Mother passed away and put another woman’s child before me. My brother was left everything and turned his back on me and my children. The relationship has not been the same.
I need help to close the issue and try and save the relationship.
he had been with for over three years. He decided to leave the relationship and live in a state with no family of his own to be with a girl ( with a jail record and who is known in her neighborhood as easy) and her child over his own flesh. He chooses to see his daughters once a month, if he could ,instead of being a constant father figure as he is for another man’s child. After being there for his first born (who is born on his birthday) for seven months of her life, he now says he was not ready 2b a father. What type of statement is that if you are viewed as a provider (bought a home for this girl and her child) for another man’s child? Do you understand this? Would you neglect your own flesh to be apart of someone elses? Men please let me know.
Ranger D you must be the person whom im talking about. Again I just had two babies with months of each other. Again, our relationship should hold no bearing on his relationship with his babies. You seem to be guilty of neglecting your children but thanks for your immature and not knowing what ur talking about answer.
I am 100% positive he can not stand me and he never did. Weather his is happy is questionable but i guess you think you know he is. Jealousy over my babies of course but you will never be apart of their lives WHORE
To superKitten, I read read questions you wrote and I see you’re crazy. But thank you for not knowing what ur talking about.
Again to super Kitten, you are obviously hurting to be so hurtful to someone you do not know. I see many of your questions you ask is about sucide. Your anger explains why you are suicidal. You do not know me to judge me. If your experience with men has made you bitter then instead of asking about suicide see a psyciatrist. You have ABSOLUTELY no idea what you’re talking about. No one is perfect but a person’s imperfection should not allow others to treat them badly especially innocent babies. Your imperfections got you asking questions about suicide.
SuperKitten, what are you talking about. You have no idea what you are talking about! The other person’s child is NOT his, he just met her and her child is older so please do not talk what you do not know. You are talking about me and did not address the question. You have no clue what you’re talking about and I did not pick on Ranger, I just enlightened him further about his situation is not the same because his kids are older. You obviously have no problem with adultery, which they are both doing, and you obviously have no problem with children getting hurt for self-fish reasons. You started with the attack, look at your first sentence. I will not stoop to your level because what I have learned thru it all is if someone is being cruel, do not minimize yourself to be like them, just get rid of the negative energy. Believe me when I say, if you knew it all you would be sanging a different tune. I do not have to specify to you.You gave your answer and I appreciate it.
you speak of death and suicide and your energy is does not fit mine. You do not have to be a horrible person to be treated horrible. There are good people who get used , scamed and mistreated by horribe people.
One last thing "super kitten" my "stupid question" maybe a personal questions for others. Like the say in school, no question is stupid question because someone might have the same one in mind. Again just reading your Q&A and your comment here, you are a bitter person and a hypercrit. If you felt the question was "stupid" then why answer it? One might consider your questions stupid and a bit crazy. Should they judge you w/o knowing what they are talking about? You’re just one of many so I will ignore you, because as I said, I learned my lesson about minimize my character to stoop to levels beneath me.
Again you are messing the point. It shows you need to stop passing judgement without knowing everything. I asked a specific question, period. I did not have to tell anyone that he left me with a 7 mnth old and 3 months pregnant or even that he allowed our house to foreclose and left me and his infant daughter w/o adequate housing all because he says he went into something w/o being ready. His reasons or new life has no bearing on the one he created. They should be erased because he made a "mistake". I should not have to explain how her refuses to pay child support because he feels they do not need that much and is now questioning his daughter’s parternity because he feels it will delay his support order not caring how it may one day make her feel. Before you judge me, yes we argued but I never cheated nor disrespected him. My attack on this "innocent girl" as you put it is just because she stepped foot in my home while I went to visit my mother. At the time I was clueless.
Even if I was the type to miss with a married man, I would never step foot in another woman’s home nor would I make it difficult for him to see his kids if I could not be present. Again you made judgement calls that 1-had nothing to do with the ques. asked and 2- did not need explaining. We are in court and I have moved on. You saying I want him back, where was that in the ques? You saying the other girl kid is his, when we just moved to the state he met her in, where is that asked in my question, and her treating him better because I was horrible to him, where was that asked. If you really want to know his own family members are the ones who helped me see he was living a double life. My response to Ranger was due to his comment of my weight, when I specified his 18mnth old and 2mnth old.Do the math. Like my mother use to tell me " stop and think before speaking" .
running another woman down? that only fits if I am making false comments. Again talking what you do not know. She is far from a woman and anyone who KNOWS THE SITUATION says the same even those who are related to him. Please stop wasting your time insulting those you have no clue about. My reason for bringing up her true characteristics were for MEN to address based on her qualities. It was not said out of "jealousy" or making false statements. I have no reason to be jealous of her. She’s not even on my level.
Date: Fri, 01 Jun 2007 13:27:36 -0400
From: "June McF
To: "M PIERRE-LOUIS" <mpierre_louis0827@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: We miss you
You are better off without him. Your kids deserve to be love and cared
about. That paternity test is just to stall for time. I believe in
carma. What you do comes back to you. He will be very sorry for doing
this. I’m just sorry you have to suffer in the mean time.
This is a real email from an old neighbor who knew both of us and his own close netword says the same. I have no other comment to you but stop attacking people without knowing what you are talking about. Answer the question at hand. If you need to be rude because "you feel the question asked is "stupid" then use your intelligence towards questions that are suitable for you. thank you for telling others that it is ok to mistreat people, even those who are innocent for totally selfish and unjust reasons.
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I just told me self-destructive finance of 2 years that "I will not take your drama into 2009" and ended the relationship right after christmas. I am slowly recovering like the average person, but I when I think about the behaviors I tolerated it makes me so angry that I feel like I’m having a stroke!!!
I often found myself crawled up in my bed with high anxiety because he was always on the path of self destruction and always failing things and calling me to poor out his failures on.
I saw him through Irag and the torment that came with knowing something could happened to him, as well as him calling and telling me of casualties, even crying sometimes. When he got home he saw everybody exept me for 2 months and rationalized it as him trying to stay away from me so that he does not hurt me in anyway due to post-traumatic stress….
He relocated and moved in with another female soldier while I was away in grad school and never told me until I wanted to come down and visit after my semester was over. They both got on the phone and told me they were not together, although he confessed to sleeping with her and she was pregnant with a married man’s child. When I walked away from that situation, he along with his mother begged to give him another chance. I took him back when asked me to marry him, then called the wedding off 1 month before and said that he had financial problems, after I already paid for everything
He would call me all the time after that to say that he was broke and that he was planning on killing himself and that I was the only one he kept him going without suicidal thoughts.
He never knew how to spend the money he made. Most recently, I got a call at work from him saying: "this is it, I’m going to end it!!…the navy just found out that I had been lying on my application and now they are taking me to jail…go on with ya life" 2 weeks later, he called me and said that they decided to drop the charges and that he loves me sooo much.
I have been a strong woman, but this one has broken me down…how can I recover?
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