My fiance and I have been together for 4 1/2 years we are supposed to get married 1 year from now. We have been fighting and arguing a lot lately, but towards the end she was always wanting to break up after the fight. Now we are broken up, but she says she needs time to think about things.
She is upset because she says I have taken her for granted which I have realized to be fairly true but have vowed to work on it and anything else necessary to make our relationship work.
This is the first time she has really brought it up to me that I can remember but she says she has tried to before. Right now nothing I can say is affecting her decision and I continue to wait wondering what she is going to decide, is there anything I can/should do to influence her decision or just wait it out?
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So basically whats going on is. Ive been together with my fiance for 6 mons and he just broke up with me 6 days ago. we’ve been friends for 2 years and we really liked each other so we decided to start dating and long after that got engaged. Everything seemed perfect he was caring and good to me and he had told me he really loved me.. Then i started noticing about 2 mons ago things started changing. He wouldnt call me or text me. He wouldnt make time to see me. i asked him whats wrong several times and he would say "nothing." I would ask him to go out with me and he would say he couldnt and then he would go to party with his friends. so i called him and told him i cant do this by myself. i cant make this relationship work with out you and he said ok i will try harder to make this work.. so it last about 2 days everything went to crap after that. he started doing the same things over again and i wouldnt hear from him for days. so i tried calling him and he wouldnt answer my calls.so i texted him and asked if he was ok? and he said text back and said yes and then he said i am going to sleep. I said ok but what is wrong? he texted me back and said " i dont love you anymore so stay the f*ck out of my life." I was shocked and i didnt know how to reply to this. i said ok. but know that i will always be there for you know matter what. and he said i dont care now leave me alone. I dont understand what has happened. how can someone just fall out of love with you? It’s been 6 days but its so hard to get over him and i cant get him off my mind. I miss how it use to be. He was the only one who has ever loved me or cared for me and he’s gone. How do you get over something like this? any advice? and does anyone know what might of happened? like if he has another girlfriend? please i need some answers on what to do. ? thank you!
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We’re both 13. And before our last break-up, I wasn’t showing him my true feelings cause I always felt shy around him.
But now that we’re back together, I’m gonna try to make our relationship work. What are some cute things/ways that I can do to show him that I love him?
○ For in school
○ For outside of school
Thanks for answering!
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Focus on one partner have tried so hard to make the relationship work, but the other one never realized. Finally, it cause too much heartache and one just have to move on without regret.
Or..
I did everything I could to save my first love.
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Will that relationship work? He went back, we didn’t exchanged anything bad the last time we talk. He says we’ll see what happens and see if my ex left the past behind.
They were apart for 13 mos. 6 mos out of that 13 I was with him. He kept saying I’m not over my ex yet, therefore I can’t get to another level with you, meaning that to make it known to everybody that we’re together now.
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