i still love her….. the other day she was writing on my hand…. she’s somewhat cuddling with me…. and she’s been hugging me a lot lately….
we broke up about 80-85 days ago….. there isn’t a day i don’t think about her… we broke up because she said that she had too many things going on…. i thought that would be the right thing to do since it just wasn’t the right time… and i thought i could possibly get back togeather with her when all this stuff is over… but then around 4 weeks later… she starts to go out with her ex b. from washington… who just recently moved here in LA… i guess she’s been having problems with him…. today’s her birthday, but i’ve already done something for her… n e wayz… we’re still friends… i wouldn’t mind making it out to be something more…. but is she giving me the signs that i want her to… or is she just playing around with a friend???
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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My boyfriend dumped me almost a month ago, and i was heartbroken. I was really close to being ok, when I saw him for the first time afterward yesterday. I sat and talked with him for like 2hrs and he was his same funny, normal self. Nether of us mentioned the breakup, and i kinda wished he did, I still really miss him and care, should I just move on?
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My ex broke up with me a few months ago and she told me she just wanted to be independent when she went away for school for a few months. I let go and told her I would not stand in her way of anything. We are still friends and talk quite a bit. After some struggle on her part to get back in my life, I wanted to be left alone and needed space and time to heal from the break up but she contacted me constantly and said she still needed me in her life. This I felt was selfish on her part and I told her that and she said she is still to close to me to let me go that we still have a lot of personal connection between us. I agree but its not on the level I want. So we talk but it’s just bs talk, how are you? whats new? blah blah blah. She is always asking me to come and visit her. She lives a few hours away.
I love her very much still and would like to be with her again but now is just not the right time. I think she may be starting to see someone else which really doesn’t bother me all that much as they are long distance and it could just be a rebound thing for her. This guy is a lot older and kind of a player from what I hear. So this doesn’t really bother me all that much.
My question is what is the best way to go about getting her back. I have many things to no avail. Staying away and not talking to her drives her insane and she just calls me or texts me till I talk to her and I feel like going the friends route may not me any good either. As a friend I need to remain selfless and be happy for her in whatever she does and as I try I can do it but not just yet. It still sucks not talking to her on the same level we used to.
So does anybody have any tips that could help either way? I am carrying on with my life and doing new things for me and meeting and hanging out with new people, she supports me but constantly asks me who I have been with and if I am seeing anybody in round about ways. Are communication feels so false and I do not like that and I know we are both hiding something as we dance around it all the time.
So what should I do?
Please don’t tell me to move on or she is my ex for a reason. I am not interested in that banter!
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I would like to start by saying this is a very hard matter for me to talk about. I AM NOT and WILL NOT have an abortion. Its against what I believe in. I am seeking words of advice, wisdom and motivation.
My husband and I have been married for 6 years now. We always planned on having kids but when the time was right. My husband always dreamed of becoming a self made million air which this year he is just thousands away from. I just found out last week that I am 6 weeks weeks pregnant. My Husband wigged out and says it will mess up his dreams and his goal of reaching the millions. I couldn’t believe how selfish he is. With all the money he has saved he can be so evil as to ask me to have an abortion. That this isn’t the right time in our lives. He just wrote a check for a beautiful home on the beach in Southen Cali (where we are form) and says that he is moving forward with or with out me. With me meaning I get the abortion, with out me meaning I keep the baby. This is soooooooo out of my husbands character. NEVER had he spoke this way and always had a low opinion of dead beat fathers. But now he has become the evil monster him self. He says if I dint abort asap he wants me out.
Now I personal do well for myself without him and can easily afford to be a single mom but what breaks me is losing my husband, my marriage and having to raise my child with no father. I feel like just packing up and taking off to some far far away from him and starting a new Life with my baby but its all easier said than done. I need words of wisdom please. And does anyone know why he has this split personality. Going from telling me he wants me to have his babies to now that I am wanting nothing to do with it?!!!!!
Long story but thanks for reading.
THANKYOU ALL FOR ANSWERING MY QUESTION AND FOR YOUR SUPPORT! MEANS A LOT TO ME. YOU ALL ARE WONDERFUL. THANKS AGAIN.
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we ly and embrace, alnight, and most of the day
we talk about houses cars and kids
where our lives are going and what we wish we did
you get out of bed to make breakfast,
we both laugh, cuz its the middle of the day
i come up behind you at the counter,
and hug you from behind
kiss you gently on the neck
and whisper i have a suprise
you turn around, grin from side to side
but then i get down on my knee
and tell you what you mean to me
i put myself on the line
my feelings out in the open,
something you only get from a man time to time
my hear pounds,
im nervous, hoping for happiness,
and fearing devistation
you say yes, and begin to cry as i slip on the ring
we laugh and smile, and you look into my eyes
i can see your love, and you can see mine
we set the date, the 20th of may
some would call it fate,
others right time, right place
all our friends are jealous, to them we seem perfect
we’re not, but we’re about as close as there is
the story book romance, and the picture perfect book
but then i wake up, and realize it was a dream
another one about you, the second this week
but we will always just be friends, or so i think
i’m sorry if this scares you
i understand if you never want to see me again
maybe i am crazy, maybe i am
then you say isn’t love kinda crazy?
it felt good to get it in the open,
and you say, lets go dance
and I’m glad i gambled on chance
still madly in love, we dance.
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