Clean up first!!! This is a long one!!!!! My Taurus ex told me everything, he admitted that he ran away from me because he didn’t want to pressure me into a committment after ( me) going through a divorce and becoming single again. We had a beautiful relationship and still do, only its platonic now. We remained friends through me going off and dating other guys to him living with someone. A chick from his past. He admitted to me that he made a huge mistake, he says he’s told her its not working out and he wants out. He says she threatened to break his things. He’s disguisted with so many things about her like, not cooking, not cleaning, always arguing with him, and he pays all the bills, has a great job and is a really good man. We both agreed that timing was bad for us then, but it gave us a chance to go back out into the world to explore, well, I never found another like him, and always hoped that he would come back to me, he was out trying to find somebody better and got a smack in the face! I’m not sitting and waiting for him but, my hopes are high and he says there is no way he, wants to waste anymore time with this girl, so he’s gonna wait til the lease is up so that she can’t break his things. He doesn’t want sex from me and hasn’t had sex with me in about 2 years. He says he knows he will be happy with me, he says "you’ll see, I want to take care of you and your kids" He kept saying that he wants to be with me and that I have sooo many great qualities and that he made a mistake, says he’s always loved me, just didn’t want me to resent him for pushing me into a relationship, says I’m the one he wants to live with and he even wants a baby. Now this all came out of this secretive, sensitive, masculine, well behaved, loyal, dedicated man’s mouth. In the 3 years I have known this man, he has never pured his feelings about me to me this way, he always witheld. He even admitted that he thought he had found somebody better than me, and admitted he was wrong. I’m more in love with him now!!! I told him how I appreciated his honesty and will give him the time he needs to handle his business. She seems to be doing a good job at keeping me on his mind! He says he’s just gonna let the lease end and she will have to make it on her own, he’s caring and he would’t put someone with no job out on the street. I respect the way he’s handling this situation because he’s not abusing me, nor is he disrespecting her. We are not having sex until they are not living together. We both agreed to that. We may meet up a couple times, but, I’m thinking about telling him to just wait, until the lease ends. I have his respect, his loyalty and his promises for now…….. How can I make this situation as comfortable as possible yet, nudge him to maybe come clean with this woman and tell her that he’s clearly in love with another woman( me). He’s stated how he feels bad for being with her knowing he’s thinking about me and in love with me. He bought me engagement ring when we were dating but, it was too soon for me and we never ended on bad terms, never argued. He says I taught him so many things and I am the one he wants to be with. He was put under pressure to move her in because she lost her job and all, he says that she’s not ambitious like I am. This man described so many things that he loves about me, that I had no idea he even recognized. I believe this man and I know it takes a real man to be honest. He held onto me for 2years after our breakup, I am not desperate, I am very confident, beautiful, intelligent, and just know what I want. I just gotta be patient. Has any other woman dealt with this type of situation, or simular, and how did it work out? I don’t need any negetive feedback, I not asking what anyone thinks, I’m asking what the experience has been, so please refrain from wasting your time if you’re not intelligent enough to respect other people’s situation.
He didn’t come off as fake to me, he explained himself as caring about me and my feelings, not being able to look at me without lying to me, he cared too much too hurt me and didn’t want to lose me, obviously he had a feeling he mad a mistake, and I am an Aries, I am forgiving and with him I have learned patience so, I accept the truth wheher it hurts or not but, thanks for the comment
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I don’t need any comments on here telling me anything nasty. I’ve heard it all before and I don’t need anyone to call me names or tell me about my lack of morals. TRUST ME I KNOW. I have been in a relationship with a married man for about 6 months. Well I never intended to stay with him and have tried many times to end the relationship. Well anyways he is married to his wife of 10 yrs and we have discussed that he will never leave her. This I know and am ok with. They have a 2 yr old son and she is currently pregnant again. Well recently we found out that I am also expecting. At first he threatened me with suicide and after I lectured him about maturity and responsibility he came the realization that this is OUR problem and not just mine. He jokes about the baby having more of his genes and talks about how he hopes it’s a girl and everything. Well we recently ended out "relationship" sexually a couple weeks ago since he wants to try and be faithful. This I respect, I am not the first girl he cheated with but I can be the last. Well anyways we still talk on the phone and he tries to get sexual on the phone which always ends up in us having a sexual encounter. I need to leave him alone and move on and find a better man. He is 10 yrs my senior and married…I want to not love him anymore but it is hard. I’m having his baby and I don’t know what that is going to do to his life except ruin it. I need to find a way to stop wanting and needing him. WHAT DO I DO?
