How would you react if your husband talked about his ex-wife like this in front of you (to his son)?
I have just met my husbands son (aged 25) for the first time, as he lives abroad and is visiting us on holiday.
While we were out with a group of friends he started talking to his son about his ex-wife (son’s mother) saying he hoped the son realises why he divorced the mother, and said part of it was that she only wanted sex every few months and then it had to be quick, and that he hoped she has changed and that she finds someone else (they have been divorced 4 years) – we have been married two years. The son told him it’s his life and that he shouldnt look back. (wise advise) Hubby said you need to look back to understand what went wrong. It made me feel strange he was talking like this to his son with me within earshot. I heard everything, but pretended I didnt. I am now uncomfortable that he is regretting leaving his ex and trying to get news about her from the son, seeing if she has changed, if she’s seeing anyone, etc….. What do you think – how should I handle this?
