i’m 21 with a new cat who is now about 6 months old-I’ve had her for about a month maybe a lil over.
when I was about 9 years old i got a kiten who i had up until I was a senior in high school (if you rememebr some odd years ago it came out on the news that there was antifreaze in the food-my cat at the time had pasted away right before that came out)
so in about 3 years i’ve finally gotten myself another cat. She is Luna- and approximately 6 motnsh now-she’s sometimes comes when I call her but in a sence not really-(i may just be so used to my old cat, i could be upstairs and call him, pat me bed and he’d come running and get in bed with me)
she does sometiems fallow me soemtiems i almost trip over her from her being right at my feet, i can go back and forth from one room to another but if i stay in a room she doesn’t always stay. I’m just wondering how i can stregnthen the bodn between us-where she wants to lay in my lap or just bbeside me, come to me when i call her.I do play with her, give her cat nip, feed her, change her litter, and even take her to the vet (jsut got back from getting medicine for worms and getting another shot for her) please and thanks!
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