This is kind of bothering me and the reason why, is because I will be 24 years old this month (march 18th) and I still havent found the right girl in my life either to do it with. One part of me is saying there are women I know that are willing to have sex with me (friends) because they said i am a nice guy, i am different from any other guy they know. But when it comes to having sex with me, I want it to be special that 1st time. Instead of it be called sex its making love in my book, with passionate romantic love from head to toe. But I tell them I cant do it because you are just a friend to me, Iam not gonna have sex with a friend if you are not my girlfriend. And even when you are my GF it still will take time before i lay down with you. Really I want to save myself for marriage. But I feel like time is ticking on me iam going to be 24 years old here in 2 weeks and I still havent had sex nor found the right gurl and not even been with a girl for a long time.

Ive only been with one girl my hole life (5 years) and we never ever had sex we both agreed to wait until we got married, but the relationship went down hill towards the end. And sence then I havent been with no1 and nothing. I have been on dates but all they want out of it is just a peace of my body, and I am not with that. I just dont know what to do n e more im getting older, not younger and part of me wants to do it and another part of me saying no. So u guys give me your in puts on this please should I save my self or should I just get on with the program this really bothers me that the fact im gonna be 24 and still a virgin ty you guys.


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Me and my ex husband have been divorce since june 09. We got joint custody. I was never at the divorce hearing because i was never notify of the court date so what he put down he got. My ex has a new child before we was divorce. Even though we live in different states and he is in the army a phone isn’t that hard to do.He never calls to check up on my son he calls like once a month he gives me child support because he has he said he wouldn’t give it to me but since he has to he does. Now I want to take him back to court because I was sole custody of my 2 year old son. My son has been in my custody since day 1. My ex never sent him a birthday card no christmas gifts his mom gets my son gifts and puts my exs name on it. He makes it seem like he is father of the year. everyone knows he has a daughter but they dont know he has a son. So I want to go back to court to get full custody more child support and to make him pay for daycare since I cant get a job in the daytime since both my parents work and dont get home til like 5 or 6. He refuses to pay for daycare or even help me. I start school next month and have to go at night because I have no one to watch my son in days and that’s why its impossible for me to get a job because no one wants to hire me because of my hours of 6-close most jobs night hours are 5-11.

Im not trying to be some bitter women but you just have to put yourself in my shoes. I just think my son deserves better and I dont want to share my son with someone who doesn’t care about him just because he didn’t want a boy but now has a daughter doesn’t mean anything. Any advice how I can get this court case started??? By the way Im 21 I live in VA and my ex i dont know where he stays he lies about his locations with me


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something like this… it’s pretty long but puts me in awe.

"Maybe I’m wrong in the way I think about love, and being with someone. Maybe I’m messed up to think that the best part of being with someone isn’t "hanging out," or physically being there for them. Don’t get me wrong, it’s a very important and necessary part of a relationship- and if you don’t have it, then it can’t work. But it’s just not, and never has been the best part for me. I just love the silent things. The things you can’t touch or see. It’s the things you feel. It’s not worth not being with someone if you want it. Distance doesn’t matter to me. Not one bit. I could care less. Because I’ve learned a little more about trust. I’ve grown up a little. And I believe if you find that one person you cannot live without — Well, I don’t know a lot about love, but I know enough to know that if you’re lucky enough to find that – If you are blessed enough to come across that one person, don’t let them go. Because love, for the most part, is the feelings that you get in return. I don’t think love is what you GIVE – but the part you get back. Everyone always says "love" is a feeling. But as nice as it sounds to say that when you give something, you feel it. I think it’s wrong. You can care about someone, and would do anything for them. But without them returning that feeling, then you won’t feel a thing. And that’s what love is to me. Knowing that someone who heartedly cares, and unconditionally wants you there for them, and the other way around. Love is the way they smell when you hug them, and the way when they laugh, just watching them slows down in your mind. Love is when you’re talking to someone, and you notice the small things about them – every little detail. Freckles on their collarbone, the blue flecks in the middles of their eyes, the way their hair falls around their face, they way their eyes look when they’re sad, … just all of it. It’s finding someone who needs you, wants you, and can’t sleep without knowing you’re alright. It’s the kind of thing that sees why you should be with someone. Why you’re with someone not because of the love you THINK you have, but because of the love you know for sure is (and has always been) between you. You’re not friends because of the laughs you spend, but because of the tears you SAVE. Love to me is not wanting to be near that one person because of the thoughts you share, but wanting to be near them for the words you never ever have to speak. And I know that you aren’t in love to miss someone because of what you DO – but because of what you are TOGETHER. Love doesn’t let go, it endures. It doesn’t let go because nothing else completely and fully exists outside of it. It’s a sense of safety that keeps hundreds of thousands of people going every single day. It’s the only way we know for sure things are going to be okay. And I don’t know about anyone else in this world, but it’s the one thing that makes me WANT to wake up everyday. Because I love. And not just PEOPLE. But I love everything that I’m blessed enough to have. Love holds on because it’s all we have. Love is the only way we know for sure that angels DO exist, that hearts DO skip, and that butterflies in your stomach isn’t just something cute five-year-old girls say when the little boy who sits beside her lets her use the bright purple crayon. So why would you ever risk letting that person go who makes you feel that? Because of distance? Because of time? Because to risk that – you would be risking letting that angel, that piece to your puzzle, that light, and sense of all things good – you would be letting that go. Letting it slip away. You would be losing that. And to me that’s everything. It’s the closest thing any of us has to magic. But most of all, it’s the only chance any of us in this entire world have to FEEL something. To feel real."


