Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a month or two now. We’re both in high school, I’m a 10th grader and she’s a 9th grader. We rarely see each other out of school, maybe once a week. We get to see each other mostly at school football games, after the game for pizza, or a special event. She seems to want to hang out with her friends more than me. I am always there if she wants to see me though. We haven’t seen each other since Friday and it was an awkward night. We went to eat after school and her friends were with her. I had no friends with me, I had a hard time contributing to the conversation because they were talking about past memories or cheer-leading or dance. Nothing I could relate too. So I sat at the table silent, not paying attention, and watching E.S.P.N. After that night, our relationship has been dying, she told me she doesn’t like me as much as she used to. To be honest, I don’t like her as much as I use to either. I’ve asked her if she wanted to break up and she has considered it and I’ve considered it. But I don’t want to end it and neither does she. We are both very attracted to each other but the spark doesn’t feel like it’s there anymore. What can I do to save a dying relationship? I’ll see her tomorrow at school and I’m going to call her later tonight so please answer.
Other things you should know:
1. She told me she doesn’t think she treats me good enough.
2. People told her to break up with me (for no valid reason)
3. People told me to break up with her (for no valid reason)
4. I’ll add more when I think of some.
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I am married and have a 2 yr old. I have been married for 4 years.We decided to separate in Nov. I cheated on him. I was unhappy and he had a very bad anger problem. I felt so low. He found out and wanted to resolve things and I insisted we separate. I started dating this guy pretty soon after. I found out I am pregnant. My lease where I live is ending April 1st and I have to move. Well the plan was to move with the new BF to an apt and have the baby.. But I think I am making a big mistake! I dont love him it was all fun but I want my husband. I love him and my daughter misses him so much! I made an appt for abortion on Sat. I dunno i have two options. Get the abortion and leave the bf or or move in with him and risk it but I would only be forcing myself and pretending. I am only 22. I called my husband and he said he will help me out only if I break up with the bf and stay single, he doesnt know im preggo. I want him back but he says he can’t trust me.Do I wait or take a chance????
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We have been together for 6 years, married 3. Like every other marriage, we have our fights and spats. To be honest, I have not been the best wife there is. He has always gone above and beyond for me and our two kids. I have never really appreciated him and I’ve always tried to control him. He stopped seeing his friends for me because I was insecure of who he hung out with. He has put up with it for at least 4 years and always did what made me happy. Fast forward to present, he has two new jobs new freinds and will be starting school. He sat me down and told me he has not been happy. He said he will be making changes within himself and not be the person I have turned him into. He also said his top priorities will be his kids and his work/school. He said he needs space to find himself again and if he wants to stay married. It’s so difficult for me to swallow this, and he still lives at home. He says he will always be here for me and the kids no matter what and who knows what will happen. Please help, I’m falling apart. I’ve pushed my husband away and it may be too late for apologies. Should I move out w/ our kids?
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I went to jail for contempt of court for child support for 45 days back in March, we lost our baby in February, and things have been sour ever since I had to go to jail. She tells me that she can’t get over that and she wonders everyday if the police are going to come knocking at the door for me again.
What makes things worse is she is cold as ice towards me, I try and try to show love towards her and she doesn’t even care; she says she loves me, and is in love with me still but doesn’t know why and why she should stay. Last night I broke down finally and begged her to just be close to me she didn’t even care she turned over and went to sleep I sat there sobbing uncontrollably for about 4 hours and she didn’t even care. She is the most important thing in the world to me and I love her with all my heart and soul, what can I do to rekindle that love we had and make things work; I don’t want to lose her and I have no one else to turn to. Any advice I would appreciate it
She said that my job as a bounty hunter is all I have and have ever had; she said all I have is what I am chasing after.. But she is the one I want and she said that I spend too much time on the computer and the cell phone for work, what can I do
As for me not paying child support it is a long story and not my fault, I was in Argentina when my ex wife filed for adoption of my 2 boys to her new husband, they posted service in the paper and I was never able to appeal it or fight it; when I called the family court they said my child support obligation was through; the reason I went to jail for 45 days is for not paying arrearages that built up because she was on assistance from the state and I have to pay all that back.
It has nothign to do with treating my kids bad, I wanted to see them and when I came back from my assignment they were adopted right out from under me.
As for me changing careers, I have been doing this all my adult life (bounty hunting) and I make exceptionally good money doing it and I am well known internationally as one of the best there are, she knew this when we got together and it comes with the package. She just wants me to give her what she isn’t giving me and I don’t think it is fair
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