I was hanging out with a cute single successful guy that was totally into me, but all I was doing was thinking about my baby daddy and wishing he was there. I even paid someone money to take me to the next state to see him for two days! I have gone on two trips with him, one lasting as long as 18 days! I need help! I have to stop my obsession…what do I do??? Go to therapy? Listing all the things about him that are bad doesn’t help…I feel bad because if I feel the way I do about him, I can’t imagine how his wife feels and I don’t want to take him from her. PLEASE HELP WITH ANY POSITIVE ADVICE!!!
ok so me and my ex bf dated for six months and he was the sweetest,funniest guy ive ever met and hes kinda nerdy but i love that about him…we had some fights in the last few months but i thought we were okay..but then he sent me a text saying we cant go out anymore because he cant be in a relationship where he doesnt act like himself ..i still dont get what he means by that bcuz i loved his normal self and never asked him to change or nething and ppl told me that mayb he wanted more freedom or watever but he really did have plenty of that …then the day we came back from the weekend hes already flirting with another girl but she is a huge **** .and totally not his type and hes just going to get hurt but he says he likes her and everything but found out shes a big flirt but he wont give up on her …its been about 3 weeks since we broke up and ive started getting over him a little bit .i tried liking other guys but the guy i did like asked out sumone a week ago soo tht made me feel worse ..me and my ex are trying to be friends and it is really working but my feelings for him are more than friends and i want soo much to get back together with him and im not some desperate ex gf who just wants to get back with him ..i just still have a ton of feelings for him ..i tell everyone im over him and i guess i thought i would make myself believe it too but i cant ..everytime i see him in the hallway i wish i was there right next to him but then it really doesnt help bcuz hes always talking to girls now which never happened before he dated me..which confuses me alot bcuz he never was a flirt he was shy and sweet …im sorry about how long this is but im soo stressed and confused ..i act like im happy and carefree around my friends but at night idk im just kinda sad and depressed..(plus my dog died a week ago which has sumthing to deal with that) please can sumone tell me how to get him to start liking me again and dont say u cant make sumone like you..i just want tips on how to do it and please dont say to try the exbackguides because i dont want to buy that thing …PLEASE help me im tired of feeling like this
I am in a happy, stable (semi open) marriage with my man. He allows me to date women. We have been together 10 years. He and I recently met/got to slightly know a woman who is SPECTACULAR! Since the minute we both met her (and each separately the first time) we conected with her on many levels, and she was very flirty with us sep and then together when we met up together. We both got an immediate bi or lesbian vibe from her. But then we found out she was married but yet she continues to exude a flirtatiousness with mostly me the woman. (less with him now) Soon we will be meeting HER husband as well and will be hanging out as a couple. I don’t think they are swingers but I can almost bet SHE is at least bi (or closeted). I am SOOOO attracted to her that I burst out of my skin when I think of her!!! And when she was in my presence those few times, I got the same kind of energy from her that she also loves being in my presence! I am almost certain I am not mistaken with these vibes, I am also pretty sure she knows I am bi bc its openly on my myspace profile as such and we are friends on there. We are going to start hanging out as 2 couples soon, and though I am happy to be ‘just friends’ with the couple, my crush will always shine thru I fear. How, if, or when should I tell or show her I am attracted to her? At some point I don’t mind risking rejection if I do make a move and she declines. Because I know we and I could still be friends even with the humiliation of being rejected lol, but she is SO worth the chance to find out! Last time we hung out with her, she was excited about drinking wine together. If we have wine again, and she continues to be flirty, and I continue to be attracted, should I use the wine to my advantage lol…! And how do I make a move? Ask first or try to be a little affectionate and see what happens? In the meantime, I can’t stop thinking about her. My husband thinks its so cute… I am lucky to have the relationship I have with him and I will never leave my man. But this woman is literally ONE in a million and I would love to nurture whatever special relationship/friendship I can with her. And, where does her hubby fit in all this? Also, I am in my 30s the woman in her late 40s thanks!
