well, this is the story i love my wife but she leaves me 3 months a year to visit her family regardless of what i think, and this is in another country, i truly love her, but seems that she just does not care…and now she asked for a baby, and again she says she must have the baby traveling with her for 3 months to russia, where she is from every year, since it is her need to do so and be with her people, her country, her friends, and her family… well i am myself not from the USA, and I am alone, I make pretty good money, but that’s not the point, is she really care about me, or it is me the selfish one… everybody tells me, leave her, she is sweet and everything but she just does not care about me as much as she does to other people… please help 
