My ex boyfriend stole my dog. How do I get her back?
ok, so here goes.. ill try and make it as short as possible:

My exboyfriend, and I broke up about a year and a half ago. While we were together, we bought a dog from the humane society for me. (He had a dog too and i wanted one i could call mine) He paid for her up front (in his name) and I paid him back in cash (no record). I had no clue what that horrible decision would lead to. So, a year and a half ago we broke up and i moved out (we were living together in his home).. i took my dog, Kaili, with me and she has been with me ever since… i have been taking very good care of her… im not sure if you have a dog, but my dog to me is like a real daughter, a best friend, a sister. She means everything to me. I even have a perscription from my psycologist for her so that my apartment complex would let me keep her. .. along with a pet deposit and everything.. so what i am saying is that there is proof that Kaili has been my dog for the past year and a half. ….

A few months ago, __ and i started hanging out again as friends. I would let him take Kaili on his own when i worked doubles so that Kaili had the other dog to play with and __ just lost his job, and she makes him happy. On February 15th, I took a trip to the keys where brad was, and didnt hang out with him, so he got his feelings hurt. Ever since, I have been dealing with his psycotic behavior. He started harassing and threatening all kinds of things (including taking my dog away from me) in text messages and emails. He has been doing the same to about 5 of my friends, my sister, my mom, my dad and my dad’s girlfriend. He even wrote a long letter pretending to be one of my friends to my dad’s girlfriend and it made her throw up. I have emails of him pretending to be me writing them. Each of my friends and family members have received over 50 text messages each. And thats not where it gets bad. I was told I should have filed a restraining order right away, and i didnt, and i still haven’t. I figured his behavior would die down and that by me ignoring him, that he would stop. But, it just got worse. About a week ago, I was working a double at work so on my break i took Kaili to my moms to watch her. after i got out of work, i picked kaili up from my moms house and brought her home to my apartment.. as i was walking to my front door (which is in the back of the apartment building) ___ came out of nowhere, running fast at me, wripped the dog’s leash from my hand and kept running with my dog! I had no clue what to do so i called the police. Basically they told me that this was a "civil thing" and that a dog is "personal property" and if the dog is in ___’s name, that he can do what he did. I explained to them that i felt assaulted and scared, that ___ literally could have been waiting hours for me in the dark b/c i get out of work at all different hours so he couldnt have known an exact time.. they told me the most they could do is escort me to his apartment or a place i know where he is and they can try to reason with him but they cant just take the dog back. I kept asking them "how is this not a crime?" "how did he not just assault me?" and they basically told me to take it to court or let him have the dog. They also told me that they couldnt do anything to me if i stole the dog right back.

SO… here i am now. i just got all the paperwork from my vets and i can come up with all the proof she has been MY dog.. but im guessing i need to go to court… i can use any advice on what to do next… there are two issues here, my dog and my safety.. do i go file a restraining order now? and then take him to court later? what do i do?? i am so lost and i feel so hopeless… I am not in the wrong in this situation but i feel like nobody cares to take on this matter. again, she is my daughter, i need her back. Please help me with whatever you can… maybe you know a good lawyer i can use??
any information can help. I would also like to stress the fact that i don’t have a lot of money.. i am not a dependent on anyone (including my parents) i am a single waitress with my own apartment so im not the richest person.

Technorati Tags: apartment, best friend, clue, dad, exboyfriend, family members, feelings, friends and family, girlfriend, humane society, job, kaili, mom, perscription, pet deposit, proof, psycologist, restraining order, text messages

My husband’s ex called him out of the blue 6 months ago- she’s going through a nasty divorce. They have been divorced 20 years!!! We have been married 5.
They have one grown daughter, I have one teenage son who lives with us.
My husband divorced her because she cheated on him many times, and when he finally found out she threw him out of his own house-told police he was abusive (lie) and got a restraining order so she wouldn’t have to leave the home.
We had a happy marriage or so I thought. I loved him, was good wife, kept nice house and romance whenever he wanted because I love it too!

Long story short, found out he is leaving me to go back to her! They have been in touch by emails and texts. The house we live in was mine before marriage. I have been unemployed but looking for 2 years. I have no money of my own. I am devastated. When he leaves I will lose everything and have to file bankruptcy-I have spoken to lawyer. I have no choice. No money to pay anything.
At age 48 I will be living with my son at my parent’s house until I get work. I slaved for years to keep that house as a single mom. Now gone.

What would posess a man to go back to someone who did that to him? The first text I saw she said she would never hurt him again-thanks for the second chance! He never even told me he was unhappy in marriage! I ask and get no answers, no explanations. Nice guy. I told him if he was unhappy he should have come to me first to at least try!