Not everyone views marriage as YOU people do. 65% of people cheat on their spouses. I really hoped that someone with an OPEN mind could have answered my question properly instead of judge me. And for the first 2 responders, for your info, we have brought other people in before with nothing but bliss and fun for all… you should try it sometime! 
My ex-girlfriend has called me and said that she wants to be with her current boyfriend more than she wants to be with me. She knows I love her, but she wants to see how this relationship with her new boyfriend will turn out. I know that I need to move on with my life, but I can’t stop loving her and thinking of all the good (and bad) times we shared…Deep down, I want a second chance with her. i know there’s no way of telling the future, but is it possible that time can bring us back together? How do you give up someone you loved (and loved you) for so long? Will time destroy my desire for her or make it stronger?
Here’s a long story.
Dated my best friend for three years starting freshman year. Last couple months have been rocky – I picked fights over everything accidentally, but still didn’t stop. We talked last Sunday about being sad in the relationship because no one is budging, and I suggested since he seemed so doubtful about what to do, that we should break up. To my surprise, he didn’t deny it as he usually would (with him or with another partner, never again will I try the reverse psychology…no games). I begged him Sunday night thru Tuesday night, and eventually he went from being nice about it to telling me he fell out of love with me and that he was unwilling to work on the relationship and he didn’t want it. Of course I’m devastated. Well that was Tuesday, where he also said he didn’t miss me. It had only been two days at that point and I know he’s been under a lot of stress, and he thinks that this will fix our problem – running away from it. He said he wants to be friends (the classic line to soften the blow) but I don’t want that, but now I can’t fight it. So I’m going along with it, and Friday he sees me and comes up to me at school and hugs me, then goes on to say, "Oooh girl you smell good." It’s like why would he do that? Then Friday night I go out with my friend and shop. Saturday he texts me saying good morning, much like a friend WOULDN’T do. That’s not just friendly at all. He stopped doing that when we were dating even months ago, and probably around the same time he claimed he fell out of love. Then all day he texted me, asking me what I did Friday night, who I went with, where I went, what I bought, what I was doing Saturday, where I was going, and who I was going with. He NEVER did that before when we were dating. Why now? Why is he complicating this? He said he wants friends but it’s not just friendly talk. He’s not being sexual but it’s not always strictly being sexual that makes a relationship. Then Sunday he didn’t talk to me at all. He’s hot and cold! He had told me before that he didn’t like how I acted, but he was never as explicit to why until it was too late. But I feel like he’s fighting with himself on his decision. A lot of our mutual friends are ambushing him asking him what’s the deal, and now he’s shutting even his best guy friend out about it. I think he needs time to figure things out once his obligations quiet down and he gets to think about what’s going on, but can someone tell me what’s going through his mind? He’s not trying to be friends in a good way because if I need to move on I will, but I can wait for him. I just won’t wait forever, and he can’t put me through this heartache of trying to figure him out. He even had said that he wants our friendship to be natural, and if it comes back to being together, then it does, but we shouldn’t force it. It seems like he’s forcing it to stay friendly at times even when he feels like he wants more. That’s also not natural if he is falling slightly for me again…he’s fighting himself. I wish I could get him to listen to his heart and not just his head. I don’t want to fight either but I can’t show him that we won’t fight unless we’re together. Friends don’t just fight for no reason – couples fight because of couple problems. Help…how can I show him that we should be together by being his friend?
*I have evaluated my issues and our issues and they’re just a matter of dealing with problems better, not lashing out for stupid things. I just want to to prove to him that this can work – but I want to know how to make it to that point. He said he loves me but isn’t in love with me, so there’s that love there. I think he’s scared to get back into it and be hurt, but I want to show him that being with me or having an us doesn’t have to be painful – it shouldn’t hurt.
