincts? they exist for a reason. And while humanity has come a long from living in nomadic tribes where people randomly had sex, is repressing your nature for years really necessary? Why would someone ever request their partner to prove their love so cruelly?
Ah, perhaps I simply lack a rampant fear of STIs and pregnancy. Considering all the precautions I take, the chance of either happening to me is maybe .0001%. I guess that’s a chance I’m willing to take :D


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