My man got mad at me last friday because he was talking about his past relationships and I said calm down.Than he said he was frustrated. He did not want to talk anymore and He said I will see you saturday. I called him back and he would not answer and he finally answers, but did not say anything to me and I heard him say I don’t want to talk to her. Than his room mate told me he stormed out of his apartment and never came back. He never came back for his cell phone. I was suppose to see him last saturday and I never heard from him. I never heard from sunday too. Monday does not count because we have a break from talking. I don’t know when I will hear from him again. I don’t know if he dumped me by not calling me for two days.
I still love him so much. I don’t know what to do.
He got mad at me when I said calm down
I call him and text message him
He is 21 years old
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My gf is going to get married with a guy whom her parents are finding. She cried last time around when i spoke with her telling like she cnt break her parents heart by introducing me to them as i am from different religion. Its 2 weeks now .. I could know from other sources that shes happy and moving on nicely. Just wonder how she is able to do so.
** i am sure she has moved out and ok without me.
Hey please hlep,
its just coincidence i dont knw.. Her room mate hates me and when she said she dont like my gf having call with me , can you believe she just stoped callin me.. naaaaa but m sure she’s not lesb or somethin.. Its just that i doubt she values our relation. May b my luv dont av that ‘Something"
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