My wife says she doesn’t want to be married anymore and that she is tired of doing everything for everyone else. She is pre menapausal and continues to do for others without regard for herself. I’m not confused, I just would like a good answer as to why women do this sort of thing?
We’ve been apart for over a month. We had a fight because I called her Mom a retard, but only as a joke. She took it personally and asked me not to do that again which annoyed me because she should know by now after being together 9 months that I mean no harm.
Last week she texted me to see if I was ok. I felt bad about the whole thing, but then she confronted me that she found out I lied about my age (I’m really 43 I was 41) and that I lied about having a facebook page. She said she thinks it’s real sketchy that I would tell her that I not on facebook when I really am.
I couldn’t really see the big deal in why she would be so concerned about that stuff. I apologized the next day anyway. Then two days later I texted her this, "I really do miss you…muah!" This was her response:
-I’m insulted that you kept me out of that part of your life. If you think that makes you so cool like you’re some kind of player, you need to get over yourself. Everyone else has his girlfriend on his facebook. I’m not the only one who thinks that’s sketchy. On the surface you acted like i was your girl but behind my back you were not devoted. How dare you not be devoted to me. Who do you think you are.
I can have any man I want. There are so many men who are just dying to worship the ground I walk on and serve me the world on a silver platter. I go out to the clubs and everyone worships me. I am honored and held in the highest regard where ever I step foot. I also know dam well that I am the best thing that will ever happen to you and I feel that the way you showed your appreciation was by sporting me to prove that you can have someone as hot as me.
I’m disgusted to think that I trusted you only to learn again that you cannot be trusted just like the last time you lied about not acting like a wanna be player on pof meanwhile, I’m the one that gave you all the confidence to even think that you were such an eligible bachelor.
Bottom line is that I deserve the best and I deserve a man who will commit his life to me will never want to risk the chance of losing me…and you say you miss me?
As much as I think its real sad that you think you need to act this way, I’m disgusted and right now I feel that our whole relationship was built on bullshit. I want someone who lives in the real world. I don’t know who can possibly think that what you’ve done is no big deal. It seems as if you don’t know the difference between right and wrong in some significant things and that is scary for you and for anyone who chooses to be with you.
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I now feel so dejected and I feel like a loser. How can I overcome this feeling?
We’ve been apart for over a month. We had a fight because I called her Mom a retard, but only as a joke. She took it personally and asked me not to do that again which annoyed me because she should know by now after being together 9 months that I mean no harm.
Last week she texted me to see if I was ok. I felt bad about the whole thing, but then she confronted me that she found out I lied about my age (I’m really 43 I was 41) and that I lied about having a facebook page. She said she thinks it’s real sketchy that I would tell her that I not on facebook when I really am.
I couldn’t really see the big deal in why she would be so concerned about that stuff. I apologized the next day anyway. Then two days later I texted her this, "I really do miss you…muah!" This was her response:
-I’m insulted that you kept me out of that part of your life. If you think that makes you so cool like you’re some kind of player, you need to get over yourself. Everyone else has his girlfriend on his facebook. I’m not the only one who thinks that’s sketchy. On the surface you acted like i was your girl but behind my back you were not devoted. How dare you not be devoted to me. Who do you think you are.
I can have any man I want. There are so many men who are just dying to worship the ground I walk on and serve me the world on a silver platter. I go out to the clubs and everyone worships me. I am honored and held in the highest regard where ever I step foot. I also know dam well that I am the best thing that will ever happen to you and I feel that the way you showed your appreciation was by sporting me to prove that you can have someone as hot as me.
I’m disgusted to think that I trusted you only to learn again that you cannot be trusted just like the last time you lied about not acting like a wanna be player on pof meanwhile, I’m the one that gave you all the confidence to even think that you were such an eligible bachelor.
Bottom line is that I deserve the best and I deserve a man who will commit his life to me will never want to risk the chance of losing me…and you say you miss me?
As much as I think its real sad that you think you need to act this way, I’m disgusted and right now I feel that our whole relationship was built on bullshit. I want someone who lives in the real world. I don’t know who can possibly think that what you’ve done is no big deal. It seems as if you don’t know the difference between right and wrong in some significant things and that is scary for you and for anyone who chooses to be with you.
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I now feel so dejected and I feel like a loser. How can I overcome this feeling?
First of all, I like playing mmorpg’s alot. Runescape, Runes of Magic, Rose online, maplestory, etc. I stopped playing all of them but I started runes of magic. ITs like WoW as people say, but i never played WoW and i dont plan on doing so.
I am not a game addict, but i regard myself as one. The only time i play games (mmorpg’s) is at night from 11:00p.m to 2:00p.m. If i were home alone, I would probably play all day. I’m sick and tired of this dumb habit. I understand that mmorpg’s like WoW and others mentioend above are a total waste of life. These games give absolutly nothing except for messing up peoples lives. I want to stop playing mmorpg’s totally. Playing these games is sort of what i do in my free time. 3 hours everyday. Its summer, so thats probably normal for most people. But for me its the same thing as playing 24/7. Can anyone help me, give advice, or motivation to stop playing games. I am going to make the first move by un-installing all games on my computer. I did this two times before but I downloaded other mmorpg’s after 6 months or so. Now I want to stop 100% and I am willing to do whatever it takes.
One thing I want someone to clearly explain to me is the point of playing these games. I want to know what good I gain from these games. I always ask myself, "why do I play this game?" I jsut want to stop for the rest of my life and I don’t want this habit to stick with me when I am in college.
Things I have been doing to stop this addiction is
"driving training". MY goal is to finish it as soon as possible and start driving with friends. Takes my mind of games.
Music- listening to music relaxes me. I only like listening to music when I am doing nothing, so this helps.
Reading stuff online (general knowledge/stuff i’m itnerested in: biology) news. I’m going to start reading about car parts so I can fix my own car.
Recently got a program called blender. (Not a game) I want to make small animations like Ice Age. You can make games with it, but i do not want to.
Working out: I can’t go to the gym, can’t drive yet, so i’m creating a workout plan for home: pushups, sit-ups, crunches, leglifts, weights, etc.
Is this a good start to get away from addiction to games?
Please help me in any way.
I married a really attractive, slender woman over 8 years ago. For the most part, she has always been an attentive and sweet woman…still is. Up until about 2 1/2 year ago, she was also athletic and HOT! I couldn’t keep my hands off her and the sex was great! She would often push me away because I could never get enough. I’d buy her cute clothes and lingerie and she really wans’t hard to look at. I got spoiled…
Since then, she has literally doubled in weight. I love her to death, but I just don’t have a physical attraction for her anymore. She always wants to have sex, but I’m not aroused due to the lack of physical attraction. So she feels rejected and is always upset because she feels I’m not showing her enough "affection."
When I try to get her to work out with me or even just play a game with me and the kids, she always says she is too tired. She is always telling me how sad and rejected she feels, but she never seems to have any regard for my feelings. What can I do?
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