I recently broke up with female who has a negative attitude towards life and it wasn’t a healthy relationship for me to stay in. She has two children and lives in a house the she and her soon to be “ex” husband bought a year ago. Also, she quit her job even though I told her not to, and is now struggeling with $$ because unemployment rejected her claim for benefits (she quites). Her only income is a part time job. Her soon to be “ex” husband” does not want to pay for the bills they have together, and only pays child support when he wants to. I have my own place. However, I did stay at her house from time to time. We started arguing a lot towards the end mainly because she’s never happy and that mindset was on a daily basis. She and her own children admitted this to me that she has always been like that. My biggest problem was more so her financial situation. A few weeks ago an argument started because she believed I never helped her out with any of the bills. My view was that the bills where created by her and the (ex) husband and should be handled by themselves or even consider suing him for that. But she claimed, because I stayed at her house I should of payed the light, water, and so on. True, I do stay there, however, I have my own place (bills), and if it came down to it, I could of simply just visit her if that was the case. Besides, I offered for her to spend QT at my place but towards the end she insisted of me staying at her house. A few months back she called me cheap because I eased on my spending habits when we were going out to eat/dance/Ect. I always calculated on how much things cost… In any event, the last few months we have been on/off because she was so negative about everything. Even though I took her to places such as parks, different restaurants, movies, ect. We really had good/great times together, but the minute we got home or we left the place, I felt her negative energy taking over the relationship. It got to the point that she truly believed that my ex put a spell on her and decided to see some witch () who claimed that the reason our relationship didn’t workout was because my ex who put a spell on us… (rolling my eyes) so the witch gave her some water mixed with green/smelly stuff. One night when we took a shower she quickly threw some of that green/smelly stuff on me. My body and the entire freaking bathroom stunk (lol). This past Tuesday she broke it off with me because of a silly argument that she couldn’t get ahold of me on the cellphone. Now, here is the problem. I have been trying to let go (break up) with her for the last couple of weeks, maybe more… and every time I think I am able to let go… I get sucked back into her. It’s like something is holding me back from moving forwards in life and end up back right with her. I really thought that it was for good…. but for two days straight I received blocked calls but nobody said anything. This was going on up until yesterday evening she told me in a very angry tone that she cleaned her house and noticed a few movies missing (which she gave to me) and for me to mail them back to her, and wished me good luck going back with my ex… as I stated this to her to make sure she would back off once and for all. She attempted to call me back a few more times blocked but I refused to pick up. I haven’t received anymore calls since than. Even though I only believe in one higher being (GOD), I begin to think that this nut basket actually put some crazy vodoo/witch craft on me…. what is your take on this…….?? Thanks!
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I recently broke up with female who has a negative attitude towards life and it wasn’t a healthy relationship for me to stay in. She has two children and lives in a house the she and her soon to be “ex” husband bought a year ago. Also, she quit her job even though I told her not to, and is now struggeling with $$ because unemployment rejected her claim for benefits (she quites). Her only income is a part time job. Her soon to be “ex” husband” does not want to pay for the bills they have together, and only pays child support when he wants to. I have my own place. However, I did stay at her house from time to time. We started arguing a lot towards the end mainly because she’s never happy and that mindset was on a daily basis. She and her own children admitted this to me that she has always been like that. My biggest problem was more so her financial situation. A few weeks ago an argument started because she believed I never helped her out with any of the bills. My view was that the bills where created by her and the (ex) husband and should be handled by themselves or even consider suing him for that. But she claimed, because I stayed at her house I should of payed the light, water, and so on. True, I do stay there, however, I have my own place (bills), and if it came down to it, I could of simply just visit her if that was the case. Besides, I offered for her to spend QT at my place but towards the end she insisted of me staying at her house. A few months back she called me cheap because I eased on my spending habits when we were going out to eat/dance/Ect. I always calculated on how much things cost… In any event, the last few months we have been on/off because she was so negative about everything. Even though I took her to places such as parks, different restaurants, movies, ect. We really had good/great times together, but the minute we got home or we left the place, I felt her negative energy taking over the relationship. It got to the point that she truly believed that my ex put a spell on her and decided to see some witch () who claimed that the reason our relationship didn’t workout was because my ex who put a spell on us… (rolling my eyes) so the witch gave her some water mixed with green/smelly stuff. One night when we took a shower she quickly threw some of that green/smelly stuff on me. My body and the entire freaking bathroom stunk (lol). This past Tuesday she broke it off with me because of a silly argument that she couldn’t get ahold of me on the cellphone. Now, here is the problem. I have been trying to let go (break up) with her for the last couple of weeks, maybe more… and every time I think I am able to let go… I get sucked back into her. It’s like something is holding me back from moving forwards in life and end up back right with her. I really thought that it was for good…. but for two days straight I received blocked calls but nobody said anything. This was going on up until yesterday evening she told me in a very angry tone that she cleaned her house and noticed a few movies missing (which she gave to me) and for me to mail them back to her, and wished me good luck going back with my ex… as I stated this to her to make sure she would back off once and for all. She attempted to call me back a few more times blocked but I refused to pick up. I haven’t received anymore calls since than. Even though I only believe in one higher being (GOD), I begin to think that this nut basket actually put some crazy vodoo/witch craft on me…. what is your take on this…….?? Thanks!