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I went out with this guy in Aug. 2009, and we had two very nice dates. On the second date he took me to his best friend’s house where I also met his brother and sister. After the date, he alluded to staying over, and I declined. He emailed me once and called me once after with excuses why he couldn’t further pursue the relationship…lack of funds and the 2 hour drive could be too much. I told him I was willing to come up also, but I still didn’t hear from him. There’s nearly a 20 year age difference, but I’m attracted to his intelligence and how he thinks.
So, today (5 months later), he emails me the following:
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Hi ___! You probably didn’t expect to hear from me, but this is _____ in New York. Sorry for not keeping in touch. I was so swamped with various projects (conference presentations, teaching, job applications) dramas (death of my father in November) and travel (Korea in late November) that I have had really no time for socializing or romance. Now I am less stressed and more alive again. Possible to meet again?
I hope you are well.
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Should I even consider seeing him again?
PS – I’ve noticed on the dating website that we met on that he logs on.
Thanks,
WannaKnow
Can anyone answer me this: How do I get my girlfriend back?
My girlfriend dumped me over a stupid mistake (it wasn’t cheating) plus she felt as though our relationship was getting to serious for high school. Sadly I did the worst thing possible and acted a bit desperate after she dumped me. How do I get her back? I am currently ignoring her seeing if that works, do you think it will?
I don’t want answers that just say just get over her, I am doing my best to get over her, but my question is how do I get her back? and so be it, if there are none then I will have to just get over her.
To anyone who look a year or more to get over a failed relationship, how do you look back at it now?
I would appreciate anyone answering this who has taken a very long time to get over a failed relationship or marriage. How do you view what happened now, when you look back at the relationship and the break-up? I would especially like to hear how you feel about the aftermath, the year or so that you took recovering from it, do you feel you wasted part of your life or did you need to go through it, did you learn something from it all? Was there an outcome for you, is your life better or worse and how do you feel about the person who hurt you? Do you pity them or do you feel nothing at all for them? Sorry for all the questions but I would just like to know how you feel about the situation, looking at it in hindsight? Thank you to anyone who answers.
We’ve had a pretty roller coaster relationship for about 5 years. I’d even call it emotionally abusive in the sense that he was withholding, jealous, and controlling. During our long distance phase he refused to visit me at all (he’s visited me once in all of our 5 years together) and often yelled at me if i accidentally called him at a bad time or would act annoyed that he had to call me.
At the time I thought that was about as good as it could get for me, so I stayed with him, though we’d break up and get back together constantly.
I broke up with him about 6 months ago because I couldn’t take his crappy treatment anymore. I’m currently dating someone else.
The thing is, my ex and I talked a LOT since we broke up, nearly every day (he’d call me). It wasn’t until I started dating this guy that I kind of stopped picking up his calls or calling him back. Usually my ex wouldn’t care but apparently he suddenly decided he wanted me back (again) and started doing his whole guilt tripping emo thing by telling me he wasn’t going to call me anymore so if i wanted to talk to him i had to call him.
I’d call him periodically every few days but he ended up getting super pissed a week later off about this lack of calling and threw a hissy fit, txting me things like “you aren’t worth my time” and “i’m done with people like you”. I’m not sure what his emotional status is right now but he drove down with some friends to where I’m going to school right now and wanted to “spend the night” at my place, to which i told him to gtfo.
ANYWAYS TLDR:
I’m so sick of this vicious cycle. What’s the best way to tell your ex that you just want to be friends without him going apeshlt? I’d prefer not to tell him about this current guy right now in his current state because a) he’ll be horrible about it and b) i don’t even feel like i have an obligation to tell him because he’s never been honest to me about other girls.
My bf and I have been dating now for a month. He’s really sweet and has made it extremely clear that he thinks he’s head over heels for me. However, I don’t share these feelings. To be honest, I don’t feel that there’s much of a click in the relationship.