The only thing I can logically think of is that she makes good money and he is tired of scrimping without my pay.
He always hated his father because he walked out when he was a baby and he is doing the same to me. In all honesty, why would he want that tramp that dumped him? She left him for a married man!

He will come to her rescue but leave me with nothing? Anyone ever been through this? I am a good, loving woman. I will not take him back-I have dignity, but part of me wants him to realize someday what a selfish jerk he was to do that to me. My son is crushed.

Technorati Tags: bankruptcy, blue 6, dignity, Ex Wife, explanations, good wife, grown daughter, happy marriage, honesty, jerk, Live 105, love, loving woman, marriage, married man, money, nasty divorce, nice guy, out of the blue, restraining order, romance, second chance, single mom, teenage son, texts, Tramp, unhappy in marriage, Words Of Encouragement

I need help again me and my wife are legally seperated but something in my heart still makes me want to believe that we can work this out.Any way she has a restraining order against me but we have been talking on the phone and she said she loved the way i was acting.So last night i went to a club i knew she would be at just to see her and tell her i still loved her and i would continue working on myself so i could be the person she could love again.Anyway i saw her walking with another guy she said they are just friends yet she runs into bar and i meet and the door by 4 bouncers and 15 minutes later 3 cop cars show up and ask me to leave.The thing is i am not that angry person she knew i have quit drinking and have found God plus i work out 2 times a day so i can start to like my self.I have past questions on her if anyone wants some background info.What i also want to know if she was not up to anything why run into the bar and send the bouncers out to stop me.Please women only .

Technorati Tags: 15 minutes, angry person, background info, bouncers, cop cars, fear, god, heart, just friends, love, restraining order, Seperated, something in my heart

Ok So around 3 weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me…I love her… We dated for around a year and 2 weeks. Now the reason that she told me was that she didnt have those feelings for me anymore..Now I believe that those feelings just dont dissappear considered that within 20 days she went from I love you =D to I dont think we can be together anymore after a year relationship. One of my friends talked to her about it and she said that at first She broke up with me and I was sad, which I was, and then she said that I became a bit obsessive and I wouldnt back off and I guess thats is prob. true…but when you love someone, you go crazy! Now we are at the point of me needing to figure out how to get her to fall in love with me again…but after last night i believe it will need some recovery time, over this past weekend I guess I scared her a bit and I tried telling her how I felt n stuff and she was like if you dont stop ill get a restraining order…now I know she doesnt mean it but that does tie into play somewhat because Im sure she needs some space now…I thought about not talking to her for a week and saying "Hey " text obviously, and if I get a response good, if not boo…one friend said wait until she text me, but thats only if she does… Anyway.. I have come to the yahoo community for some advice!
1. What should I do about giving her her space…wait until she text me? Try and text her? what do I do?
2. Whats the best way to try and have her fall in love with me again…someone said invite her on just a little date..someone said have an event that you know she likes, for example a party or something
3. Once we get talking again, do I take it slow? treat her like a gf or just try to leave it at friends, I dont really know how to treat her like a friend because we were only friends for a week before we started dating.
Anyway all please help and post your advice!
No negative stuff please!

Technorati Tags: Fall In Love, feelings, gf, girlfriend, recovery time, relationship, restraining order, true love, yahoo, yahoo community

I was in love with a beautiful woman and still love her so much. We live together for 3 months she is the most beautiful woman i ever had Intelligent smart beautiful body. She is rich as well has own big house 2 cars good job and salary. I was stupid and one day when i was upset I took part of my stuff and left her house and went to live to one of mine female colleague. An hour later i realised what mistake i have done and beg her to go back but she said everything is over. I got upset and started harrasing her I sent her police with falce aligation spreaded bad lies about her told everyone that she throw me on the street. She took restraining order against me and never talked to me again. I miss her badly and want her back. Can someone advice me what could i do to make her forgive me.

Technorati Tags: advice, aligation, bad lies, beautiful body, beautiful woman, big house, cars, female colleague, good job, job, love, mistake, restraining order, salary

Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to remain friends. I kept asking her i wanted her back because my heart said dont let her go. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is way outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sicking and now she says she will never be friends now and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just want to be friends. Any advice thanks
She just had gotten out of a 2 1/2 year verbally abusive relationship ending in a restraining order. During our time, she said he messed her up She told me initially that she lost feelings and wanted to be friends. Just to give her time. Now she assumes that i lied/fooled her about things during our relationship. She thought i was doing drugs, i was trying to buy her love etc. I was not doing drugs and i told her that i want to prove to her by blood test. Her reasoning to give me reasons was that she did not want me to have the satisfaction of thinking i fooled her.
She does not want me to prove it and she claimed "that i am so erased from her life". She called me a liar and would never want to be my friend. I didnt lie, just acted great to her i did not want to lose her, that was my mistake. I told her that i want to be friends when she was ready and she told me no thanks. Can she really stay mad at me forever when we both agreed we had a good relationship??? ANY ADV
I feel that I pushed her to far. She wanted to be left alone and I couldn’t understand that. But now I do. And instead of mourning the lost of a gf, I have lost a friend which is even worse. Do any of you feel she still thinks of me, what would need to happen for her to call me again. I dont want to be thought ofd as a stalker, but it hurt cause i fell in love with her. I dated many women and i was never like this before, why is this happenening to me Thanks

Technorati Tags: abusive relationship, blood test, crazy person, drugs, feelings, Friends, good relationship, heart, liar, life quot, love, mistake, restraining order, satisfaction

this girl has already been arrested, charged, and is finishing up her pretrial diversion for aggravated stalking both myself and my children. i am in the media a lot and have quite a bit of notarity. she puts personal information about my children out for everyone to see. the no contact order given to me by the court doesn’t work. she just recently went as far as emailing my 11 year old son. what should i do? i don’t hate her. i feel sorry for her and want to her to get some kind of help.
she has been arrested and i have a restraining order. the girl has done her research. she will quit at nothing. i mean she was even in the national news for being arrested. she has violated her no contact order 4 times in the past 2 months and nothing is done. i keep journals. i call law enforcement. i mean she threatened to shoot my children and myself. if she keeps getting away with this, i am afraid my children may end up hurt. i am at a loss…

Technorati Tags: ex girlfriend, journals, law enforcement, national news, pretrial diversion, restraining order

My ex boyfriend and I dated for 6 months. We fell in love fast. We had amazing memories but in between all of that, he treated me bad as well. It was a total love hate relationship. I came back from camp and I found out he cheated on me so I broke up with him. When I did, he wouldn’t leave me alone… he kept harrassing me to the point I decided to get a 2 year restraining order on him. I’ve tried to move on since then but I miss him to death and I feel like I made a huge mistake. Now I can’t even talk to him because of the restraining order and everybody would flip out if I saw him or got back with him. I’m 18 and so is he but we both live at home, don’t drive, & my parents don’t approve.

What do I do?

I wanna be with him more than anything.

Technorati Tags: amp, ex boyfriend, love, Love Hate, Love Relationship, memories, mistake, parents, relationship, restraining order

I’m about to be 21 years old now.. And i’ve been through alot.. enough to make it where I don’t want to EVER date again. In my mind, I believe all girls are evil and they want to eat your soul. Let me explain.

My first true love died in after a carwreck three days later in the hospital… As a result, I went into a really bad drug frenzy because I couldn’t deal with it. During this time, I met another girl.. Who looked just like her and had the same kind of personality too. Anyways, she always said she loved me and would never leave me.. [I asked her this all the time cause I was always tripping and paranoid] I was madly in love with her.. I would have killed myself in the blink of an eye.. I couldn’t imagine living without her. Well it ended after 8 months. And after it did end, I went crazy. I did things I shouldn’t have did and got locked up.. And I got a restraining order put on me. That was over 2 years ago…

I haven’t dated since. I have tried.. But I never ask a girl out.. everytime i started getting to know them.. they want to leave for someone else.. And I mean.. I always tell them i want to take it slow.. I would always plan to get to know them for a couple of months before asking them out.. But girls around my town always want to rush into things and start saying they love people when they first start going out with them. So every girl has pretty much ditched me for another guy just because I don’t jump in and start loving them. I know what love is now. I’ve felt it. Its everytime you see that person you love.. It feels like your heart drops into the pit of your stomach.. It beats so fast and you get a adreniline rush.

I just wonder if I will ever feel that again.. If i’ll ever have a wife of my own.. I don’t want to be lonely.. I’m scared of being lonely.. But i never show it around anyone.

What should I do? I’m in recovery right now.. [Been sober for a year] I’m a big Jesus freak. I go to therapy. I miss her alot.. And I hate her.. Its weird.. If I had the chance to go back with her.. I wouldn’t.. I dream about her sometimes still.. I think about her too sometimes unexpectedly.. If I wouldn’t have been on a drug that enhances your feelings x 100. I wouldn’t be this way i’m sure.

Any advice?

