My bf and I have been together over 4 years now, we have discuss marriage often, and agree we will definitley get married. We have ring shopped, and picked out the rings, he just has to save a little longer and buy it. We talked about the who, what, when, where, and how much about our wedding. It’s dead set we’re getting married, we just haven’t actually decided when, but probably in 2 more years (a yr after I finish college). The thing is, is that we are not "officially" engaged yet, but I found the perfect wedding dress and it’s at an amazing price! (0)!!! I wasn’t even seriously looking, and there is was sitting on the rack all perfect screaming out BUY ME!!! It’s exactly what I want. So, do I buy it? Will it be a psycho move to plan and buy for a wedding and he hasn’t even asked yet? And my big question, should I tell him or just store it and surprise him with it later? (he’s be thrilled to save $ from the budget, and learn how much I saved). What should I do?
I’m going to marry him, we’re going to be together for the rest of our lives, so I think I can handle the next 2 years….
Our wedding will be on the beach, and I have always and will always want that. I hate churches (not to offend anyone, I just really hate going, and I’m not religious in the least) and I’m not paying a ton of money for a huge wedding. The beach wedding is us all the way, and we wouldn’t have it any other way.
The dress is a style that I don’t think will ever go out of style, it’s pretty classic. Even if it does, I love it. My taste in clothes has never really changed, I’ve always had a classic flair, especially when I get dressed up. I’m not trendy at all! I KNOW I’ll still love this dress.
I’ve been the same size and shape since I was a teenager, and I’m in my 30’s now. My mother is the same size and shape she had when she was a teenager, and she’s had 4 kids and is 50. So, that isn’t a problem. I’m happy with my size and shape. I’m sure it won’t change.
And it’s only 0! That doesn’t put a dent in my savings account now, and it certainly won’t matter in 2 years, so it doesn’t matter to me if I do happen to change my mind….I’m worried if I pass it up, I’ll regret it big time. I’m very very picky when it comes to clothes, so to find something so perfect and at such a great price confuses me! I don’t know if it’s crossing the line, or if I should just get it.
Being together in 2 years, changing my mind about the dress, it being in style in 2 years, and being the same size are non-issues…
Not wanting to let the dress get away, and not making him feel pressured is… How can I have both?
And it’s only 0! That doesn’t put a dent in my savings account now, and it certainly won’t matter in 2 years, so it doesn’t matter to me if I do happen to change my mind….I’m worried if I pass it up, I’ll regret it big time. I’m very very picky when it comes to clothes, so to find something so perfect and at such a great price confuses me! I don’t know if it’s crossing the line, or if I should just get it.
Being together in 2 years, changing my mind about the dress, it being in style in 2 years, and being the same size are non-issues…
Not wanting to let the dress get away, and not making him feel pressured is… How can I have both?
alright Just Deal, do you feel better about yourself now? Keep the insults to yourself, and don’t act like you know my man! You have no idea what he would say or think, so maybe YOU need to pull your head out of the clouds. If your gonna have attitude, don’t bother answering any of my questions. I don’t need to hear the opinion of an ignorant bi(ch anyway.
I wish I could rate some of you guys, I’ve gotten some really great answers, and some real $hitty answers.