As far as romance, he’s a dream, but I have a hard time keeping a causal “how was your day?” conversation flowing. I keep intending to do a gentle break-up (I don’t want to hurt his feelings, but I don’t want to mislead him), but everytime that I’m about to, he does some utterly sweet and romantic thing that makes me feel horrible about it.
For example, I got home from work and was going to give him a call to discuss it, but then I found out that he’d sent me a bunch of messages on AIM in the form of love poetry…I’ve tried giving him a second chance, but just don’t feel a connection.
How can I end this relationship without giving him heartache? He’s done just about everything but ask me to marry him, and I’m so stuck! I hate the idea of hurting such a wonderful guy’s feelings, but I know it will be worse if I wait much longer..
Random: The sad part…he actually does remind me of a one of the wolves that’s imprinted or something…I now understand Bella more than I bargained for (even though Jake didn’t imprint on her, you know what I mean).
Oh, AND he makes it even harder because he calls me “love” like Edward does to Bella, and he’s even quoted Edward before…he’s just too good of a romantic!!
Tips for making up with your ex
If you’ve just been through a breakup, youre probably wondering, “what can I do to get my ex boyfriend back?” at least several times a day.
Every relationship is different, so every break up is different. But there are some things you can do to help get him back. Be nice. That might go without saying, but some people think nagging your ex is the best way to get what they want. Its not. If you nag, complain or act unpleasant, you’re just reminding him of things he wants to get away from.
If you make things uncomfortable every time you see your ex boyfriend, he’ll just try to avoid you even more. The last thing you want to do is drive him farther away. Take time for yourself. This is best done by breaking off contact with your ex-boyfriend for a while.
Instead of thinking about the relationship, you can focus on ways to improve your own personal life. You may find that your ex is going to experience a shift in how he feels about you, since you will no longer be pursuing him. You may become mysterious to him in some ways, because he is not sure what you are doing or feeling.
Now your ex is in a position to actually miss you, which is not possible when you are smothering him. This is actually something that can work in your favor.
Read more about getting your ex-boyfriend back here.
My BF and I have know each other for 14 yrs. We had a life together for a short while and went our own way. Six years after our breakup, he calls me again and we eventually reignite the romance. Well, much into the relationship, I discover he has a drug problem. It later escalated and he lost control of the situation.
Unfortunately, by then, I discovered I was pregnant. Because I loved him, I continued to support him, while he supported his habit. Perpetually waiting for him to change. Well, our son was born and nothing ever did. I eventually kicked him out.
He hit rock bottom and ended up in prison. Having reflected for 6 mos., he claims to have seen the light and begs for a second chance. I gave it to him. I can’t shake the fear that he will go back to his old routine. He has had a few slip ups since he got out but, has been working steady and supporting his son. I do love him, but, I love my kids more. I just hate the feeling that I am taking my baby’s father away from him.
He is trying harder than he has in 2+ years to stay in our lives but, I just can’t shake the trust thing. Should I give it more time and see if he stays on the right path? Should I give in to my gut feeling and leave him? I just can’t re-live the nightmare but, I don’t want make a hasty decision that my son may hold against me one day.
He is legally separated from his wife of over 10 years. They together have children, but she left him and moved to the other side of the country while he was serving in Iraq.
I have known this guy for almost 20 years since we went to HS together. It was only until he was divorced, that we actually met in person again after all of that time.
His ex-wife is extremely jealous of me now that things aren’t working out with the man that she ran away with.
I have never met her, but she has this opinion that the only reason my boyfriend won’t return to her is because of me.
That is not the case, however, he feels extremely betrayed that he left him like she did and was cheating while he was fighting in Iraq.
She is constantly on his case with him that he must leave our relationship and enter back into theirs (which was apparently miserable), because they are still technically “married” and they have children.
By the way, she ran away with this guy 18 months ago, and my boyfriend was in Iraq for around 15 months. He isn’t sure when the affair happened,.
Even though she wants me out of his life, I do have compassion for her. I know how she must feel, but yet she hates me.
I love my boyfriend and would do anything for him. We have been together shortly after this thing happened between them two. I moved across state to “help” him cope after his loss.
