She admitted to me that her ex called her Saturday night telling her she was bored. So my girlfriend invited her out with her friends. Her ex has 3 kids and a husband. How possibly bored can one be? I think her ex wants her back. Her ex gave her a picture of the both of them from there past. And I saw the picture by accident when my girlfriend open her purse. She admitted how she got the picture, but I feel that my girlfriend was cheating on me. Plus, one night when she said she was shopping alone, she came to my house and her cell phone rang with a block number from her ex. My girlfriend was all dressed up the way she would dress to see me. I asked her why she was all dressed up and she said was because she was seeing me. I think she was lying to me about seeing her. I asked her to stop talking to her and she agreed. but the next day she told me she doesn’t feel the same about me. And wants us to only be friends. So I ended it completely. She denies wanting her ex back
called you until monday. well actually you guys got into a tight on saturday night, then sunday he left and you couldn’t find him anywhere and he doesnt call you and when you call him a gazillion times he doesnt pick up and sunday comes and you had plans with him but he never bother to call you or even pick up the phone and you still couldn’t find him and then monday comes back to work and THEN finally calls you on his lunch break. then leaves a voicemail saying "i was just wondering how you were doing?, please call me back" then he calls you once more when he goets off of work. I asked him where he stayed all this time, he hung up then called me back and said he got cut off i guess cuz he was clueless on what to say. Then he said "i was here at work waiting in the parking lot in my truck". Would you believe him or would you think he got a hotel or stayed at someone’s house? then calls you back when he gets back to work? and all this time doesnt pick up your calls but expects u 2 pck u
p your calls and then thinks he can take advantage of you. then wants to come back home.But god knows what he was doing these 3 nights. my question, what would you do, let him back into your life because you still have feelings for him or dump him and let him have the rotten poon he proobably was with the last coulple of nights. and how would you feel/think?
my boyfriend and i get on really well usually but recently we haven’t been so close. he doesnt trust me since the first time we broke up because i got with a load of boys during the 6 months we broke up. now we’re back together and he can’t trust me.
i went to a party on saturday night, got drunk, but didn’t cheat. he thinks i did. he won’t believe me. what do i do?
I don’t know where to begin. My boyfriend broke up with me saturday night. He told me that i’m not what he’s looking for in a girlfriend because he said he wants someone like himself who’s independent. That really hurt me alot to hear him say that to me. I’m 26 yrs old… currently attending college to become a nurse. He’s 31 yrs old and is a manager in a business. I don’t get it… when we first started dating he knew i was going to school and working as well but that was not a problem for him at the time. I left my job in the summer because i wanted my main focus to be on my school work. He was happy that i decided to focus on getting my degree because he told me that he wants to get married and have kids soon. Now all of a sudden i’m not working and he’s making it seem like i’m not independent. If you know me you would think other wise. I never ask him for a dime. I always do things for myself and don’t rely on others because that’s how i am. Then he said I’m living at home and he’s looking for someone that lives by themselves and not with their parents. I don’t get it if you knew this about me before you got with me why now all of s sudden it’s a big problem. We’ve only been dating for 9 month and within those 9 months he broke up with me two times using the same reasons. Then he always calls me back because he misses me. I care about my boyfriend so much. I always tell him and show him how i feel about him but sometimes he distance himself from me and doesn’t show me the affection i’m looking for all the time. He tells me that’s how he is and he’ll try to change that… but he never works on it. I do so much for him to show him that i care about him. When we first started dating I used to text him all the time and he used to text me right back…now he be taking hours to text me back. I know it doesnt take but a second to text back your girlfriend cmon. I know his job can sometimes be busy but when you do have a moment text me. I always response to him when he text me or calls me. I just expected the same, but he’s not meeting me half way. Now get this… saturday he called me early in the morning but i was sleeping but i woke up 10 minutes after he called me. I told him i sorry that i missed his call because i was sleeping. He said it’s ok and go back to sleep and when you wake up later give me a call. I agreed and went back to sleep. When i woke up i called him and he didn’t answer. So i called him 30 minutes later still no answer. I thought to myself what was the point of you telling me to call you if you was not going to answer your phone. He told me thursday that he would be hanging out with a group of friends from out of town on friday. He didn’t tell me that he would be hanging out with them on saturday as well. So i waited until it was 7 pm to give him a call and he still didn’t answer my phone call….so i decide to send him a text. I said to him " whatever you are doing i hope you having fun doing it". Can you believe he answered me right away saying that he’s showing his friends around NY because they don’t know nothing about NY. I don’t have no problem with that but at least pick up the phone and call me or a simple text would have been nice seeing how i haven’t heard from you since we spoke in the morning. I texted him telling him that i wanted to talk to him and he insisted that he couldn’t speak because he was in a crowded area. I told him that i needed to tell him how i felt about the things that’s been going on between us. He called me 15 minutes later because he thought i was upset in the textes i was sending him. I was not mad i just wanted to speak to him and let him know what’s been bothering me. He thought i was going to break up with him so after i started to express myself to him to he said this relationship is not working out for him. He said to me that I’m not his child, and i’m not what he’s looking for because he’s looking for someone who’s independent. If you felt like that about me why wait to tell me when we break up. Friday night we was perfectly fine and now i’m not what he’s looking for. He told me this time he means it and he only wants to be my friend. What should i do? He broke up with me before and said the same things but then we worked everything out. Does he really mean it or is he just upset at me. I think he feels like i only see the negative in him…which is not true. I always tell him thank you for all the things he’s done for me. I told him i cared about him and he said he cares about me too but a relationship can’t only be about caring for one another. He said we are in different places in our lives and it’s not working out. He said this before to me but we got back together. I called him on sunday to try to work things out but he didn’t want to hear it. I’m stronger today and have’t call him. I need some help. What should i do? I care about him so much and want to be back with him. It’s hurts. Help!!!!!
top411.tripod.com “How To Get Ex Girlfriend Back: She May Not Mean To Break Up” Its true that women can be dramatic and say or do things that they really dont mean. Many break ups are initiated by women, but oftentimes they are just being a drama queen and they dont really intend to break up. However, if you react to a break up badly, you may lose your girlfriend forever. So, first of all, to get ex girlfriend back, give her some space and dont call her. Give her a chance to learn what life without you is really like. She may not like staying in on a Saturday night. This also lets her know that you can live without her. Then she knows she must decide whether she wants you, because you are prepared to move on. This is an important tactic for the how to get ex girlfriend back strategy, because you may actually be desperate to make up with her. Still, you must appear to be detached. Dont make any dramatic gestures. Dont send flowers. Dont send a long love letter. And, dont stand under her window and sing! If she hasnt called you after about week, email her and casually ask how things are going. Keep things unemotional, as if you just want to stay friends. If this isnt enough, about once a week you can send her a text message, write on her Facebook wall, or call her. Occasionally show up some place where she hangs out. But dont bug her and be sure to talk with other people. Remember the important dates in her life. Always send a card or small gift on her birthday. Drop her a …