Technorati Tags: adreniline rush, alot, Bad Drug, Blink, blink of an eye, Cra, frenzy, girls, heart, jesus freak, personality, restraining order, stomach, time cause, true love

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 months now. We have been really happy together and our relationship has really been taking off lately, but then she broke up with me. What happened was, she has an ex-boyfriend from high school (we are sophomores in college) who goes to the same college as us and talks to her and stuff still and is pretty much crazy, bi-polar at the very least. Her parents have thought about getting a restraining order against him because he stalks her at school, but they are family friends with his family so they have never done anything. A little bit after we started dating, he began sending me e-mails about how she was cheating on me. I blew them off, until he sent me some e-mails after Christmas that made it seem very convincing that she was doing something behind my back. I had some trust issues for a few days but finally got over it and came to realize she was telling me the truth. But that whole thing stressed me out a lot and I had a lot of other stressful things going on and I got really mad at her one night for a very small thing and told her not to talk to me. She got pretty upset, understandably, and I spent a whole day apologizing to her until she finally told me that she had forgiven me. But then, later the same night, she told me that she needed to think about things. I had no idea what was going on, but then all of a sudden she dropped all of these things on me that she didn’t like that I do such as poking fun at her and going too far, not always talking to my parents with respect and a couple other things. I never knew that any of these things bothered her until she told me all this when it was pretty much too late. While it shouldn’t take her getting that upset for me to change things like that, I really had no idea they were bothering her that much. So last night, January 10, she broke up with me, saying that all of the things I had done had been so hurtful that she just didn’t feel the same way as she used to about me. She didn’t close the door on us getting back together when I asked about that, but I don’t know what to do to get her back. She wants to stay friends, but I don’t know how I will be able to be just friends with her, that would just be too hard for me. Can anyone give me some advice on what I can do to get her back?
I tried to convince her that I could change these things because I can and I apologized multiple times for the things that I did. She just can’t look past those things because of the relationship she was in with the crazy ex-boyfriend, she said that all these things are major red flags. But I’m not a red flag kind of guy, I never ever meant to hurt her feelings or anything, and I’ve even asked her multiple times if those things bothered her, and she told me no. But now all of a sudden they bother her so much that she breaks up with me. I guess I don’t know how to go about showing her that I can change these things. Should I try to be just friends with her for now and show her that I can change these things? Or should I just give her some space and let her think about things and hopefully start missing me?

Technorati Tags: Cheating, christmas, family friends, few days, getting a restraining order, girlfriend, little bit, parents, relationship, restraining order, sophomores, telling me the truth, trust issues

My step daughter was about to strart first grade at a Catholic School and I knew she would need new school stuff. I made sure no one was home, parked on the street and walked a huge bag of shoes, socks, undies, approved shorts, uniform shirts, ect. ect…The neighbor saw me and told the ex-girlfriend (step-daughters mother) that I brought the items over. She then filed charges of stalking against me then my attorney forgot to show up to court, not me I was there but my attorney forgot, the judge refused to let me speak and the restraining order was issued. Now I have an outlandish attorney bill and a restraining order. How can this be? What do I do to fix this?

Technorati Tags: attorney bill, catholic school, clothes, ex girlfriend, first grade, neighbor, restraining order, school stuff, shoes, socks, Stalking, step daughter, step daughters, Step Mother, uniform shirts

I was awarded several guns from our family colection with my divorce. My ex has not returned them and I am afraid he may have turned them into a gun dealer since he has a restraining order in effect. He also signed at least one or two to my ex-mother-in-law and brother-in-law.How do I find my guns and get them back? What is my recorse if he sold or gave them away?

Technorati Tags: brother, divorce, gun dealer, guns, mother in law, restraining order

Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to stay friends badly!. I kept asking her i wanted her back sweetly. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sickening and now she says she will never be friends and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just wanted to stay friends. Saw her recently and she said hello. We tried to talk but she said she has nothing to say? The happened to her? She said she will regret the breakup. Why
I saw her this past weekend and we tried to talk, but she said she had nothing to say to me. We hang out at similar places and she talks to my friends. I treated her so well. She always told me how lucky she was to be "stuck" with me and i am the best. Told me she wanted to marry me etc.. have kids and all. All of a sudden you lose feelings. Makes no sense. She did just get out of a 2 1/2 yr verbally abusive relationship which ended in a restraining order, which I come to find out she has started to text him again, nothing more and the texting started while we were together, of course she denied, but I have proof. I guess i was a rebound or what. Do you guys think she just realized she didnt want to be in a relationship cause she was not ready?? Or was she just confused, she is a Gemini and I am a Pisces? Any advice on how I should deal with this? Will she consider me as a friend since our fallout? That is all i really want and i told her so.

Technorati Tags: abusive relationship, crazy person, fallout, feelings, gemini, love, pisces, proof, rebound, restraining order, texting