He doesn’t want to get back with her and will never, yet, she is still tugging on him constantly.
Anyone have any ideas of what he should tell her… I don’t want to get involved “talking” to her, because it would just make matter worse.
I feel bad for my boyfriend (and even her too)… there are times though, that he doesn’t want to answer the phone calls from her… she is constantly begging to be rescued from the situation she put herself in and vents her problems to him.
She has basically hung herself (caused herself all of her problems) and wants him to cut the rope…
Has anyone had your ex boyfriend girlfriend wanting to get back together with u?
My ex is sometimes thinking about getting back together i sometimes miss him too but i met a new guy. My ex was the 1st guy i’ve ever dated if i went back with him i wouldn’t have the chance to date other guys.
There were some frusturations (i spelled that wrong lol) in our relationship it was his idea to end it he wanted a break when i didn’t. I thought things were getting better until he eventually ended it completely. If i went back with him we may go through the difficulties that we had before.
I loved him but he wasn’t always reliable. I say i shall give this new guy a chance he may be a better boyfriend.
Recovering from a broken heart is a tough task, i know, but are there any ways that i can heal my hurt and start living again?
So we are friends. At first I was fine with that, until he offered to marry me to come to his country (he is Australian and I am in the US). The reason why he’s told me that is because I said i was thinking of moving there because it’s a really nice country. But he only offered because he said he would marry anyone who wanted to come to this country kind of like a mail order bride. But he said that he would not be emotionally involved or honor any vows.
It’s not so much that he wants to do this but more so because he even offered me. I told him no.. I feel so hurt that he would even think of me as such…
Now he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me (he never wanted to be in a relationship with anyone before me and he says I am the first he’s ever fallen for).
He only wants to be my friend because he says I am the first person he is ever been so close with. I know more about him and his past than anyone he’s ever known.
This explains our whole situation:
I need advice and BIG help please.
My boyfriend broke up with me two days ago. For two weeks I knew something was wrong. The first week, every time I looked in his eyes I saw that he had love for me. But his actions were changing. He didn’t feel as close to me. The second week I wasn’t able to see him because we didn’t have school that whole week. And I was scared because I knew I wouldn’t talk nor see him.
But when he broke up with me, he said loved and that I was perfect. But he doesn’t know whats going on with himself. I even said I could help him and were in a relationship and we get through this. We’ve never had a fight before and I think this situation could be handled. I’m trying to refrain from talking to him, but I can’t help it. I sent him a text, explaining the situation and how I don’t think he should give us up. He didn’t reply and I didn’t persist on bugging him.
He told me that he’s messed up in the head right now and doesn’t know what to do. We’ve only been together four months. And all his relationships lasted at least a month or less but he wasn’t on fault. They broke up with him and I’ve had one other relationship that lasted four years. He’s been my friend for awhile. We weren’t close like best friends, but we were friends. And now being with him was the happiest day of my life. There wasn’t a second I was sad with him and he was the same. He told me that I’m the girl he’s been waiting for and how he’s mad that he didn’t see me sooner. That he’s happy with me and he wants us to last because he loves me. And I wanted the same! I was going to do whatever I could to keep that. Four months sounds short, but it’s longer than you think. I fell for that boy fast. . and I’m sure it’s meant for us to be together. I never had this connection with anyone else before. But ever since he joined the play(He’s usually a techi), but he finally got casted. This is our senior year and I was proud of him. But unfortunately he didn’t have time for me and he was drifting. I have a feeling he’s distracted with school and the play, college, etc. Since our drama teacher takes lives away, until the play is over. Hah.
My friend told me he told her, that he was losing feeling and that he didn’t know what to do. We use to hang out a lot but when the play started I hardly ever saw him. So that changed and I think that’s why it feels different for him.
But how can I get him back?
We had this connection and the break up was out of no where. I’m 18 and I know what I’m talking about for once in my life, I want no one but him and I’m willing to make it work.
