I dated my gf for about a year and we were supposed to get married this winter. However, I ended up cancelling the wedding for several some reasons that I thought would become big issues in the future: 1) she’s very close to her family and makes me feel like I will always be second best, 2) she’s vegetarian and expects me not eat meat at home if her parents/relatives are over – this means no BBQs, no family parties where I can have meat, etc., 3) she’s passive aggressive – keeps bringing up stuff even if we might have discussed them before to see if she’s get her way yet once more – this annoys the crap out of me, 4) she has a lot of beliefs about proper etiquette – when we were dating, she wanted me to pay for every dinner right from the beginning, which i did, but not once did she insist on picking up the whole check (my ex-GF couldn’t care less who paid for the dinner, but she does) …anyway, we cancelled our wedding.

I’m now feeling completely confused. I’m in my mid-30s and feel like I don’t have the energy to chase girls any more. Any girls I was ever "ga-ga" about didn’t want to go out with me, or gave me stupid mixed signals or were already taken. It’s now getting worse – I haven’t been going out in awhile and recently skipped a birthday party because some of my gf’s friends were attending (and I knew they’d ask about us). I’m just getting sick of the whole dating thing. Feel like I kinda blew my personal life. I should have started early and tried to grab a good looking, easy going, genuine, fun girl. It seems like a total long-shot now.

How do I shake this feeling? Did i over-react and cancel the wedding? Have people cancelled their wedding in their mid-30s and then come back and made it? There’s a big part of me that wants to reconcile, but I’m also very confused. Any idea what I should do – I know it’s ridiculous to ask a forum, but would love any words of advice. Thanks very much.



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some call to ask you when the wedding will take place, how do you explain to them that the engagement is broken? Do you feel ashamed or hurt to tell them that it didnt work out?


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First, a little background history: My wife and I started young. We were engaged young, married young, and started our family young. And despite the odds and the nasty comments from relatives, we managed to not “end up in a trailer home” (in quotes because this was one of the aforementioned comments from a relative.

We did good for ourselves. We bought our first home, started our own business and then because of the business, sold our first home and moved into a bigger one that had space for our business.

Well, the economy took a crap and so did our business. Then we were stuck in a too-big home with a too-big mortgage that the business was no longer paying half of. So I got a weekend job. It was hard at first, but we managed. Then I began hating my full-time job. I’m miserable there.

So I applied to a college and began attending classes every weeknight in the evenings so that I can get into a career I love. It’s been about three years since that decision. Well, my wife is miserable.

She is a stay-at-home mom who is also attending school full-time, but everything of hers is online so it doesn’t interfere with her being home with the kids. In the beginning, she was in full support of my going back to school but now she makes comments sometimes like when I have to study and she wants to plan a family thing…”of course you have to study, etc.”

She says things like she’s tired of being the one waiting at home for the other. She’s tired of when she’s had a terrible day with the kids that she doesn’t have a partner who comes home in the evening so she can get out and re-coup. She hates that the boys are being jipped out of a family dinner each night. She also says that me being gone all the time is affecting how she mothers, her patience is wearing thinner and she’s constantly stressed out because there’s no start and end to her “workday.”

Then we fight because I ask her how she thinks I feel…I’m working full-time, going to school and then working another 12 hours over the weekend. I tell her to wait it out, that our situation will get better but she says by then she’s afraid she’ll have too much resentment. We’re trying to sell our house. I’ll be graduating in a year. She is almost finished with school. But I can’t get her to see that it will all be coming to an end soon.

She always uses the line “what if I’m dead by then?” (she started using this line after her friend was killed in a car accident about 9 months ago.) She says when the house sells, we should go our separate ways, but I can’t see how that could be better than our current situation.

What can I do? Are we past saving?

When it’s good, it’s reallllly good but then she gets into moods where she just resents everything I do.

I don’t know what to do, I don’t want to lose her but I can’t change our situation.


