i love reading romance books that have to deal with spouses cheating but getting back together.
one book in particular i read about a husband cheating on his wife which lead to their divorce. he was a narcotics officer who got addicted to drugs. when his wife told him to get help he refused, so she kicked him out. in turn, he cheated on her, which lead to their divorce.
i read this book a few months back and now i want to read it again but i forgot the title!!
THANKS!
My husband of 10 yrs left me and filed for divorce. I am devastated and don’t want to divorce.
I love him…
My husband and I have had our ups and downs for the past 10 years like most marriages. We had a fight 4 weeks ago and it escalated to him moving out and filing for divorce within 3 weeks. He says I have emotionally abused him (silent treatment, yelling, talking to like a kid, etc…) and he doesn’t want our relationship anymore.
I have since stopped calling and texting as much as I was in the beginning, which only made things worse. I’m trying hard to give him space and time. I have accepted responsibility for my mistakes and am working with a therapist to change my behavior. His chief complaints are I don’t speak to him respectfully, always question him and control things, smother him, won’t accept his decision to divorce.
I am truly sorry for the way I have treated him and have expressed that to him, but he said he doesn’t believe me because I promised to change when he left me in January. I did make some changes, but they were not to his standard and he didn’t mention anything until our fight 4 weeks ago. I am desparate to save my marriage and I don’t know what to do. I have been reading books, taking anti-depressants and courses on relationship rebuilding, but nothing seems to matter at this point.
He says he is 75% gone and has recently agreed to speak with a counselor with me to find it if he is making the right decision. This is the hardest thing I’ve had to go through in life and the pain is almost unbarable. I can’t function. I cry from the time I wake up till the time I go to bed. I have missed work and am planning to take FMLA to protect my job. I’m severely depressed and feel my life has no meaning without my husband.
If he leaves he takes everything away from me. I only associate with his family, I don’t have many friends, everything I have done in the past 10 years has revolved around my husband and our marriage. I feel like I am loosing my identity. I want to show my husband that our marriage is worth saving and that it can be saved, but it is hard when he keeps moving further away and refusing to deal with our problems.
He has walked out and it is difficult to even get him to talk to me. I don’t know what to do. Divorce is not an option for me.
If you don’t have anything helpful to say don’t say anything.
I just can’t handle negativity right now.
I want fast ways to talk normal again and the quickest is best. I know reading books aloud to myself is supposed to work but i need more ideas. thanks!
I live in Mass, and I know for a fact that schools are reading books to children about gay couples.
On a business trip in CA, I saw an ad that used this in an anti-gay marriage ad. I know it didn’t pass there, and I heard that gay marriage just didn’t pass in ME, and the ads were using the same tactic.
I am not gay. I do not even think gays have anything to be proud of. However, I DO think they should be allowed to marry, and share the same benefits as straight couples!
Does anyone else think that the Massachusetts liberals took it too far by adding education about gay couples to young children’s curriculum, and actually hindered gay rights in the long run?
As a side note, I personally think gays should be allowed to marry, but I have to agree that I don’t think young children need to be informed about gay lifestyles. At least save it until they’re old enough for sex ed!
Well Yakito, you’re my point-in case. That’s exactly the fodder that feeds the anti-gay marriage campaigns. Nice work. I want equal rights for gays, but because of militant liberals, middle-of-the-road people are scared out of voting for gay rights.
MY husband and I have been married almost four years just short of two weeks. For about the last 8 months I have just felt that the flame has just burnt out. He says he loves me and I really do believe him, and I really love him. He just doesn’t make any effort to prove it. All he ever want’s to talk about is Sport’s, music, and his hobbies. Which is fine but EVERYDAY ALL DAY get’s so old. We both work full time and I don’t mind a bit taking care of him. I try my best to do most everything around the house, the only thing he has to do is take out the garbage. Which never get’s done. He just want’s to sit in front of the T.V or on the computer. Then we have the sex life. He seems to really think he’s making me happy, but it’s blah. I mean I usually try to avoid physical contact with him at this point. He says this hurts him, but he doesn’t understand how much he hurts me by constantly shutting me out.
Please someone help me out. How can I get the spark we once had back. I’ve tried reading books, being completely in tuned with his thought and hobbies nothing is working. He thinks everything is getting better but I’m the only one making an effort.
I should clarify that yes I have tried just sitting down and talking to him. We had a great heart to heart about 6 months ago. Then everything stayed the same. I realize marriage is not a game. It’s a lot of hard work. But is it to much to ask that everyone does a little work. I strongly believe in marriage and I really know he is the one im destined to be with. I just need help digging out of this rut we have hit
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