Do you think this could be temporary? I want to show him that I want to be with him and that I love him. I don’t want to pretend, I want him to see. But I want to refrain from texting him a lot. . .but show that I can be his friend too. . . Guys! If you broke up with your girl because you’re stressed and you don’t think you have time for her? But she wanted you back and was willing to make it work? What would go through your mind? Do you think if he has these strong feelings for me, that he’ll want me too? I don’t doubt it and I’m not in denial either.
Sorry for making it long! But I need serious help, it sucks.
ok so i have to write an essay on: are todays famous people good role models for young people
so this is wat i have can anyone help me edit it and use proper grammer
Today’s famous people are not a good role model for young people because there doing inappropriate things like plastic surgery, bad relationship, and are on too many bad diets. Young people should look up to people like Raven Simon, Oprah Winfrey, and Barrack Obama.
On of the most terrible thing that celebrities do now days is plastic surgery. People like Ashley Simpson, Mickey Rourke, Michael Jackson, Pamela Anderson, and Jessica Simpson have done much plastic surgery and now they look unappealing. Plastic surgery make people look fake, unnatural and make them lose there respect. Plastic surgery has some side effects like disfigurement, illness, infection, and birth defect. This is why it’s not good to do them. Many famous people are obsessed with plastic surgery so they are considered as a bad role model.
Bad relationship is another big thing today. Famous people like to have boy/girl friends but they are not too smart about there decisions. They often make mistake and choose people who are rich and good looking. Most famous people are abusive, sexual, and are not honest. Some example of bad relationship would be Pamela Anderson /Tommy Lee, Charlie Sheen/Denise Richards, and Rihanna /Chris brown.
Bad diets are another big thing today with famous people. Diets like Jenny Craig, Herbal Magic system, my fit, and fit for life often has side effect like gaining weight, gas, throwing up, and stomach ache. It is better not to take these diets. To maintain a healthy fit body its better to eat healthy and exercise. Most celebrities often starve them self and end up with a bad illness.
Young people should look up to teachers and family members as their role models. So as you can see famous people are not a good role model for young people because they do plastic surgery, have bad relationship, and are on too many bad diets
So I broke up with him, because I couldn’t take any more of him ignoring me. Not in the sense of him not answering my calls or anything, but more like no romance. I understand that chivalry is somewhat dead, but even still, I felt nothing from him. I didn’t feel that he wanted me, that he cared about me, that i deserved anything. I try and talk to him about what im feeling, but he brushes me off as "moody" or "making a big deal out of nothing". he understands that we have had a major communication problem for the majority of our relationship, to the point where we would sit for hours with nothing to say. He knows everything about me, my past, my secrets, everything, yet I hardly know anything about him. I’m still struggling to figure out who I am, but he knows me well enough to actually want to care about me. in contrast, i am afraid of going to him when there is a problem, because even though he has told me that he wont do anything to me, im still afraid. i don’t know him.
he wants me to be happy, to the point that i have to tell him everything. i don’t know what i want for breakfast, how am i supposed to know what makes me happy. but still, if i want something, he would get/do it. and that annoys me, because to me, it seems like he doesn’t want to make my life easier by just getting/doing it, but waits until i tell him. everyone knows that all girls presents, yet i have to tell him to get something for me for my birthday, for valentines day. he says he can change and give him a second chance. but know one changes that fast. and why do people have to change to make a relationship work, why is it that people cant fall in love with someone just as they are, with their flaws, and faults, and imperfections. im hurt that he doesn’t understand any of this. but it doesn’t stop it from hurting.