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This is my short film story n it is called Delhi 1992. . Plz read it n tell me is it nice . .?

It is set in delhi in a chawl an all muslims stay there in neighbourhood. . . . .

The landlord of the chawl stays there with her wife and a daughter named sakina, she is 22yr old n very introvert girl very simple wears salwar kurta, doesnt shout to anyone, her father’s health always remains bad so she alays colects money from the people staying on rent. . .

And a man called shaukat is also staying on rent there, shaheen luvs shaukat very much but she never said to him, wenever she goes to his room she starts cleaning the house coz he was bachelor n had a mess in house. . .Shaukat knows that shaheen loves him. . .

One day wen she comes to his house shaukat asks her why she helps him in everythng everytime, but she keeps quiet, shaukat holds her from back n tels her that he loves him, she smiles n runs. . .
So 4m then wenever she comes to his rooms he tries getting closer but she doesnt like it n one day wen he forcefuly kisses her she slaps him n he gets very angry . . . . .4m that day he never talks with her n avoids her, she starts feeling bad but couldnt do anything else. . . .

Finaly 1day wen her parents were went to their relatives house she was alone at home. . .She goes to him to say sorry n cries 4 that she slapped him now again he tries cuming closer she again wanted to push him but she could’nt do it n at that night they make out. . .

She gets up early next day n he says he has to go to his village 4 sum days, so she says cum back soon, and he goes. . . .
1month later. . . .

Shaheen cums back 4m college n as she enters her mom tells her that shaukat has came back go and meet him, she bcomes very happy n runs to his house n as she enters she again starts cleaning the room n shaukat was sleeping there she goes near him, she was gona touch him but suddenly a voice comes 4m back “hey who r u” shaukat gets up hurily an as shaheen turns back there was a women, it was shaukats wife he got married as shaheen learns that she runs back home crying. . .

The next day she sees shaukat alone at home she goes inside n asks him why he did it with her n he says that his family forcefully made him to marry her n he stil loves shaheen, he convinces her n tells him that dont worry we will run togeather 4m the house n they hug n shaukat’s wife sees that hugging she runs n starts beating shaheen, pulls her hairs n pulls her legs n shouts “u want to steal my husband 4m me” n abuses her n takes shaheen to her parents by pulling her hairs n tells her parents that if shaheen meets my husband again then i wil kill her. . .

The next day shaheen decides that she will tell shaukat wife everythng n she even tells her but shaukat’s wife doesnt believe n agains starts abusing her n tells her to get out. . . . .After sumtime she again comes there n b4 entering she hears shaukat talking with his wife that “shaheen is very rich they hav so much money n i hav told her to tak the money n the gold so that we can run 4m there and as she cumes with money i wil take it n run 4m there n u beat her 4m back” n they both start laughing. . .Shaheen hears al this n goes back to home n starts crying loudly 4 wat hapend to her n shaukat used her, she starts crying louldly n after sumtime shaukat cals her to ask weather she is coming or not n she says yes i am coming. . .

At night she takes they money n breaks the door n goes at the place where he was waiting 4m her it was an underconstruction building. . .She comes n gives the money to him n as he starts looking at the money he beats him on head with a wood piece that she picks 4m there and shaukat’s wife comes runing to beat shaheen but as shaheen gives her a slaps she falls down n shaheen goes to see shaukat he puls her legs n falls her down n starts beating on her stomach n her back with his legs n picks the money n starts going but shaheen hits him on head non stop shouting n crying n stil hiting him n she cuts his head into pices with an axe n he dies n she sits there, after sum time shaukat’s wife opens her eyes n watches that her husand has died very badly n shaheen is sitting there laughing on her, shaukat’s wife picks the axe to kill shaheen but just then the cops cume there n watches her holding the axe n stop her, n they think she has killed her husband in anger coz he was going to run with shaheen. . . .

Shaheen goes to home n takes a bath n goes to college. .And a boy starts to tease her in college she gives him a slap n goest. . . .


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