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Majic Jack Dangerous Puts Spyware On Computer – The Hidden Truth Behind Majic JackPosted problems with magic jack …. is majic jack hiding something?

read the tos ("terms of service) for magic jack very closely. you might be surprised at what you see there. or not see there. i’ve pointed out issues with magic jack in earler articles on broadband nation (see archives). but this revelation should make you very concerned.

in short … to quote a favorite cartoon character …. "be afwaid, very afwaid".

this is just pointing out the not-so-obvious that is hidden deep within the tos, and other ‘gotcha’s’ that you won’t realize until after you give up your $ and privacy!

first:

here is the contact info for magicjack:

po box 6785
west palm beach, fl 33405

magic jack phone number: 281-404-1551
billing magicjack number: 561-594-2140

caution: it looks like they track the number that calls and places you into a repeating loop if you call back a second time. so if you need to call a second time make sure its from a different number.

second:

in the tos you agree that everything in your computer is fair game for them to know about, all web sites, email, and numbers called are there info.

you agree to have all of your information resold to third parties.

there is no un install for this program. even if you stop using it, it gathers your information.

you are put under high pressure to sign up and pay for 5 years.

there is no published phone number, email address, or mailing address.

all customer support is done via type in the box chat.

there is no written warranty on the box. it breaks, you buy another to maintain your service.

computer must be left on to make or receive calls.

pop up window comes to front of screen anytime there is a call in or out call.

majicjack spyware slows down your computer even when you are not using magicjack

advertising is in the pop up box.

and yes, you do save around 0 a year not using a real voip company.

at what little price people put on the information and security.

so ask yourself, is it really worth it?

wait …. there’s more.

majic jack is owned and run by ymax. they are not a stand alone voip provider.

also …..

"the software for the magicjack does not run directly from the device. it fully installs on the windows system, which also makes the magicjack less attractive for situations where one might want to use it on someone else’s computer (say when visiting family). making this even worse, there was no easy way to uninstall the software from the system, with the program not even showing up in the windows remove program window. update: magicjack confirmed that there is currently no easy way to uninstall the software. the process required to uninstall the software requires multiple windows registry edits and the removal of several folders on the windows system. based on this, i wouldn’t recommend using the magicjack on the systems of friends, family or business associates." — (see magicjack fails to cast a voip spell)

nobody should accept having to leave unwanted software on a personal computer, or any tell-tale trace of the mj program on a public computer, a business workstation, or a borrowed device.

the key concepts here are action and intent. if mj is not actively monitoring computer activity and collecting data about its customers, that’s great. they would be taking no action that anyone could be concerned about.