ok i just Finale moved on from a 4yr Relationship & im 19 so i been dating her since i was 15 & its been on a off & on & we broke up in 2008…& a couple days ago my dudes girl friend Hooked me up with Her Friend….& so we met face to face & i made her laugh..& then after all the questions were done it just got plain & stale & quite & im looking around & you know how it is when your watching a Dating show on VH1 take For the Love of Ray J & you know how he trys to make conversation & the girls just sit there that’s How it was & they may say a Few Words.. that’s how it was after a while & my boy & his girl was like Why y’all so quite & i just looked at her…& it seems like there No Connection with me & this new chick now i kinda wanna make this Thing work
& last Night i dreamed about My Ex Girl Friend & im wondering do i still Have Feelings for her
& I Havent talked to my ex since The Day After Thanks Giving, & havent seen her since septemeber since her & her family moved & i havent Texted her Since last month on December 3rd
& on Sum days I’ll Play Chris Brown’s Graffiti Cd & listen to So Cold or I Need this or Crawl
I Need this is About him needing his Space its a Real gud Song
Damn,I want my baby back
It’s so cold without her
Cold without her
She’s gone
Now I’m alone, no one to hold on
Cause she was the only one
And I know I was dead wrong
But if you u u
If you u u
See her sooonn
Ask her will she forgive me
If you ever see her
If you ever meet her
If you ever get a chance to sit down and talk to her
Then tell her it’s so cold
It’s so cold, it’s so cold
Here without her
And tell her I miss her
Tell her I need her
Tell her I want her
I really want her to come back home, back to keep me warm
Tell her I’m sorry, I’m really sorry
Can you forgive me?
Please forgive me
And come back home, keep me safe and warm
He’s Torn Between Leaving And Staying:
My boyfriend and I broke up less than two days ago. I love him more than anything in the world, but I made our relationship very difficult because of my emotional instabilities.
I will do anything to get him back.
I am going to counseling to deal with my issues (they apply to my life in general, not just to my relationship with him), I’m reading self-help books, and I’m giving him as much space and time as he needs. I’m not forcing him to come back, but I hope more than anything that he does.
There really is no one else for me, and I think that I can really make him happy once I become a better person. But I want to be a better person not just for him, but for myself, for everyone else I love.
How can I convince him to give me another chance? He loves me dearly, I know. He told m yesterday (he sought me out himself) that he’s miserable without me, but the thought of getting back together doesn’t make him happy either, because I hurt him so much. He hugged me for half a minute, kissed me very passionately, told me he loved me, and then said “I shouldn’t have done that.”
He’s torn between leaving and staying, and I just want him to stay, to just give me another chance to make him happy like he made me happy.
I’m leaving him completely alone so that he can make a decision on his own. I’m trying to exemplify the person I’m promising to be in the future by being supremely kind, understanding, and emotionally stable. I’m a determined person, and I really can change. Not just for his happiness, but for my own.
I even wrote a letter to him explaining how committed I am to making us work, how even if he chooses not to stay, I’ll find a way to repay him for the wonderful things he’s done to me, that I’ll love him forever (I haven’t sent it to him yet. Don’t know if I should).
But is there a way to convince him to stay, to give me a chance to make him happy? Am I doing the right thing now? I don’t want to push him, because I want him to be happy and secure in his decision. But can I convince him somehow without pushing him?
Oh and we’ve had some fantastically good times, too. We both know this. He’s just overwhelmed at the moment by the not-so-good ones. All I can think about are the happy times, and how I want to make them happen again.
Any advice for me?
I’ve been married for ten years. The last five have been difficult and my husband asked me to date others- after faking a relationship for a year I finally met someone- and our romance grew. After 9 months I thought it was time to leave my marriage but I find that I am holding back from committing with my boyfriend. Now after 3 months of seperation, during which my estranged husband was wonderful and understanding- everything he wasnt when we were together- he has asked for a second chance after he has determined that I have second thoughts about the BF. This is my question. Husband for ten years- knows me the best- wonderful father- excellent provider- who basically gave me away. Boyfriend- excellent lover-positive &socially active as I like to be-with clinginess and maybe not as intelligently inclined as I would like. I care for them both very much. But im thinking of my children and my future. Husband is stable we have a home- boyfriend is a renter and needs to quit smoking.help
I know its weird! Trust me I didnt think he was serious- at first it was a fantasy that later got stronger for the real thing- which is why I faked it for a year that I was with someone else. He now says it was the worst mistake to ever share me. I agree its weird- im not asking you to chose- maybe im asking whats the best way to chose and what I should consider. and you are probably right- maybe I should be alone first and figure out what I need to do for myself before involving other lives.
