we were together a year and we broke up two days ago because he needed his space and to get his shit together and we had been fighting and always upsetting eachother and i just dont think he made the right choice and i just want to cry it all away so i dont have to go back to drugs i been sober for 2 mounths.
please help im devasted and dont know what to do and music is my sanctuary.



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I was just wondering if my revenge to my ex-boyfriend by using him for sex a bad idea? I’m asking bcuz he used me for sex, money, and lied to me about alot of things, so I actually felt played throughout the relationship we had for 3 yrs. What happened was that he is divorced b/c it didnt work things out with his wife afterall ( he lied about his marriage too!), so I played along his game on the phone and acted like I wanted to see him. We had sex the next day. I only did this to get back at him and make him feel like **** bcuz of all the times he played games with me. Was this a right choice I made or "two wrongs dont make a right" rule shouldve been what came to my mind first?


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My husband found out I had cheated on him. He found some text messages on my cell phone and I confessed to the cheating. We lived apart for a couple of months and during that time we barely spoke. I heard he was spending a lot of time with a bartender that works at the local bar. I also found some text messages on his phone but he denys doing anything with her, and they are only friends and she is fun. Since then he has told me he wants me back, but he doesn’t want to change his lifestyle. He goes out 3-4 times a week and he comes home at all hours of the night. I think he still sees her and it bothers me. When I bring her up or bring up his going out he gets defensive and tells me that I’m a nag and I am smothering him. He told me that he wants me to relax and chill out and our marriage will work. I do smother him, because I want answers and he won’t talk to me. I have gotten advice to leave him alone and see where it goes. Is this the right choice and will he love me again?


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