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my girlfriend has been acting weird for the past 4 weeks we only used to go out to the movies and restaurants because i have always love drinking and if we go out i spend all my money and we are trying to save to go live someplace else.. anyways to make a huge story short i let her go out one Friday 3 weeks ago but i told her to promise me she was not going to drink and get home early, so i called her at 3am and she still was not home and she sounded very drunk so the next day i confronted hear and told her that i trusted her and that she broke my trust and she was not going out because i cant even trust her not to do that.. fast forward to the next weekend comes Friday we go to the movies and to eat and she kept telling me how tired she was and how much she wanted to go home so at 11PM i left her home and went to take a shower to my house and started watching a movie it becomes 1am i call her phone and sure enough she was at a club i got so mad i broke up with her the next day but she started crying and calling me so i forgave her and went back with her again… fast forward again to Friday, we got in a small fight and told me that she was going to her friends house and that she never spends time with her blah blah blah so i said ok but stop to by my house once you take a shower and get ready to go with her, so she did but i noticed to much makeup on her face so i was very suspicions that she was going to a club, so i opened her cars trunk and there it was a new ward drove. so i told her why are you doing this to me i give you everything and do everything for you and you throw it all away for partying? she said you know what i am going and that’s it, so she left and went to the club… next day i had a date with some random chick NOW she starts throwing a fit and she starts to tell me that she is sorry that she only did it because she was mad at me and stuff so like the dumbazz i am i forgave her so NOW THIS WEEK she gets a call from an ex boyfriend and tells me to tell him not to call her again and i said no you tell him that and you put it on speaker, so she said no and i got out of the car and she left… a few hours pass and i cool-off and she comes to my house everything was fine but now today she told me she wants some space that she needs to thinking throw… what should i do?? i love her more than my self more than anyone else more than anything what should i do??? it kills me inside i work so hard to give her everything but she said she want a break and i told her nooo decide to stay with me or to breakup.. she couldn’t answer… what do i do? i am going crazy how can someone throw everything to go party?? wtf i do everything for her and she tells me she needs a break wtf???
Thank you for the answers.. i will also like to add a few details. 1.she has cheated on me twice once when we started going out and then five months after. 2.i don’t mind if she goes out but don’t pussyfoot it around just tell me i am going to get super drunk and dance with random guys , i don’t mind i am super comfortable with my self i just don’t like people to lie or pussyfoot a story or their actions. 3. she is bisexual i didn’t find out until two months in our relationship i didn’t mind at all i have nothing against it so i told her i did not mind if she had a gf or did something with another woman, so she got back with her ex girlfriend and well its nothing serious its just casual sex once in a while.. so you see i let her do anything if she just asks me she can have or buy anything i don’t mind really i just don’t know what else to do. is it my fault for being to open with her??? i don’t think i am a control freak but i like to know the truth and what she will be doing.
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I’m looking to go to Las Vegas in July, and want to get my hotel and flight when it is the cheapest. Should I book them together, or get them separate? Any reccommended sites?
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Well, I am looking for a hotel on the main strip (Luxor, Bellagio, etc…). I would like to find a cheap deal, but still would like to stay at the hotel and casinos on the street. Bellagio and company are way out of my league, but the ones below them would be nice. Also one that has decent restaurants/buffets. A good club/bar would be great as well. But where do you get the deals like free spa days or discounted meals or even free meals or casino comps? I’m not expecting them at all, but people always seem to alk about them. If I could get just one thing free, the trip would already be a success. Again, I want to stay at least 4 nights and 5 days. Any info is greatly appreciated.
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I caught my husband called and SMS text messages with many women. He regularly met those women in the bars, restaurants. He told me they are female friends. He just like the attention from them. He said there never have sexual relations with those women, only talking, joking or dancing. My husband admitted that the reasons he needs to contact with those women are
(1) midlife crisis (he is over 37 year old)
(2) there is no passion in our marriage life
(3) he felt less challenge at work
(4) he attracts to younger women and likes their attentions. My husband said by contacting many women actuarially reduce the risk to have an affair. He said he does not want to have an affair with anyone. He had an affair two years ago and ended painfully as she became a harassment. I try to give my husband more attentions and work on my appearance and figures. But I am 47 years old and it is very difficult to be slim as a 20s or 30s ladies. (He said his standard is very high and like women have flat belly.) My husband said he attracted to slim women , big boobs ,and he does not sexually attracted to me anymore as he just see me as mother of our daughter and I am over weight in his eyes. (I am 53kg, size M) He said he will not marry any of those women and probably get sick with them in one month as they have some characters he can’t stand . i dont know what it is he thinking but alway is bored with me. I can’t monitor his mobile calls any more as he has put on a new password .He was changed his Mobile Address when i mailing to him during he hear Women Groan in his mobile, he says dont mail to him when he busy listen women they yell.. He admitted he will not stop contacting those women in short term.( they are all in his contact now ) Should I trust him will play this game within the boundary and work on improving our relationship with him(i.e. more time together and give him more attentions) We enjoy together to see movies some time on the weeken , i tried to take him going to some where by car for him hunter his porn stuff . He is not interested in having sex with me but surf around internet long nights instead. He said that it is not proud to surf internet for sexual needs. I hate him make Masturbate alone when i busy at work .and he alway do Mastuebate with those idol in internet … Should I wait until he pass the "mid-life" crisis? I had thought about divorce but I am worry of losing existing financial comfort and the impact . The worst is I still love him as long he did good for me . Some books talk about recandle the love to save marriage. Is there any hope? We have been together for a long way and had so many lovely memory. I really do not want to give it in.
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