but consider their intent. their tos spell out their intent — the intent to feed context sensitive advertising, which requires manipulation of information from your brain through their software into their processors. there seems to be little restriction of what info their software can see. (kind of like your home builder installing bugging devices and cameras into your bedroom, just not yet watching the feed.) then there is the ability of mj to modify their software (upgrape, anyone?) at any time, without the common user’s ability to stop it, and that revision could include the spyware coding. while you, the uncommon user, have the ability to see what they are doing, the common user has no idea when the change is made. now let’s consider mj’s intent of not building in an uninstall capability. i am suggesting that this exposes mj’s intent to have their software on your pc whether you’re an active phone customer or not. what would be the intent of having that software on the pc of a former customer? (consider, also, their "convenience" feature of taking the device with you so you can use it on a friend’s pc — thus installing the software on that machine, too!) what information could that software obtain that would be of value to mj? and what could the common user do to stop it?

mj could shut down their phone service tomorrow, and they have a window into 1 million pcs — to feed advertising, log key strokes, and obtain surfing patterns.

by laughing at the tos provisio


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Majic Jack Dangerous Puts Spyware On Computer – The Hidden Truth Behind Majic JackPosted Jan-28-09 19:17:31 PSTreal problems with magic jack …. is majic jack hiding something?

read the tos ("terms of service) for magic jack very closely. you might be surprised at what you see there. or not see there. i’ve pointed out issues with magic jack in earler articles on broadband nation (see archives). but this revelation should make you very concerned.

in short … to quote a favorite cartoon character …. "be afwaid, very afwaid".

this is just pointing out the not-so-obvious that is hidden deep within the tos, and other ‘gotcha’s’ that you won’t realize until after you give up your $ and privacy!

first:

here is the contact info for magicjack:

po box 6785
west palm beach, fl 33405

magic jack phone number: 281-404-1551
billing magicjack number: 561-594-2140

caution: it looks like they track the number that calls and places you into a repeating loop if you call back a second time. so if you need to call a second time make sure its from a different number.

second:

in the tos you agree that everything in your computer is fair game for them to know about, all web sites, email, and numbers called are there info.

you agree to have all of your information resold to third parties.

there is no un install for this program. even if you stop using it, it gathers your information.

you are put under high pressure to sign up and pay for 5 years.

there is no published phone number, email address, or mailing address.

all customer support is done via type in the box chat.

there is no written warranty on the box. it breaks, you buy another to maintain your service.

computer must be left on to make or receive calls.

pop up window comes to front of screen anytime there is a call in or out call.

majicjack spyware slows down your computer even when you are not using magicjack

advertising is in the pop up box.

and yes, you do save around 0 a year not using a real voip company.

at what little price people put on the information and security.

so ask yourself, is it really worth it?

wait …. there’s more.

majic jack is owned and run by ymax. they are not a stand alone voip provider.

also …..

"the software for the magicjack does not run directly from the device. it fully installs on the windows system, which also makes the magicjack less attractive for situations where one might want to use it on someone else’s computer (say when visiting family). making this even worse, there was no easy way to uninstall the software from the system, with the program not even showing up in the windows remove program window. update: magicjack confirmed that there is currently no easy way to uninstall the software. the process required to uninstall the software requires multiple windows registry edits and the removal of several folders on the windows system. based on this, i wouldn’t recommend using the magicjack on the systems of friends, family or business associates." — (see magicjack fails to cast a voip spell)

nobody should accept having to leave unwanted software on a personal computer, or any tell-tale trace of the mj program on a public computer, a business workstation, or a borrowed device.

the key concepts here are action and intent. if mj is not actively monitoring computer activity and collecting data about its customers, that’s great. they would be taking no action that anyone could be concerned about.

but consider their intent. their tos spell out their intent — the intent to feed context sensitive advertising, which requires manipulation of information from your brain through their software into their processors. there seems to be little restriction of what info their software can see. (kind of like your home builder installing bugging devices and cameras into your bedroom, just not yet watching the feed.) then there is the ability of mj to modify their software (upgrape, anyone?) at any time, without the common user’s ability to stop it, and that revision could include the spyware coding. while you, the uncommon user, have the ability to see what they are doing, the common user has no idea when the change is made. now let’s consider mj’s intent of not building in an uninstall capability. i am suggesting that this exposes mj’s intent to have their software on your pc whether you’re an active phone customer or not. what would be the intent of having that software on the pc of a former customer? (consider, also, their "convenience" feature of taking the device with you so you can use it on a friend’s pc — thus installing the software on that machine, too!) what information could that software obtain that would be of value to mj? and what could the common user do to stop it?

mj could shut down their phone service tomorrow, and they have a window into 1 million pcs — to feed advertising, log key strokes, and obtain surfing patterns.

by l


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